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Broke up with the GF - Devastated

PHG · 2019-01-29 10:28:27

Hi, So I broke up with my girlfriend of nearly 4 years last week. We had been arguing a bit over Xmas and about every 4 months we would have a full blown one. We met in Dublin when she was in there visiting people (she is from London) and ended up together. For a year I flew to London most weekends (she few the odd time)…

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#122 08-05-2019 09:46AM

Ursus Horribilis

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I really hope that you plan to sit down and tell all of this to a therapist. Soon.

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#123 08-05-2019 10:10AM

PHG

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Ursus Horribilis wrote: »

I really hope that you plan to sit down and tell all of this to a therapist. Soon.

It's booked in already for 3 weeks time

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#124 09-05-2019 04:31AM

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PHG wrote: »

It's booked in already for 3 weeks time

Why not sooner? You are hurting yourself by going through all this over and over. Perhaps write your thoughts down but don’t post as it doesn’t seem to be good for you.

Also, she seems to be hurting as well and if you want my honest opinion you both hurt each other. You seem to be dragging it out because of some sort of closure but deep down you know it’s not right.

Go to therapy sooner. Stop seeking validation when people don’t know the full story. Take care.

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