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Have you texted your ex?

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    #62
    Porklife
    Registered Users Posts: 1,681 ✭✭✭Porklife


    pgj2015 wrote: »
    I wouldn't agree with the part i have in bold. it never once crossed my mind if the person im seeing had great sex with ex partners of theirs. only jealous possessive people think like that.

    That's not what I meant. I mean if you love someone but you break up and they get with someone else but then you end up getting back together, I think it's fair to say you'd wonder if the sex between them was amazing.
    That doesn't make someone possessive, it makes them human.
    I'm with a guy now and I don't care about his exes or previous one nights stands but if we broke up and he started seeing someone new then we reunited, I would definitely think about it. There's a difference. Trust has already been shaken and loyalty has been tested.
    It would invariably cross your mind.


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    #63
    pgj2015
    Registered Users Posts: 8,976 ✭✭✭pgj2015


    Porklife wrote: »
    That's not what I meant. I mean if you love someone but you break up and they get with someone else but then you end up getting back together, I think it's fair to say you'd wonder if the sex between them was amazing.
    That doesn't make someone possessive, it makes them human.
    I'm with a guy now and I don't care about his exes or previous one nights stands but if we broke up and he started seeing someone new then we reunited, I would definitely think about it. There's a difference. Trust has already been shaken and loyalty has been tested.
    It would invariably cross your mind.




    It honestly wouldn't cross my mind, even if she was seeing a porn star. relationships aren't all about sex anyway.


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    #64
    Porklife
    Registered Users Posts: 1,681 ✭✭✭Porklife


    pgj2015 wrote: »
    It honestly wouldn't cross my mind, even if she was seeing a porn star. relationships aren't all about sex anyway.

    I know and never said they are all about sex. My point is simply that it would cross most people's minds.


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    #65
    LeYouth
    Closed Accounts Posts: 161 ✭✭LeYouth


    No i couldn't stand her. And she couldn't stand me either.

    I had a few acquaintances text me, but i swiftly told each of them.....So WHY are you texting me now.

    Apparently they were bored - my response - fuk off. Lol. Amn't i Gods gift to women. Haha.


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    #66
    pgj2015
    Registered Users Posts: 8,976 ✭✭✭pgj2015


    Porklife wrote: »
    I know and never said they are all about sex. My point is simply that it would cross most people's minds.



    Im not sure it would but we will agree to disagree.


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    #67
    Porklife
    Registered Users Posts: 1,681 ✭✭✭Porklife


    pgj2015 wrote: »
    Im not sure it would but we will agree to disagree.

    Agreed ðŸ™႒


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    #68
    Giraffe Box
    Closed Accounts Posts: 259 ✭✭Giraffe Box


    ''All my exes live in Texas,
    that's why I hang my hat in Tyrrellspass''


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    #69
    the purple tin
    Registered Users Posts: 10,943 ✭✭✭✭the purple tin


    PmMeUrDogs wrote: »
    Three checked in. Two were looking to get laid, one was just checking in cause he's a nice man.


    They all want to get laid, Mr Nice just knows how to play the long game ;)


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    #70
    harry Bailey esq
    Registered Users Posts: 4,814 ✭✭✭harry Bailey esq


    bitofabind wrote: »
    I thought this was just a funny instagram meme at first. And then I started hearing from random guys I've had everything from a relationship to a "thing" with in the past.

    You've just outted yerself as a woman... You'll have plenty of messages now.


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    #71
    bitofabind
    Registered Users Posts: 939 ✭✭✭bitofabind


    harry Bailey esq wrote: »
    You've just outted yerself as a woman... You'll have plenty of messages now.

    Well no. I could also be a gay man. I’m not. But I could be. *awaits torrent of PMs*


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    #72
    suicide_circus
    Registered Users Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    i texted exs when i was single sure. doubt i would have had tinder been invented tbh. also received ex texts, there was something about me finding a nice girl that made me very attractive. but i did not eat of that fruit.
    Vade retro Satana!!


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    #73
    lainey_d_123
    Registered Users Posts: 2,385 ✭✭✭lainey_d_123


    Yes, I have been in contact with a few. We're in a global pandemic and I think it's somewhat normal to wonder how people you were once very close to, met their family and whatnot, are getting on. I have a few exes scattered around the world and it's been quite interesting to hear how things are where they are compared to over here and how they're dealing with it. Have even had a Skype chat with a couple of them, over a glass of wine or two. Nothing untoward, just a chat and a laugh...have loads of spare time and little social interaction, so I enjoyed it tbh.


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    #74
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Closest I've come to this is re-matching with someone I had previously matched with on Tinder and had 2 or 3 messages of awkward smalltalk with before it inevitably fizzled out and I deleted my account in frustration....


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