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A little help please

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  • #32
    LegacyUser
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    @tara73

    Yes if the roles were reversed I'm sure he'd have no problem. That's me being honest. He'd bring it all back to trust and that he trusts me.
    As for meeting her, I did suggest it jokingly but to be honest I just don't want to. I have no problem with her, have said hello to her many a time in passing etc. I don't see why my partner can't just keep it to pleasantrys also.


  • #33
    Idle Passerby
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    Original poster 178384864458 wrote: »
    I have no problem with her, have said hello to her many a time in passing etc. I don't see why my partner can't just keep it to pleasantrys also.

    Because he sees the other woman as the major relationship in his life. You are just someone passing through whereas she will always be in his life. I wouldn't stick around to be second-best if I were you.


  • #34
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks to everyone for all the replies. The issue at hand hasn’t been mentioned the last few days. I pretty much left it at “ ok you go see your ex and I won’t give you hassle “, but said with hope that it won’t happen. A part of me wishes I didn’t say that because I feel I’ll start to live with the anxiety that he’ll come back home some day saying he was out with her.
    Anyway, I’d like the mods to leave this open. I’ll keep an eye on all replies and I promise I’ll update when further information comes. Thanks x


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