Married but stag party wants a strip club

thefallingman

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118466499#Comment_118466499

a bit much for you perhaps, not for me and others in this thread.

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058226806/married-but-stag-party-wants-a-strip-club

Also married with kids, glad to be out of the whole singleton life and was never into 'lads' nights out. I also don't drink.

Look if you're uncomfortable, just skip it. No one worthy of the name 'friend' will mind one bit. I have friends going back to childhood and I never went to their stags at all, let alone a strip club. It's just not my scene and they were cool with it. Make an appearance at some point, or don't.

893bet

Interesting “holier than you” comments coming out.

Not holding people in the same regard. And how people need a “better” group of friends.

Fascinating recent social perspective really as stripping is not exactly “new”.

seamus

You don't really have to opt yourself out of it, you don't really have to do anything at all there tbh. I was at a stag about a decade ago where they all decided a strip club was the place to go at the end of the night. I'd never been before, had no real desire to go, but I was still enjoying the night so went along.

Very non-plussed about the whole thing. The younger married/attached lads like myself either took a couch or stood around, drinking ordinary beer at expensive prices (think it was €6/7 a bottle). It was a higher-class place, so didn't feel "seedy". At the end of the day it was a room with loud music and a bunch of suggestively-dressed attractive women wandering around. Aside from the one on the stage taking her clothes off, you might as well have just been in an ordinary nightclub.

As a married man with no intention of getting a lapdance from a stranger and who has seen plenty of nudity, it was basically just boring. Some of the older lads (50s+) went to a "private" area, I didn't ask any further questions.

For the OP, you won't miss anything if you don't go. There's a good chance the strip club will be the end of the night, so I'd definitely poke some of the other lads who aren't single and arrange with them to go somewhere else instead.

the whole year inn

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118443520#Comment_118443520

Go home, leave wife , abondon kids.

Happiness

I could fit all that on my grave stone

To the OP go if you want , or head for a pint by your self , don't have to explain anything to anyone. If no one joins you so what . If it at the end of the night then head home.

c.p.w.g.w

Been in 2 strip clubs in my youth(rugby tour & lads holiday)...felt very uneasy in them, just not comfortable at all

Sono

married with kids myself, I was brought to a strip club on my own stag by the lads, I didn’t ask to go but I went along with it. One of the lads paid for a stripper for me.

going on a stag in a couple of months and I know for a fact the lads on the trip will want to go to a strip club, I will most likely avoid it.