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Virgin at 26 - Any tips ?

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    #32
    heretothere
    Registered Users Posts: 624 ✭✭✭heretothere


    BBFAN wrote: »
    A 3 months wait in this day and age is huge, just the way things are.

    Do you think so? I'm 30 and would have thought that was a standard wait maybe I'm getting old!


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    #33
    BBFAN
    Registered Users Posts: 2,228 ✭✭✭BBFAN


    heretothere wrote: »
    Do you think so? I'm 30 and would have thought that was a standard wait maybe I'm getting old!

    Jesus, I'm a lot older and I would say the standard is 3 dates not 3 months!


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    #34
    Sonic Youth
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 193 ✭✭Sonic Youth


    heretothere wrote: »
    Do you think so? I'm 30 and would have thought that was a standard wait maybe I'm getting old!

    These days the standard wait is until 3am on saturday night...but I digress, as for the op, well barring any major physical deformities, your problem is most likely that you are a boring, introverted nice guy who sits quietly in the corner.

    In other words women don't view you in a sexual way. You need to become a confident, out going charming guy, a man who is not afraid to make his intentions clear.

    How do you do this? First by getting your look together, gym, a haircut that works for you and decent clothes. Next by getting out and doing cool things so you have something interesting to talk about. And finally by approaching women, figuring out what works, getting rejected and learning.

    Maybe what I said sounds harsh but I think it's what you need to hear. You aren't Leonard in the Big Bang Theory, the hot blonde across the hallway won't drag you into her room and ride you.

    Seriously though, if you follow the 'just be yourself' advice you've been given here then you'll be a virgin for a long time yet.

    Good luck.


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    #35
    vectorvictor
    Registered Users Posts: 745 ✭✭✭vectorvictor


    Meaningless for first time is no harm. If it's crap it's crap and you won't see them again. So without sounding crass get some practice in.

    The whole "respect yourself and wait for the right person" thing sounds lovely but it's just not the way life works unless you are living in the dark ages especially if you have a need that needs fulfilling

    If you are worried about performance then talk to your doctor. ED meds will help stop you worrying about performance until you get comfortable. Just don't become reliant on them but they do help especially early into new relationships or for one nighters. And DONT get them from your friends/online etc... Your doc will only give them to you if needed i.e. medical/performance anxiety etc and there's a reason for that


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