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Best way to deal with people who illegally park in disabled spaces?

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  • Registered Users Posts: 10,790 ✭✭✭✭martingriff


    That's like saying I know someone who is claiming SW when they shouldn't so its okay if I do it



  • Registered Users Posts: 10,790 ✭✭✭✭martingriff


    While that is what they ask I have rang the DDAI at they always go just sent it back straight away. I live alone and drive myself. I think it is idiotic they tell a disabled driver sorry we need the old one back and tough s$%t if you need to go somewhere in that period of time



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,207 ✭✭✭highdef


    Assuming that you do not have a disability (you don't mention it so I can't assume that you do), is there any reason why you feel that it's ok for you to park in a disabled space? Are you just a lazy c.u.n.t. or are you just a selfish p.r.i.c.k? Or perhaps you're a combination of the two?



  • Registered Users Posts: 13,754 ✭✭✭✭cj maxx


    I was at a pharmacy in newry when a bitch I knew parked in the disabled spot outside the door. When I shouted to her to move , her response was " ill only be 2 minutes. So I blocked her in. When I met her in the pharmacy and she said I'm blocking her , i said ill only be 2 minutes. 🙂



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Good to know 👍

    (eta - you should post that in the other thread in disability forum, as it was causing some posters a lot of worry)

    Post edited by [Deleted User] on


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  • Registered Users Posts: 13,505 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    I only park in one if there are no regular spot available , if there are several disabled spots available ( which there always are due to the disproportionate number of them ) , I will use a disabled spot , not like il be parked there for several hours or anything and if a disabled driver arrives , they can use one of the other available spots



  • Registered Users Posts: 28,293 ✭✭✭✭looksee




  • Registered Users Posts: 7,551 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    The original poster, who said if it was someone with a badge, it's different.


    And to answer your question, that depends entirely on the nature of the disability. Someone, for example, with RA that impacts their eyes, may have to go regularly.



  • Registered Users Posts: 28,836 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    When you say “no regular spots available “, do you exclude the regular spots on the other side of the wall,that would require you to walk 20 metres, like you did in Athenry?

    Its a scummy thing to do.



  • Registered Users Posts: 13,505 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    more like 200 metres and I did not expect the person in their seventies to walk that distance as that was the age of the person I collected , I would not do that just to keep some power tripping do gooder content



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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Age doesn't come into it. Many a 70 year old would have no problem whatsoever walking that distance, at 70 my mother was walking her dogs 5 to 10 km a day. Fit as a fiddle.

    If whomever you were collecting can't walk 50 meters, which is the limit set down by DDAI and IWA, then they would qualify for a badge, and you could legitimately use a space while collecting a blue badge holder.

    The only person on a power trip here is you, acting the hard man and sticking up your fingers to the disabled just because you can.

    Like has been said, it's a scummy thing to do.



  • Registered Users Posts: 13,505 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    not at all , Were someone disabled to confront me , I would politely point to the fact that their were several other disabled spaces , I would not be in anyway hostile towards them as I would understand their gripe , My only standpoint is that there are far too many of them , I dont want there to be less of them but if i need to , I will use them , thats all



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,831 ✭✭✭Cork Lass


    My late father always used to say 'never argue with ignorance, it's a waste of time". He was very wise.



  • Registered Users Posts: 10,790 ✭✭✭✭martingriff


    Good to know @Mad_maxx is now saying what they mean by know place available he means he does not want to walk 20 extra meters but that had been shown already in this thread



  • Registered Users Posts: 907 ✭✭✭Jellybaby_1


    Several posters replied to me saying that I should not use a disabled space when trying to get my 90+ yr old relative with walking frame out of my car. I do understand the reasoning for your replies. I must stress that I never, absolutely never use a disabled space for myself personally or any other of my passengers. It is just this one lady and it certainly is not a common occurrence but it is just a rare treat for her. She lives alone with no close family. Although I say she is a relative of mine, she is a distant relative and I have absolutely no power to make her apply for a badge. Do you think I could apply for a badge for her without her permission or knowledge? I doubt it.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,618 ✭✭✭Allinall


    How would you ever need to use a disabled space?



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Jellybaby_1 I also understand your reasoning. In her later years, my mother also had a walking frame and could be difficult at times.

    But you are making excuses.

    You should impress on her that you could get clamped or fined for parking in a disability bay, and that it is a simple process to apply for one. Present her with the application form, arrange to take her to the doctor to get it signed, (if she is over 90 she will have a medical card so no cost to her) and then to get her photo taken and signed. Pop the applicaiton in the post, and that's it. Job done.

    If you are good enough to take her out, and she can't do that much for you in return, honestly, I would be rethinking my position on those trips.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,628 ✭✭✭Feisar


    I can handle myself but concrete is a great leveler. That 1% is why I avoid confrontation at all times. Why start a confrontation that could escalate? Silly buggers is all that is. The world suffers fools badly, moreso jumped up ones.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Registered Users Posts: 28,836 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Why? Because the world is a better place when people don't do scummy things like parking in disabled parking bays.

    200 metres? You know we've seen the photos of Athenry station car park? You tried to fool us about 'half the spaces' being disabled bays, but you really just made a fool of yourself. If the person can't walk any distance, you can drive up to the door to pick them up, but I guess that wouldn't be too convenient for YOU, which is apparently the important thing.



  • Registered Users Posts: 907 ✭✭✭Jellybaby_1


    Thank you Louze. That's a very sensible reply. That's what I will do.



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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Best of luck Jellybaby_1.

    My own badge is issued by the Irish Wheelchair Association. You can request an application form online for her if you know a few of her details. If not, give them a ring at 045-893094 or email at maats@iwa.ie and they will help you out.

    DDAI are also very helpful, they issued my Mam's badge.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,207 ✭✭✭highdef


    Very nice and understanding post and great advice by Loueze too as having the badge would be best. As it stands, even without the badge, dropping off your elderly relative who needs assistance would be extremely unlikely to cause any dispute with a member of the public as it's clear that your neighbour is less abled. Being alone in a disabled space whilst waiting to pick her up might draw attention but having said that, if you're in the vehicle and are approached by someone, you can explain the situation. It's only if you leave the vehicle and walk off somewhere that it be an issue with people, an understable one. The badge will solve everything though and it is very sound advice from Loueze.

    I'm sure you're not alone in your situation. Thanks to all those able people who are who are just so stunningly selfish, arrogant and phenomenally lazy by parking in a disabled parking space because they couldn't be arsed to walk from the other side of the car park (or sometimes not even that), you feel like you're doing wrong. Those same lazy people will likely be the same ones who will block you on the travelator as the sheer thought of putting one foot in front of the other almost gives them a coronary.

    I don't think it has ever happened to me before but if I were in a car park and there were no spaces left except disabled ones, I would describe the car park as full and would just go elsewhere. Having said that, I almost always park as far away as I can from other vehicles so I can walk that bit further.



  • Registered Users Posts: 4,275 ✭✭✭km991148



    In other words, if someone were to confront you you'd make the same pathetic excuse?

    It's a scumbag thing to do, just own it - no problem - but don't try and excuse it (They were all empty when I arrived.. yeah cool.. and what about 10 mins later when they are all full?).



  • Registered Users Posts: 5,868 ✭✭✭Cordell


    I think there should be mobile clinics that will provide a disability to people using the disability facility when they have no disability. On the first offence the disability will be temporary i.e. an anesthetic to a leg of your choice, on the second offence the provided disability will be permanent.


    I would make a great dictator.



  • Registered Users Posts: 28,836 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko




  • Registered Users Posts: 3 Monkey435


    The best way to deal with people parking in disabled spaces is to make them disabled.



  • Registered Users Posts: 13,505 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    Ive yet to witness every single disabled parking spot occupied , I notice things like that

    Im different to the frowning and disapproval so dont waste the buzzwords like " own it "



  • Registered Users Posts: 10,790 ✭✭✭✭martingriff


    For someone who does not care you tried a whole lot of excuses which were easily proven bull. You think you are entitled and even if there was only 1 you would sill park in it to save you walking (a luxury many people do not have) an extra few meters just admit you do not give a f



  • Registered Users Posts: 28,836 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    You've yet to witness every single parking spot occupied either, if you're being honest about it - but just like Athenry, you come up with excuses to justify your lazy, scummy action of parking in a disabled bay.

    You've still never explained your rationale for the 'too many disabled bays' position. If it is because you regularly find them unused, then surely the same logic applies to all parking bays in all car parks, which are regularly found to be unused?



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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,628 ✭✭✭Feisar


    Look, you do you. If trouble comes to my door, that's grand I've the nature to deal with it. But I'm not going to look for it attempting to right the wrongs in people.

    First they came for the socialists...



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