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Attracting the wrong type of guy, over and over......

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  • #32
    SarahF77
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8 ✭SarahF77


    Thanks so much for all the genuine advice and support, I have since ended the relationship, didn't insult the guy, or mentioned my reasons why, just that I wasn't ready for anything at the moment, and was going to concentrate on my kids etc.....

    so no harm done, I'm sure he is now blaming me for all his problems, but nothing I can do about that, its just such a relief to be free :)


  • #33
    ILoveYourVibes
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,215 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    You are not being fussy.
    but he calls up to 10 times a days, ,


    This is crazy.
    he's not working (and seems happy enough not to look for work)

    I think this is an indication of deeper emotional issues. He is obviously not a coper.
    but his low mood, and pessimistic outlook is exhausting....

    No doubt.

    Banana Republic is dead right.

    You have to learn that saying no ..is not JUDGING people ...its realizing they are not right fit for you or just not what you want.

    I would not be a right fit for many a guy. So i don't try to fit a square peg into a round hole.

    IMO only let certain men have access to you. Choose men with the opposite personality traits for a start. Ones that don't text you every day. I mean ONCE a day even at the start is a lot. It kind of seems like they are trying to get their claws into you.

    He should have accomplished things in life that make him FIT IN with your life. He has to FIT you ...you seem to be molding yourself to fit them and their needs.

    He should have his own money his own home and car and his own goals. He should OPEN UP the world for you not keep it smaller and revolving around him.

    I guarantee you this guy doesn't have his own friends either. That is why he is calling you 10 times a day!

    Your life would get smaller and smaller.


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