Masturbation

Paddigol

grassylawn wrote: »

A few ruffled feathers! Little bit dramatic to talk about thought police, and it's a bit childish to call someone's PoV ridiculous just because you don't see things the same way.

I think there would be an observable difference in someone's behaviour around people they've recently fantasised about. Greenspurs said actually I don't think that is true for them at all. I found that interesting. Obviously I don't know what goes on in other people's heads and for all I know some of the most professional people I know **** obsessively about their underlings once work is finished.

As for what the norm is, I was curious and google told me that 40% of people reported masturbating over colleagues (with only a small difference between men and women).

Personally I don't find the idea of someone at work masturbating over me welcome, and I would find it more unwelcome if they were attractive. I'd find it gross if the person concerned had authority over me that they exercised in any way. I think I can tell that some people have, to be blunt.

From your posts you seem to think that you can tell a lot about most people. Unless you have professional experience in the area of psychology, I'd say you're grossly overestimating your own abilities and over simplifying the complexity of the human mind.

Every generation thinks that it is infinitely more liberal and liberated than the previous. The reality is that we're a hugely prudish species for which sex and sexuality is shockingly taboo.

grassylawn

Paddigol wrote: »

From your posts you seem to think that you can tell a lot about most people. Unless you have professional experience in the area of psychology, I'd say you're grossly overestimating your own abilities and over simplifying the complexity of the human mind.

Every generation thinks that it is infinitely more liberal and liberated than the previous. The reality is that we're a hugely prudish species for which sex and sexuality is shockingly taboo.

Utter bollocks. I literally said I have no idea what goes on in people's heads. I'm the one acknowledging that my view mightn't apply to everyone. Some of the responses have basically claimed their perception is the universal truth.

greenspurs

grassylawn wrote: »

Utter bollocks. I literally said I have no idea what goes on in people's heads. I'm the one acknowledging that my view mightn't apply to everyone. Some of the responses have basically claimed their perception is the universal truth.

You have gone on about
"Personally I don't find the idea of someone at work masturbating over me welcome, and I would find it more unwelcome if they were attractive. I'd find it gross if the person concerned had authority over me that they exercised in any way. I think I can tell that some people have, to be blunt"

"and for all I know some of the most professional people I know **** obsessively about their underlings once work is finished"

Authority, and Underlings ?!??
Dude , i dont know much about submissives....

Also, i think your idea about masturbation is a bit prudish. To be shocked/repulsed at the fact that men masturbate about female that they know, is a bit sheltered, hard to believe even.

And yes, women do masturbate about males... of course they do.

Zascar

I remember a thread from here a few years back and it went something along the lines of 'Do you think about other birds when you are riding your Mrs'... You can imagine the replies. One I found amusing was a woman who said she'd be shocked at the thought that anyone would do this and if she found out her other half did it, she would absolutely consider it cheating.

I didn't have the heart to tell her...

greenspurs

Someone removed their post :P


P0rn hub have removed up to 6million videos during their recent clampdown on verified videos !!
WOW!

Gael23

greenspurs wrote: »

Someone removed their post :P


P0rn hub have removed up to 6million videos during their recent clampdown on verified videos !!
WOW!

Didnt know a man rubbing his willy needs to be verified

Irish_rat

Jimmy Twotimes wrote: »

I'm one month into nofap and I feel great. I'm being way social at work, I'm more confident. I'm feeling more motivated and more 'clear headed'.

Aiming for at least 90 days. I want to undo the damage porn has done to my brain.

Keep us updated, this is important

Gael23

Irish_rat wrote: »

Keep us updated, this is important

Life is too short for nofap. Why deny yourself such pleasure?

Have any of you been able to blow a load by using prostate toys?

Sonics2k

greenspurs wrote: »

Someone removed their post :P


P0rn hub have removed up to 6million videos during their recent clampdown on verified videos !!
WOW!

I'm honestly so confused about people complaining about this. For years now people have had serious issues with Pornhub taking weeks, months, years and sometimes never removing videos uploaded without the permission of one of the participants, and that's not even including the rape and under age content.

Now you need to be verified to upload content, surely that's much better for people.

grassylawn

Sonics2k wrote: »

I'm honestly so confused about people complaining about this. For years now people have had serious issues with Pornhub taking weeks, months, years and sometimes never removing videos uploaded without the permission of one of the participants, and that's not even including the rape and under age content.

Now you need to be verified to upload content, surely that's much better for people.

Yeah I thought it was a lame publicity stunt until I read the reasons why they did it. Marginally reduced range of puirated porn online isn't a big deal in the context. (The reason was the ongoing presence of rape/underage/revenge porn.)

Glebee

Lockdown 3.0: Fap Harder....

Loafing Oaf

Jimmy Twotimes wrote: »

I'm one month into nofap and I feel great.
Aiming for at least 90 days. I want to undo the damage porn has done to my brain.

Polcel wrote: »

One month into nofap, feel great. I'm aiming for three months.

Either way I'm done with porn. That stuff rots your brain.

How odd. Almost like they were the same 'person'...

Tig98

Okay let's distinguish between a few things here.

Yeah porn isn't the best, should definitely never rely on it or use it all the time for **** material. Maturation on its own though is fine, as long as its not interfering with your day to day behaviour.

I masturbate at least once a day, if I dont then I get too distracted, loads of random boners and wet dreams. Its unhealthy to keep all that jizz pent up. Just bayt out one each morning to memory or fantasy and get on with your day.

Mister Vain

Abstaining completely can lead to wanksomnia.

Stigura

Mister Vain wrote: »

Abstaining completely can lead to wanksomnia.

True. Tis the difference between light and hard.

Gael23

Any Christmas **** done yet😂💦💦

Bogwoppit

Why do some lads need to use lube? Is it a circumcision thing? Never got the **** sock thing either.

Mister Vain

Bogwoppit wrote: »

Why do some lads need to use lube? Is it a circumcision thing? Never got the **** sock thing either.

Either that or the foreskin is as taut as a drum. The **** sock is a strange one alright.

Gael23

Bogwoppit wrote: »

Why do some lads need to use lube? Is it a circumcision thing? Never got the **** sock thing either.

I’m circumcised so I dint have natural friction. Have jerked dry a few times but it’s not as good and takes way longer to “produce”

On another note is it normal to need a wee straight after you cum?

greenspurs

Bogwoppit wrote: »

Why do some lads need to use lube? Is it a circumcision thing? Never got the **** sock thing either.

probably,
If using a toy you would need lube too.

Irish_rat

Gael23 wrote: »

Any Christmas **** done yet😂💦💦

Just the one but it was worth it.

Anyone nofap'n in 2021 😅

Stigura

Put me down as yet another who has never fathomed this " **** Sock " thing.

What the hell does anyone Do with a bloody sock???

Irish_rat

Tantric Cola wrote: »

I'm going to see if I can quit masturbating for the entire year of 2021.

If you're single this would be some challenge!

Loafing Oaf

Tantric Cola wrote: »

I'm going to see if I can quit masturbating for the entire year of 2021.

I suppose if you stick to tantric **** you can technically say you're abstaining...

breezy1985

Tantric Cola wrote: »

Not single. My previous best streak was 23 days. So it's ambitious to go 365 days. But what I usually do notice by about day 18 is significant increase in motivation to do things like learn a language or a musical instrument or take up boxing or some other martial art. Then I masturbate and the motivation is gone.

Brilliant

Mister Vain

Tantric Cola wrote: »

Not single. My previous best streak was 23 days. So it's ambitious to go 365 days. But what I usually do notice by about day 18 is significant increase in motivation to do things like learn a language or a musical instrument or take up boxing or some other martial art. Then I masturbate and the motivation is gone.

Funny that, I just get increased motivation to shag everything in sight.

Lockdown Romance

I am abstaining too and feeling great. The first week was tough but now I'm feeling like a new man.

I am way more motivated and also sociable. I have read that when you ejaculate your body produces prolactin which temporarily kills your sex drive. The theory is that by constantly **** you are keeping your sex drive low and thus your motivation low.

Maybe it's broscience but I can see the logic.

Lockdown Romance

Mister Vain wrote: »

Funny that, I just get increased motivation to shag everything in sight.

Probably because your T levels are elevated.

greenspurs

Last one of 2020 ?!

Gael23

greenspurs wrote: »

Last one of 2020 ?!

7 hours left. Plenty of time to bang out one more 💦💦