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Hiding Communication from a previous love interest - Should I forgive?

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  • Posts: 4,575 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Thing is I was with him the other day and i'd been signed in to messenger on his phone as my batt had died and I was staying in his house overnight. I signed back out and just seen he'd a couple of messages (it gave the notification) not the messages himself.

    I just happened to glance and seen a girls name and what looked like a novel of a message. He quickly shut it down and just mentioned the other message from his cousin. I knew in my gut something was up. He walked me home and was like think i'll leave my phone here I don't need it.

    If he had anything to hide, he would not have given you his phone to sign into your messenger because your "batt had died" ;)

    When your battery dies, you borrow a charger.

    This is what happens when you "just happen to glance" - i.e. -start snooping on someone's phone. The guy probably knows you are of a suspicious nature, and didn't want the hassle of long explanations.

    You should both walk away. It all sounds too much like hard work.


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