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Sex as Fun (?)

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    #122
    Leg End Reject
    Registered Users Posts: 16,395 ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    What a bizarre thread.
    https://forumofgames.com/index.php

    >>> Staying Alive <<<



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    #123
    facehugger99
    Registered Users Posts: 7,225 ✭✭✭facehugger99


    Is this the correct place to humble brag about the great sex I’m having?


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    #124
    BorneTobyWilde
    Registered Users Posts: 35,707 ✭✭✭✭BorneTobyWilde


    Leg End Reject wrote: »
    What a bizarre thread.


    Shut up and kiss me


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    #125
    Purple Mountain
    Registered Users Posts: 13,021 ✭✭✭✭Purple Mountain


    BorneTobyWilde wrote: »
    Shut up and kiss me

    Straight in, no kissin'.

    To thine own self be true



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    #126
    Leg End Reject
    Registered Users Posts: 16,395 ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    BorneTobyWilde wrote: »
    Shut up and kiss me

    We have to decide it will be fun first ...
    https://forumofgames.com/index.php

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    #127
    Anus Von Skidmark
    Registered Users Posts: 181 ✭✭Anus Von Skidmark


    Purple Mountain wrote: »
    Straight in, no kissin'.

    Brace yourself, Bridie - I'm goin' in dry...


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    #128
    BorneTobyWilde
    Registered Users Posts: 35,707 ✭✭✭✭BorneTobyWilde


    Leg End Reject wrote: »
    We have to decide it will be fun first ...


    Fun is what you make it, I declare tongue war on you .


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    #129
    Porklife
    Registered Users Posts: 1,681 ✭✭✭Porklife


    Raconteuse wrote: »
    That's not what the OP or I or Bitofabind are saying though. We are saying that the word "fun" doesn't do good sex justice. That it's way more of an intense experience than that.

    This. "Fun" just doesn't seem the right word. It's what I associate with having a laugh at an event people consider a laugh, like, for example, an 80s night (as first suggested by Porklife) or karaoke as suggested by Bitofabind. Whatever you're having.

    Indeed. They're even resorting to insults (some of same would be leaping at the opportunity to tell others how unpleasant they are - "do as I say, not as I do!") based on nothing. They're the ones getting wound up over the discussion of the word! And the thread wasn't even started by me. Jeez like, calm down with the lazy pot shots. I know what extremely good sex is like, and it's a lot better than "fun" imo.

    I actually do understand what you mean now. I was lost earlier. Hmmm still think I'd describe it as fun though in conjunction with passionate, intimate etc. This thread makes sex pretty unsexy though I gotta say. Never gave much thought to how I'd describe it and how accurate my description is


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    #130
    JupiterKid
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 12,600 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    I think this thread really shows the differences men and women have in thier approach to sex -

    women take sex much more seriously than men and think describing the act as "fun" does it a great disservice, whereas men are much more likely to take a blase and casual attitute to sex. Its more of a sport/ intense recreational activity for them...


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    #131
    Obvious Desperate Breakfasts
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    JupiterKid wrote: »
    I think this thread really shows the differences men and women have in thier approach to sex -

    women take sex much more seriously than men and think describing the act as "fun" does it a great disservice, whereas men are much more likely to take a blase and casual attitute to sex. Its more of a sport/ intense recreational activity for them...

    No, I’m a woman in the ‘sex is fun’ camp.


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    #132
    EmmetSpiceland
    Registered Users Posts: 10,541 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »
    No, I’m a woman in the ‘sex is fun’ camp.

    With the caveat of “as long as it’s with the right person and there are feelings involved”?

    The tide is turning…



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    #133
    Woke Hogan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,630 ✭✭✭Woke Hogan


    EmmetSpiceland wrote: »
    With the caveat of “as long as it’s with the right person and there are feelings involved”?
    You don't have to until you feel like you're ready, Emmet.


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    #134
    Anus Von Skidmark
    Registered Users Posts: 181 ✭✭Anus Von Skidmark


    Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »
    No, I’m a woman in the ‘sex is fun’ camp.

    How you doin'? ;-)


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    #135
    EmmetSpiceland
    Registered Users Posts: 10,541 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    Woke Hogan wrote: »
    You don't have to until you feel like you're ready, Emmet.

    Haha, very funny, old man.

    Don’t you worry about me. I, certainly, “put it about” before settling down with my partner.

    And, I should add, it was, always, a lot of “fun”.

    The tide is turning…



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    #136
    Woke Hogan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,630 ✭✭✭Woke Hogan


    EmmetSpiceland wrote: »
    Haha, very funny, old man.

    Don’t you worry about me. I, certainly, “put it about” before settling down with my partner.

    And, I should add, it was, always, a lot of “fun”.
    That's "all" "it" "was" a lot of, "I presume."


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    #137
    Homelander
    Registered Users Posts: 4,361 ✭✭✭Homelander


    Why would we have to assign it a single word to begin with. When someone says 'sex is fun', no more than anything else being fun, they don't literally mean it's solely fun and absolutely no other emotion or sensation can be attributed to it.

    Sex is fun. Sex is also more than just fun. Sometimes how you feel about sex and how it physically feels varies dependent on a load of factors, like most things in life. Both statements are right and neither are incorrect. Total non-thread. How did it get to 9 pages.


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    #138
    EmmetSpiceland
    Registered Users Posts: 10,541 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    Woke Hogan wrote: »
    That's "all" "it" "was" a lot of, "I presume."

    What are you implying?

    The tide is turning…



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    #139
    Elmer Blooker
    Registered Users Posts: 6,044 ✭✭✭Elmer Blooker


    JupiterKid wrote: »
    I think this thread really shows the differences men and women have in thier approach to sex -

    women take sex much more seriously than men and think describing the act as "fun" does it a great disservice, whereas men are much more likely to take a blase and casual attitute to sex. Its more of a sport/ intense recreational activity for them...
    Women can have sex for a hundred and one reasons so they obviously take it very seriously!


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    #140
    andekwarhola
    Registered Users Posts: 4,638 ✭✭✭andekwarhola


    seenitall wrote: »
    Sex is a way of communication, an expression of trust, a wonderful means to an intensity of oblivion.

    This would be perfect as an annoying spoken bit on one of those preachy Madonna songs about sex. Like a lecture on riding from a boring hippy parent.


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    #141
    Moomoomacshoe
    Registered Users Posts: 104 ✭✭Moomoomacshoe


    Love sex..definitely can be so much fun with the right person. As a woman it's difficult actually to find a man to just "have fun" with, believe it or not.


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    #142
    high_king
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 418 ✭✭high_king


    seenitall wrote: »
    Sex is fun ? I've always heard this a lot, even used the expression myself, as interchangable with sex, but I don't think it has ever quite gelled with me ?

    I find if you tickle them and make them laugh, you can get some extra inches in, and everyone likes a few extra inches.


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    #143
    BorneTobyWilde
    Registered Users Posts: 35,707 ✭✭✭✭BorneTobyWilde


    Moomoomacshoe wrote: »
    Love sex..definitely can be so much fun with the right person. As a woman it's difficult actually to find a man to just "have fun" with, believe it or not.


    No I do not believe that. For a guy I'd believe that, not a girl.


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    #144
    Raconteuse
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,817 ✭✭✭Raconteuse


    Plenty of women consider "fun" a suitable adjective. As this thread indicates, it's a matter of personal opinion.


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    #145
    Tammy!
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,149 ✭✭✭Tammy!


    BorneTobyWilde wrote: »
    No I do not believe that. For a guy I'd believe that, not a girl.

    BS.

    I'm married but before that, blokes are just as clingy as girls if not more so!

    Most of those blokes who are whinging about women not wanting to have fun are whingers themselves!

    Obviously people get into unrequited love scenarios but don't mistake what you hear from people and the real story. Alot of blokes I know would be harping on about some 'bunny boiler' but calling her up when it suited them.


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    #146
    skallywag
    Registered Users Posts: 2,987 ✭✭✭skallywag


    seenitall wrote: »
    ...(No PMs please. Don't even.)

    As weird as this thread is, that last sentence has me thinking WTF ....


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    #147
    Sottol
    Registered Users Posts: 54 ✭✭Sottol


    Moomoomacshoe wrote: »
    Love sex..definitely can be so much fun with the right person. As a woman it's difficult actually to find a man to just "have fun" with, believe it or not.

    Totally agree with this.... I find sex fun, lots of fun, but as you say it is difficult to find a guy just to have fun with


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    #148
    BorneTobyWilde
    Registered Users Posts: 35,707 ✭✭✭✭BorneTobyWilde


    Sottol wrote: »
    Totally agree with this.... I find sex fun, lots of fun, but as you say it is difficult to find a guy just to have fun with




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    #149
    charlie14
    Registered Users Posts: 14,890 ✭✭✭✭charlie14


    Bigdig69 wrote: »
    As a straight man who has a quite a record, some of which included VERY foolish choices, I agree 100% with the OPs sentiments.


    From reading your post I imagine you were very tempted to substitute the last g for ck in your user name.


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    #150
    Ubbquittious
    Registered Users Posts: 6,187 ✭✭✭Ubbquittious


    Think of all the drama that could be avoided if sex was perceived by everyone as just a bit of craic. Life would be so much simpler.


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    #151
    ILoveYourVibes
    Registered Users Posts: 15,176 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    Men who say they are 'fun' are usually ****ing nightmares.

    Just keep a few friends you know well around op.


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