Married but confused

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badcheatagain2 wrote: »

Let's just say the bloom came off the rose pretty damn fast. It's like anything new, initially it is exciting, but it soon becomes mundane.

There may be people who can start and continue a relationship with the person they cheat with, but, in my opinion, those relationships will always be tainted by the cheating. You can't have something decent and pure on the back of another's misery. All you create is chaos and destruction.

You keep talking as if cheating is inevitable. It really isn't. It's a choice you make.

My advice would be to focus on the woman you made the commitment to, work on getting that back on track. Give your marriage 6 months of proper attention: date nights, affection, fun etc. See where you are after that. If your marriage is dead in the water then end it, but don't cheat. It's cruel and it's selfish.

And yes, you should go to therapy.

Thanks for the honesty. I get what you're saying too, I agree that something that has started in quite dubious circumstances has a big change of ultimately failing. I'd imagine the thrill is so big that when everything comes crashing down reality sets in and you feel.kind if empty. Thanks again for sharing, it honestly does hit home the reality of the situation.

The chan chan man

Is it really worth it? One tiny bit of cum is what’s going to result in you sitting in a bedsit on south circular road seeing your kids once a month..