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Healthy baby aborted at 15 weeks

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,057 ✭✭✭.......


    Unfortunately Jaster is correct, we had laws that would have saved this child. I voted to allow abortion despite some reservations, but this certainly rocks my belief I did the right thing.

    No we did not.

    We had laws that would have made the parents travel for the abortion.


  • Registered Users Posts: 12,979 ✭✭✭✭Igotadose


    My understanding is that the third test was the 'definitive' one - but the hospital just didn't care.

    Your understanding is really, your opinion. No one knows the details. Not you, not Peadar Toibin, not anyone on boards. At the end of the day, the parents made the decision they made.

    If there is an investigation and the results are published, then the public will learn. Until then, 'the hospital didn't care' is just an opinion not based on any facts.


  • Registered Users Posts: 40,156 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    So, what were the other 2 tests?

    The first 2 tests are indicative but not definitive. I have no opinion on who decided not to wait for the results of the third test. I dont have the information to know either way and i suspect nobody else here does either.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,586 ✭✭✭uptherebels


    My understanding is that the third test was the 'definitive' one - but the hospital just didn't care.

    One of the tests has a 0.15% chance of a false positive. Doctors make decisions based on tests with worse odds than that all the time, but hey the hospital not caring sounds better.


  • Registered Users Posts: 7,016 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    ....... wrote: »
    No we did not.

    We had laws that would have made the parents travel for the abortion.

    And left them with very few rights if the same situation had arisen - can you imagine a couple who had travelled to the UK complaining about a misdiagnosis to the papers never mind the Dáil only a couple of years ago?

    I wonder how much sympathy and interest would they have got from Peadar Toibin back then?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 9,336 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    This is the problem with debate on abortion, wild language and claims and a failure to see the point of view of anyone else. You’re as much of a flute as those doing the whooping in the black repeal jumpers.

    I think the problem for me is that I DO see the point of view of the other side. Quite well and quite clearly. I just also very clearly see what is wrong with that point of view.

    Nor am I 100% immune to that point of view either. When I see medical images of a fetus, with its tiny little toes and fingers, I am not immune to the emotion that I have evolved over 1000s of years to feel. I feel the same things as they do when they see the fetus.

    I just am capable of understanding the root of that emotion, and see why it is philosophically irrelevant in relation to abortion. I see it in a way users such as the user obsessed with the fetus having a tongue that moves, can not.

    But from the outside I imagine me understanding and rejecting a point of view, and me not seeing the point of view, of others must look like the same thing quite often?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 21 Hardcharger


    I think the problem for me is that I DO see the point of view of the other side. Quite well and quite clearly. I just also very clearly see what is wrong with that point of view.

    Nor am I 100% immune to that point of view either. When I see medical images of a fetus, with its tiny little toes and fingers, I am not immune to the emotion that I have evolved over 1000s of years to feel. I feel the same things as they do when they see the fetus.

    I just am capable of understanding the root of that emotion, and see why it is philosophically irrelevant in relation to abortion. I see it in a way users such as the user obsessed with the fetus having a tongue that moves, can not.

    But from the outside I imagine me understanding and rejecting a point of view, and me not seeing the point of view, of others must look like the same thing quite often?

    You are a psychopath. You can see the foetus is human. A life and you don't care. You want to kill it anyway.

    SS guards could see the men women and children euphemistically called "cargo" they marched off the cattle cars were humans like them. Indeed ocassionally a pretty blonde girl was spared and used as a plaything before they tired of her and sent her to the gas chambers. Mengele kept an human zoo - dwarves, giants, twins, deformed etc who would experiment on and dissect alive and kill as he saw fit.

    Why did they do this? To be like God who has power over life and death. God is a champ. He drops a roof on a church full of groveling worshippers now and then. Typhus and swans both come from the same place.

    So you see babies as disposable. Like crisp packets or old stereos. You don't care about their humanity just like the SS made leather out of the skins of their victims soap out of their fat socks out of their hair and tried to make their bones into commerical fertilizer. They did eveything except eat the Jews.

    This same evil detached empathy free attitude is evident in your posts.

    You are a sick evil disgusting human being


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,020 ✭✭✭Call me Al


    The first 2 tests are indicative but not definitive. I have no opinion on who decided not to wait for the results of the third test. I dont have the information to know either way and i suspect nobody else here does either.

    You're correct, we have the couple's media-reported version of the facts. That's it.

    When this news broke the master of one of the maternity hospitals (Rotunda maybe but I can't remember exactly ) was interviewed by morning radio. He was asked about the process in his hospital in these circumstances. He said the couple are counseled to always wait until the final definitive test results are ready to review before making any decisions.
    He said tests 1&2 are almost always accurate but he has on the very rare occasion seen the 3rd result come back clear despite 1&2 showing Edward's syndrome.
    I wonder why the hospital bothered with 3rd definitive test when the medical team weren't inclined to wait for the results in the first place.

    Was there a delay with the results or something?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,057 ✭✭✭.......


    You are a psychopath. You can see the foetus is human. A life and you don't care. You want to kill it anyway.

    SS guards could see the men women and children euphemistically called "cargo" they marched off the cattle cars were humans like them. Indeed ocassionally a pretty blonde girl was spared and used as a plaything before they tired of her and sent her to the gas chambers. Mengele kept an human zoo - dwarves, giants, twins, deformed etc who would experiment on and dissect alive and kill as he saw fit.

    Why did they do this? To be like God who has power over life and death. God is a champ. He drops a roof on a church full of groveling worshippers now and then. Typhus and swans both come from the same place.

    So you see babies as disposable. Like crisp packets or old stereos. You don't care about their humanity just like the SS made leather out of the skins of their victims soap out of their fat socks out of their hair and tried to make their bones into commerical fertilizer. They did eveything except eat the Jews.

    This same evil detached empathy free attitude is evident in your posts.

    You are a sick evil disgusting human being

    Well there's someone who didnt understand the point being made to them in the slightest.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    The parents found out their child could have a fatal abnormality. Once that happened the child became merely a foetus and they decided to kill it.

    Noe that they know there was nothing wrong with the baby they are suddenly boo hooing too late.

    What else is a foetus except a human being?

    You know I sm right and your conscience is eating at you.

    People like you voted Hitler into power and murdered the Jews - ordinary people who masked their nihilistic hatred behind ideology.

    You cannot escape youf guilt. You are a child killer. You and people like you who voted yes killed that child. You might as well have fed the baby alive to a hungry dog

    You have crossed the line into depravity and evil

    The way back?

    Campaign to restore the right to life and oppose abortion

    Get on that, so. There is nothing stopping you.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 9,336 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    You are a psychopath. You can see the foetus is human. A life and you don't care. You want to kill it anyway.

    I think we can do without the personal insults here.

    "The standard definition of psyhopath is: A person with an antisocial personality disorder, manifested in aggressive, perverted, criminal, or amoral behavior without empathy or remorse."

    There is no coherent basis to couch empathy with in relation to a non-sentient entity. Therefore Psychopathy simply is not applicable as a term here. You are misusing language.

    Further you are also lying and outright ignoring things I am saying to pedal this. I do not "want" to kill anything. I very clearly said that the ideal I work towards is a society where zero abortions actually happen. How is that WANTING to kill anything?

    You are not engaging honestly with this conversation here or showing a modicum of good faith within it.
    So you see babies as disposable. Like crisp packets or old stereos. You don't care about their humanity

    I care about the "Humanity" of anything which qualifies for that term. I do not think mere biological taxonomy is enough to qualify for that term. Which is all the fetus has.

    BABIES however, do. Which is why your straw man statements about my attitude to babies is simply fallacious and dishonest.


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,894 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    Call me Al wrote: »
    You're correct, we have the couple's media-reported version of the facts. That's it.

    When this news broke the master of one of the maternity hospitals (Rotunda maybe but I can't remember exactly ) was interviewed by morning radio. He was asked about the process in his hospital in these circumstances. He said the couple are counseled to always wait until the final definitive test results are ready to review before making any decisions.
    He said tests 1&2 are almost always accurate but he has on the very rare occasion seen the 3rd result come back clear despite 1&2 showing Edward's syndrome.
    I wonder why the hospital bothered with 3rd definitive test when the medical team weren't inclined to wait for the results in the first place.

    Was there a delay with the results or something?

    The key thing as far as I remember him saying, was that there is a test and ultrasound first ....and if the test is showing a "negative" result but the ultrasound is clear, then the next set of test results are needed as confirmation.In this case, I think I read that this was the situation-clear ultrasound and a negative test result.After that, it APPEARS to be the hospital that were in the wrong, for apparently dismissing the need to wait for second test results.But hopefully the review that is to take place will give them the full story.

    And to another poster....what happens if you also consider the mother to be a person???


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,482 ✭✭✭Gimme A Pound


    Oh look, Hardcharger, the poster who spews intense hatred of women is suddenly "caring" (including about unborn girls - but he made it clear he has contempt for females) on this topic. So astounding and unpredictable.

    Why don't you think for yourself instead of being a slave to whatever boxes you feel you must tick, no matter how much they contradict your other views?

    Oh and he pretends to care about the gays too I see.

    The far right and far left are two sides of the same coin.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    You are a psychopath. You can see the foetus is human. A life and you don't care. You want to kill it anyway.

    SS guards could see the men women and children euphemistically called "cargo" they marched off the cattle cars were humans like them. Indeed ocassionally a pretty blonde girl was spared and used as a plaything before they tired of her and sent her to the gas chambers. Mengele kept an human zoo - dwarves, giants, twins, deformed etc who would experiment on and dissect alive and kill as he saw fit.

    Why did they do this? To be like God who has power over life and death. God is a champ. He drops a roof on a church full of groveling worshippers now and then. Typhus and swans both come from the same place.

    So you see babies as disposable. Like crisp packets or old stereos. You don't care about their humanity just like the SS made leather out of the skins of their victims soap out of their fat socks out of their hair and tried to make their bones into commerical fertilizer. They did eveything except eat the Jews.

    This same evil detached empathy free attitude is evident in your posts.

    You are a sick evil disgusting human being

    You sound a bit hysterical and triggered.
    You won't get anyone to listen to your viewpoint or respect your opinion if you are being needlessly hostile, aggressive, and name calling.

    Attitudes like yours are exactly why you lost the referendum. You only have yourself to blame here.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,221 ✭✭✭✭m5ex9oqjawdg2i


    This is a sad case, but mistakes will happen. This should not cause a rollback of the previous draconian laws concerning abortion.


  • Registered Users Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    its upsetting for this couple but you cant avoid collateral damage no matter what the rules. you cant make an omelette...


  • Moderators, Computer Games Moderators Posts: 15,227 Mod ✭✭✭✭FutureGuy


    If you can't refute my logic that's not my problem. That's yours. You support murdering innocent babies. It's evil and wrong and you know it but you don't care..

    Logic? Where?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,057 ✭✭✭.......


    This is a sad case, but mistakes will happen. This should not cause a rollback of the previous draconian laws concerning abortion.

    The previous laws would not have prevented this.

    They would simply have forced the couple to travel for the abortion.

    There is NOTHING that the previous laws would have prevented in terms of abortions, the whole point was that they were happening ANYWAY but either by people taking medical and legal risks ordering pills online or by facing the cost and trauma of travelling for an abortion.

    The referendum has changed nothing except to make abortions safer and decriminalised for the women who seek them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,221 ✭✭✭✭m5ex9oqjawdg2i


    ....... wrote: »
    The previous laws would not have prevented this.

    They would simply have forced the couple to travel for the abortion.

    There is NOTHING that the previous laws would have prevented in terms of abortions, the whole point was that they were happening ANYWAY but either by people taking medical and legal risks ordering pills online or by facing the cost and trauma of travelling for an abortion.

    The referendum has changed nothing except to make abortions safer and decriminalised for the women who seek them.

    Exactly, that's why I said that there should be no going back. These things will happen and the media will report on every single case like this (That they can), because it feeds the agenda of the right to life side.


  • Registered Users Posts: 12,979 ✭✭✭✭Igotadose


    Exactly, that's why I said that there should be no going back. These things will happen and the media will report on every single case like this (That they can), because it feeds the agenda of the right to life side.

    This case makes the news because 1) not a whole heck of a lot goes on that the RTE deem newsworthy 2) Anti-choice want to cast shade on every single aspect of abortion worldwide and in Ireland.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 442 ✭✭SexBobomb


    its upsetting for this couple but you cant avoid collateral damage no matter what the rules. you cant make an omelette...

    Jesus, thats a grim summation of this situation. :eek:
    If I had heard this during the campaign I would have voted differently.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,057 ✭✭✭.......


    SexBobomb wrote: »
    Jesus, thats a grim summation of this situation. :eek:
    If I had heard this during the campaign I would have voted differently.

    How could you not have realised that this was already happening and would continue to happen?

    Nothing has changed except the location of abortions.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,336 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    SexBobomb wrote: »
    Jesus, thats a grim summation of this situation. :eek:
    If I had heard this during the campaign I would have voted differently.

    Grim but true to a degree, and to be expected.

    If people are making abortion decisions based on the results of medical tests, then statistically we WILL have cases of people getting erroneous test results and making the wrong decisions.

    This is simply the world of medicine and not abortion. Across the medical world we base decisions on tests that have a likelihood of giving false results. People get treatments for conditions they do not actually have. People miss treatments for conditions it turns out they do have.

    It is sad. It is not ideal. But it is alas the reality. Abortion is no different. If it was not made clear to you during the campaign then you have my apology on behalf of everyone, including myself, who failed you in this regard. But it really should not have swung your vote even if we had.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    SexBobomb wrote: »
    Jesus, thats a grim summation of this situation. :eek:
    If I had heard this during the campaign I would have voted differently.

    Really?
    Thousands of women suffered pain, trauma and some even died because of the 8th. Those women were alive with families and friends who loved them and a life to live.

    Men lost wives, children lost mothers, parents lost daughters, because of those laws. Real families facing real consequences.

    Those in favour of keeping the 8th were happy to offer these women and families up as collateral damage in order to be able to proudly declare Ireland was an abortion free country (even though it wasn't and 10k of them were happening annually).

    Abortion isn't ideal but sometimes necessary. Women needlessly dying and suffering is unacceptable. I know which is the lesser evil and which has more negative effects on the people of this country.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,336 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    SusieBlue wrote: »
    I know which is the lesser evil and which has more negative effects on the people of this country.

    But are you sure you are counting ALL the negative effects? Remember allowing working class women to abort unwanted pregnancies is preventing them from bothering to better themselves socio-economically. As is social welfare and single parent allowance.

    Apparently.

    You see only middle aged middle and upper class white men know what is best for working class women. And Unwanted pregnancy is a REAL motivator doncha know :rolleyes::confused::eek:

    /Irony/Sarcasm


  • Registered Users Posts: 442 ✭✭SexBobomb


    SusieBlue wrote: »
    Really?
    Thousands of women suffered pain, trauma and some even died because of the 8th. Those women were alive with families and friends who loved them and a life to live.

    Men lost wives, children lost mothers, parents lost daughters, because of those laws. Real families facing real consequences.

    Those in favour of keeping the 8th were happy to offer these women and families up as collateral damage in order to be able to proudly declare Ireland was an abortion free country (even though it wasn't and 10k of them were happening annually).

    Abortion isn't ideal but sometimes necessary. Women needlessly dying and suffering is unacceptable. I know which is the lesser evil and which has more negative effects on the people of this country.

    Ah ya but hey gotta break a few eggs ya know..

    My issue is the callousness toward the errors made


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,605 ✭✭✭gctest50


    SexBobomb wrote: »
    ,...........

    My issue is the callousness toward the errors made

    What do you want ? whimpering ?


  • Registered Users Posts: 442 ✭✭SexBobomb


    gctest50 wrote: »
    What do you want ? whimpering ?

    No just feeling a bit disappointed with the response, voted in the belief I'd be helping people, I think everyone did but then when I read, well gotta break a few eggs, not very compassionate, I had a reaction to it. Im human


  • Registered Users Posts: 40,156 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    SexBobomb wrote: »
    No just feeling a bit disappointed with the response, voted in the belief I'd be helping people, I think everyone did but then when I read, well gotta break a few eggs, not very compassionate, I had a reaction to it. Im human

    It was one response by one poster. I think you're overreacting.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    SexBobomb wrote: »
    Ah ya but hey gotta break a few eggs ya know..

    My issue is the callousness toward the errors made

    Medical errors are par for the course. Its unfortunate and regrettable but it wouldn't make me reassess my decision to support the Yes vote and its not a good enough reason to take the choice away from other people.

    As an aside I find it very interesting that you take issue with this but haven't mentioned the callousness and indifference shown towards the women effected by our draconian laws when the 8th was still in place.
    That's why we changed the law and that's why we have made abortion safe and legal.
    Try to focus on that instead of overreacting to one comment.


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