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Should I ask colleague for his number?

Doublechoice1 · 2019-02-10 10:45:07

There’s a guy at work I like. I think he likes me too. We don’t work directly together but when he comes to my department we always very friendly with each other and he went out of his way to talk to me the other day even asking me where I live what I was doing for my day off etc. I have decided to be brave and ask him out…

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#32 11-02-2019 01:09PM

Doublechoice1

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But does it not look a bit desperate to ask a guy out only after speaking to him 2/3 times at work?

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#33 11-02-2019 01:14PM

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No and no. Please just do it and put yourself out of your misery and before you overthink it to oblivion

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#34 11-02-2019 01:16PM

osarusan

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Doublechoice1 wrote: »

But does it not look a bit desperate to ask a guy out only after speaking to him 2/3 times at work?

Seems like last time, when he wanted to chat with you, he 'came after' you and you did chat together.

Next time you see him, get him to one side and casually ask him. He won't know you've been thinking about it for the previous 2 weeks.

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