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  • Registered Users Posts: 30,428 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    wildeside wrote: »
    Why not just change the legal status of adulthood to 16 years of age and let adults do what they want (more or less)? I mean if you're mature, informed, cognitively developed, level-headed, emotionally stable and wise enough to the degree that you want to initiate the process of something as fundamental as an identify change, then surely that qualifies you as an adult, no? If this doesn't qualify you then what does? And what then is the argument against lowering the age of consent to 16? Anyone?

    I think around 2014 or sometime 16 and 17 year old could married with parental consent and they had to go to court but this is no longer possible!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,916 ✭✭✭ronivek


    blanch152 wrote: »
    The problem with the under-16 issue is that under-16s cannot agree to get married, have sex, make medical decisions, vote, drive, smoke, drink alcohol etc. Why would they be any more able to decide to change gender?

    Well I think one important distinction here is that under-16s already have sex, make medical decisions, smoke, drink alcohol, etc.

    So one question to consider: should under 16s be allowed to seek treatment for medical conditions? Allowed to seek treatment for Sexually Transmitted Disease? Access contraception? Seek treatment to stop smoking? Seek treatment for alcohol or drug addiction? I would argue they absolutely should be allowed do all of those things.

    So take that a little further: should under 16s be allowed to seek treatment for depression, anxiety, or any other issues with their mental health? Again I would argue they absolutely should.

    So I think for me it comes down to what the medical consensus would be around one particular question: does allowing children who identify as a particular gender to be legally recognised as that gender improve their mental health or quality of life?

    Personally I don't know the answer to that question and haven't looked into it to any great degree: but I would much rather our medical professionals make that determination in conjunction with the parents of individual children rather than our legislators.

    (Also I'm not talking about gender reassignment treatment here; just legal recognition as per the recommendations and legislation mentioned in this thread)


  • Registered Users Posts: 171 ✭✭wildeside


    Bannasidhe wrote: »


    My point (which I used the age of consent to illustrate) was that surely if we can entrust 16 yr olds to make decisions on something as fudamental as an identity change we can entrust them to make many other adult like decisions and like when to have sex, whether to smoke, drink, take drugs, drive a motorbike etc, no? I'm not sure I see a difference in principle. We can say you're not old or wise enough to do all these other things but you are when it comes to changing identity? Why not legally treat 16 yr olds as adults?


  • Registered Users Posts: 171 ✭✭wildeside


    ronivek wrote: »
    ...but I would much rather our medical professionals make that determination in conjunction with the parents of individual children rather than our legislators.


    100% agree with this. I think any truly compassionate person would want the best for any child in this scenario. I think any child self-diagnosing what they think the root of their problems is no less dangerous than self-diagnosing a medical condition.


  • Registered Users Posts: 7,447 ✭✭✭Calhoun


    This is nothing to do with dropping the age of consent to 12. Stop making things up.

    Of course not right away Joey, has to be eased into bit by bit.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 41,053 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Calhoun wrote: »
    Of course not right away Joey, has to be eased into bit by bit.

    Nah. You are making it up.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users Posts: 5,875 ✭✭✭Edgware


    I think around 2014 or sometime 16 and 17 year old could married with parental consent and they had to go to court but this is no longer possible!

    They want to do away with our culture Boss


  • Registered Users Posts: 7,447 ✭✭✭Calhoun


    Nah. You are making it up.

    Its an opinion based on what we see going on internationally, the optimal goal for allot of these groups is to start the transition before puberty.

    It's the same strategy we have seen for other campaigns it will be bit by bit move and will more than likely end with more hyperbolic ****e a out how we are killing them by forcing them to go through medical professionals.


  • Registered Users Posts: 41,053 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Calhoun wrote: »
    Its an opinion based on what we see going on internationally, the optimal goal for allot of these groups is to start the transition before puberty.

    Ah right you are not talking about the age of sexual consent.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,840 ✭✭✭TomTomTim


    Nah. You are making it up.

    How confident are you? Can we bookmark this and you can write an apology and admit how wrong you were if it eventually happens? Or would you maybe be willing to make a bet about it? I'll stake a good chunk of money that you'll be wrong as usual; a state you must be well used to by now. After all, I've saved a fortune by dumping my rubbish near travellers, so I've plenty of spare money.

    “The man who lies to himself can be more easily offended than anyone else. You know it is sometimes very pleasant to take offense, isn't it? A man may know that nobody has insulted him, but that he has invented the insult for himself, has lied and exaggerated to make it picturesque, has caught at a word and made a mountain out of a molehill--he knows that himself, yet he will be the first to take offense, and will revel in his resentment till he feels great pleasure in it.”- ― Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov




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  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 19,219 Mod ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    wildeside wrote: »
    My point (which I used the age of consent to illustrate) was that surely if we can entrust 16 yr olds to make decisions on something as fudamental as an identity change we can entrust them to make many other adult like decisions and like when to have sex, whether to smoke, drink, take drugs, drive a motorbike etc, no? I'm not sure I see a difference in principle. We can say you're not old or wise enough to do all these other things but you are when it comes to changing identity? Why not legally treat 16 yr olds as adults?

    16 year olds already have sex.

    There are direct health implications of smoking, drinking, and taking drugs (which if you are referring to illegal drugs... is illegal for all ages) but 16 years olds do all of those anyway.
    Ditto drive motorbikes...and I swear over half the tractors on our roads are driven by 12 year olds (it's actually 13 in fields etc and allowed on the road legally aged 16).

    16 year old can consent to medical procedures.
    They can leave school and enter employment - including full-time 40 hr week - and fully liable for tax/USC.
    They can babysit.
    Drive motorbikes up to 125cc
    Drive a work vehicle including a JCB.
    Drive a jet ski and motorboat.
    Apply for a firearms certificate.
    Get a tattoo or piercing.

    I have to say, driving a tractor on the public highway, owning a firearm, consenting to a surgical procedure, and working a full-time job are all fairly adult in my book.




    In Scotland and Wales they can vote.

    We have one of the highest ages of consent in Europe, Sweden, Denmark, Poland, France and Greece are all 15 — the most common in the Union. The Germans and Italians have opted for a year lower at 14 while the British, Dutch, Portuguese and Belgians lie an equal distance the other side of the median, at 16.


  • Registered Users Posts: 7,447 ✭✭✭Calhoun


    Ah right you are not talking about the age of sexual consent.

    No sorry, this thread is getting confusing. Too many topics at once. To clarify I haven't seen anyone in Ireland even hint at lowering sexual age of consent.


  • Registered Users Posts: 171 ✭✭wildeside


    Pg3 of the Irish Governments "Review of the Gender Recognition Act 2015 - 2018 Report to the Minister for Employment Affairs and Social Protection" report shows the expert group involved, serious lack of gender diversity ironically enough.

    P14 states "The majority of submissions were broadly supportive of a simplified and more flexible arrangement for children aged 16/17 years; and were also supportive of extending provision for gender recognition to children under 16
    years and persons who are non-binary
    "

    I can't possibly see where this might be going, can you?

    My major concern with this entire issue is that it's been politicised, framed in terms of "identity politics" i.e. a marginalised minority group who's differentiation factor in this case just happens to be gender identity rather than say something like skin colour or sex.

    Rarely do I hear this discussion framed in terms of the (neurological/psychological/sociological) science behind the arguments. That's when you know some people (often clueless NGOs) are out to pick a fight and win at all costs, even if the cost is the actual welfare of children.

    And you know something is up when you see how ideologically charged a topic like this is online, how much trouble questioning the orthodoxy can get you in.


  • Registered Users Posts: 171 ✭✭wildeside


    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    16 year olds already have sex.

    There are direct health implications of smoking, drinking, and taking drugs (which if you are referring to illegal drugs... is illegal for all ages) but 16 years olds do all of those anyway.
    Ditto drive motorbikes...and I swear over half the tractors on our roads are driven by 12 year olds (it's actually 13 in fields etc and allowed on the road legally aged 16).

    16 year old can consent to medical procedures.
    They can leave school and enter employment - including full-time 40 hr week - and fully liable for tax/USC.
    They can babysit.
    Drive motorbikes up to 125cc
    Drive a work vehicle including a JCB.
    Drive a jet ski and motorboat.
    Apply for a firearms certificate.
    Get a tattoo or piercing.

    I have to say, driving a tractor on the public highway, owning a firearm, consenting to a surgical procedure, and working a full-time job are all fairly adult in my book.




    In Scotland and Wales they can vote.

    We have one of the highest ages of consent in Europe, Sweden, Denmark, Poland, France and Greece are all 15 — the most common in the Union. The Germans and Italians have opted for a year lower at 14 while the British, Dutch, Portuguese and Belgians lie an equal distance the other side of the median, at 16.


    It could be argued that some of those things (e.g. owning a firearm, driving a JCB, jetski, getting tattoo's) shouldn't be done by 16 year old bags of hormones (particulary testosterone) but that's another story.


    My point is still this, what is the substantive difference between a 16 yr old deciding to change their identity and making any other major adult like decision like who to marry, for example? Surely if a child says that the source of their anguish is their gender identity then equally we should listen to a child that says the source of their anguish is the fact they they're not married to person X and let them marry person X and support them in that decision?


    Shouldn't granting this level of autonomy and respect to a 16 yr old not automatically grant them all the rights, respect and autonomgy of an adult? If not, why not?


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 19,219 Mod ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    wildeside wrote: »
    It could be argued that some of those things (e.g. owning a firearm, driving a JCB, jetski, getting tattoo's) shouldn't be done by 16 year old bags of hormones (particulary testosterone) but that's another story.


    My point is still this, what is the substantive difference between a 16 yr old deciding to change their identity and making any other major adult like decision like who to marry, for example? Surely if a child says that the source of their anguish is their gender identity then equally we should listen to a child that says the source of their anguish is the fact they they're not married to person X and let them marry person X and support them in that decision?


    Doesn't granting this level of autonomy and respect to a 16 yr old not automatically grant them all the rights, respect and autonomgy of an adult? If not, why not?

    I honestly cannot answer what the thinking is behind this - all I know is that the suggestion came from FG and as part of the PfG it will be 'discussed'.

    Just looking at what 16 year olds can legally do you have to admit some of that stuff is very adult so in some ways they are treated as adults and in others not.

    Some of the age stuff looks very arbitrary - a 16 in Spain/Germany/UK can get married, but they would have to wait until they are 18 in Switzerland and Sweden.

    A 16 year old can get married in Derry but not in Donegal.

    If an 19 year old male and a 16 year female got legally married in Limavady and went to Bundoran for their honeymoon could the 19 year old could be arrested for statutory rape?


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,174 ✭✭✭ceadaoin.


    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    I honestly cannot answer what the thinking is behind this - all I know is that the suggestion came from FG and as part of the PfG it will be 'discussed'.

    Just looking at what 16 year olds can legally do you have to admit some of that stuff is very adult so in some ways they are treated as adults and in others not.

    Some of the age stuff looks very arbitrary - a 16 in Spain/Germany/UK can get married, but they would have to wait until they are 18 in Switzerland and Sweden.

    A 16 year old can get married in Derry but not in Donegal.

    If an 19 year old male and a 16 year female got legally married in Limavady and went to Bundoran for their honeymoon could the 19 year old could be arrested for statutory rape?

    Do you honestly that a 16 year old has the mental capacity to consent to marriage though, now matter how mature or "in love" they think they are? And should this be allowed legally?

    Germany raised the marriage age to 18 btw. England is 16 with parental consent. Spain was previously 14 before they raised it to 16, thats shocking tbh!


  • Registered Users Posts: 263 ✭✭Fleetwoodmac


    Little consideration appears to have been taken in terms of decision making and critical thinking from a neurological and developmental point of view, the marked absence in terms of clinicians on the review committee shows a flaw from the outset. it is well known and acknowledged that while a teenager can perform as well as an adult on say, standardised cognitive tests, when emotion comes into the equation, the decision making becomes heavily influenced by emotion and not logic. Adolescence is that crucial period where identity is explored, where mistakes are made and made again, where we tease out where we fit and where we don't. This is a crucial phase of development, borne from neurological and developmental research on frontal lobe (the decision making part of the brain) research. The issue with the age is there is considerable variation between that developmental stage in one 16 year old over another. That variability narrows somewhat as we get older.
    Citing that a 16 year old can vote, etc etc is really irrelevant in this scenario. It really is imperative that we have clinicians working with teenagers, who are not swayed by societal or political ideology and remain true to the robust neurological and developmental research.

    This article gives a useful critique in terms of Tavistocks experience and in the absence of such a facility in Ireland should be referenced.

    https://www.google.ie/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjxnZDKmb7qAhXZVRUIHQ0RAM4QFjAAegQICBAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fquillette.com%2F2020%2F01%2F17%2Fwhy-i-resigned-from-tavistock-trans-identified-children-need-therapy-not-just-affirmation-and-drugs%2F&usg=AOvVaw2f7zafXG6w_J6g6iI8990s


  • Registered Users Posts: 28,835 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Gruffalox wrote: »
    Hmmm. The Sara Philips on the committee bit is an unexpected layer.

    Unexpected because?
    Calhoun wrote: »
    Of course not right away Joey, has to be eased into bit by bit.
    TomTomTim wrote: »
    How confident are you? Can we bookmark this and you can write an apology and admit how wrong you were if it eventually happens? Or would you maybe be willing to make a bet about it? I'll stake a good chunk of money that you'll be wrong as usual; a state you must be well used to by now. After all, I've saved a fortune by dumping my rubbish near travellers, so I've plenty of spare money.

    Ah, the old 'slippery slope' argument. Nice to see you again. It's been a while. I haven't seen you since you told us that we couldn't have marriage equality because people would want to marry their horse.

    Good old scare tactics on some very sensitive matters - I suppose we should be grateful that you're not threatening fire and brimstone and eternal damnation.

    Its about exposing children to sexuality at an early age, a creeping, gradual sexualisation of kids. Then inevitably a lowering of the age of consent. A lowering the bar of what is considered Paedophilia.
    In this clip we see Mr Tatchell asking who has the right to judge whether a 9 year old child was abused if the grown adult (in later years) says he enjoyed it?

    https://twitter.com/RebBarrettNP/status/1280598710074986497




    This is where they want to bring us. I don't care if any Homosexuals are uncomfortable with that, couldn't give a flying fcuk to be honest.

    What the likes of Mr Tatchell consider to be Paedophilia (which he says he's against) is an adult molesting a child, as in the child does not want it to happen.
    But in the eyes of Mr Tatchell, if the child consents well then thats not a problem in his eyes.

    Why do people think they're planning on teaching consent classes in primary schools?
    At that age there is no consent

    Interesting Twitter account to quote there - is that Justin 'anti-divorce' Barrett's 2nd missus?

    But anyway, given your concern for early sexualisation of children, wait till you hear about the strange ritual that involves dressing eight year old girls up as brides and parading them in front of men in embroidered gowns. You'd be against that sort of thing, right?


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 19,219 Mod ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    ceadaoin. wrote: »
    Do you honestly that a 16 year old has the mental capacity to consent to marriage though, now matter how mature or "in love" they think they are? And should this be allowed legally?

    Germany raised the marriage age to 18 btw. England is 16 with parental consent. Spain was previously 14 before they raised it to 16, thats shocking tbh!

    I honestly think 20 year olds don't have the mental capacity to understand marriage but that's beside the point.
    I'm not proposing anything, I just pointed out that even on this island 16 year olds can marry. Do 16 year olds in Armagh have a greater mental capacity than one's in Galway?

    We will have to wait and see what emerges from the discussion within government to get a handle on where they are going, if anywhere, with this. Once I see what they Actually propose I'll decide whether or not I agree.
    Until then it's an unknown so I'm not invested in it either way.


  • Registered Users Posts: 171 ✭✭wildeside


    Little consideration appears to have been taken in terms of decision making and critical thinking from a neurological and developmental point of view, the marked absence in terms of clinicians on the review committee shows a flaw from the outset. it is well known and acknowledged that while a teenager can perform as well as an adult on say, standardised cognitive tests, when emotion comes into the equation, the decision making becomes heavily influenced by emotion and not logic. Adolescence is that crucial period where identity is explored, where mistakes are made and made again, where we tease out where we fit and where we don't. This is a crucial phase of development, borne from neurological and developmental research on frontal lobe (the decision making part of the brain) research. The issue with the age is there is considerable variation between that developmental stage in one 16 year old over another. That variability narrows somewhat as we get older.
    Citing that a 16 year old can vote, etc etc is really irrelevant in this scenario. It really is imperative that we have clinicians working with teenagers, who are not swayed by societal or political ideology and remain true to the robust neurological and developmental research.

    This article gives a useful critique in terms of Tavistocks experience and in the absence of such a facility in Ireland should be referenced.

    https://www.google.ie/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjxnZDKmb7qAhXZVRUIHQ0RAM4QFjAAegQICBAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fquillette.com%2F2020%2F01%2F17%2Fwhy-i-resigned-from-tavistock-trans-identified-children-need-therapy-not-just-affirmation-and-drugs%2F&usg=AOvVaw2f7zafXG6w_J6g6iI8990s




    That linked article should be mandatory reading for anyone who even thinks about discussing this topic. Then again, if you're some morally superior virtue signalling 'ally' then how good you feel about yourself is way more important than facts, science or any damage your blind ideological thinking might inflict on other people.


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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Arts Moderators, Entertainment Moderators Posts: 20,651 CMod ✭✭✭✭amdublin


    Hey OP, you really have a bee in your bonnet about O'Gorman don't you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,023 ✭✭✭Gruffalux


    Unexpected because?

    /quote]

    Because you missed a deleted post where Sara was in a group of 5 presenters on the podium in 2018 at a side event discussion at Dublin Pride with Peter Tatchell.


  • Registered Users Posts: 28,835 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Gruffalox wrote: »
    Unexpected because?

    Because you missed a deleted post where Sara was in a group of 5 presenters on the podium in 2018 at a side event discussion at Dublin Pride with Peter Tatchell.

    So anyone who's ever been in the same room as him is now tainted for life and can't be considered for any relevant position?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,023 ✭✭✭Gruffalux


    So anyone who's ever been in the same room as him is now tainted for life and can't be considered for any relevant position?

    Sara was not just in the same room as him.

    And yeah, I think he is a creep. I would not share a platform with him. Or anyone I think is that kind of a real creep, no matter if I shared different aims with them. Just would not be able to get past their previous.


  • Registered Users Posts: 7,447 ✭✭✭Calhoun


    Ah, the old 'slippery slope' argument. Nice to see you again. It's been a while. I haven't seen you since you told us that we couldn't have marriage equality because people would want to marry their horse.

    Good old scare tactics on some very sensitive matters - I suppose we should be grateful that you're not threatening fire and brimstone and eternal damnation.

    Oh dear this coming from the poster linking a twitter post about how people are being "killed".

    Nice touch comparing it to the same sex marriage, nice little strawman to try and confuse the argument. The difference is internationally we can see where the trans activism wants to go with it, the end goal is pretty evident.

    Its pretty formulaic how these things work at this stage, needle away at them bit by bit before finally having a campaign about how people are being "killed" because of the lack of services.


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,499 ✭✭✭political analyst


    https://gript.ie/toibin-children-who-cant-vote-drive-or-drink-can-make-decision-to-changer-gender/?fbclid=IwAR3a9NvAaEajVxvmatNm2AjrvDjtZjqgkDgSWw1gBdVuVW4cm6lwsBBLvMA
    Aontú Leader Peadar Tóibín TD has called on the government to allow children their childhood, and not drag children as young as 5 years old into adult gender politics.

    “The new Children’s Minister Roderic O’Gorman seeks to change the law to allow for 16- and 17-year olds self-declare their gender possibly without parental consent. The Minister is also looking legalise the self-declaration of gender for children as young as 5 years old,” he said.

    “The Minister is seeking to legalise what is a massive, complex, life altering decision for children who are too young to vote, drive, take an alcoholic drink or decide even to use a Sun Bed,” the Meath West Deputy said.

    https://gript.ie/revealed-expert-advice-behind-kids-changing-gender/

    The review group that gave the "expert advice" and set-up by Regina Doherty has no medical professional in it.

    How can a government think it's OK to let anyone under 18 years self-declare gender - especially when people under 18 years are not allowed to vote or consume alcohol and those under 17 are not allowed to learn to drive motor vehicles?

    PS: Whatever anyone thinks of Gript or Aontú, this is a concern that must not be brushed off.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,402 ✭✭✭Quantum Erasure


    What's the current stance on gender reassignment surgery / hormone therapy / puberty blockers for under 18s?


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,914 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Threads merged


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 128 ✭✭oyvey


    Home schooling is starting to look more and more necessary.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 838 ✭✭✭The_Brood


    How did voters choose this direction?


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