How many units of alcohol a week do you drink?

I never developed a taste for it, never found anything I like enough to make the inevitable headache I get worth the effort. I get lots of judgement for not drinking. I don't care what anyone else drinks or how much as long as it's not affecting them or others as a result. I have the odd drink but it's rare.

I used to just say I didn't drink but found that a few will always assume you're being sanctimonious and others will assume I've a problem with drinking and that's why I don't. Now I just say I'm on meds if it's someone I don't know offering, everyone who knows me doesn't offer. When I was younger people would put me under enormous pressure to join in the drinking, sometimes they'd just buy me drinks when I'd already said I didn't want one. Luckily the older I get the more accepting my circle is and I don't have that anymore. I've noticed more and more people don't drink these days, that makes it easier too.

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: »

But on the other hand, some drinkers are immediately on the defensive around non-drinkers. I don’t really drink but there’s no judgement here. My husband and nearly all my friends drink. But I’ve witnessed very obvious defensive body language from various people down the years when I say I’m not drinking. And some downright peer pressure: “Ah go on, you’ll have one”. “Ah, go on”. Followed by perplexed expressions. That’s equally as judgemental. It cuts both ways.

Yes this is absolutely true. Non drinkers are also unfairly judged.

BrookieD

Normally zero week to week, Maybe have a few at Paddys Day or if on holiday, nothing crazy as a parent so trying to set a somewhat decent example to the lads

OldMrBrennan83

Candie wrote: »

I never developed a taste for it, never found anything I like enough to make the inevitable headache I get worth the effort. I get lots of judgement for not drinking. I don't care what anyone else drinks or how much as long as it's not affecting them or others as a result. I have the odd drink but it's rare.

I used to just say I didn't drink but found that a few will always assume you're being sanctimonious and others will assume I've a problem with drinking and that's why I don't. Now I just say I'm on meds if it's someone I don't know offering, everyone who knows me doesn't offer. When I was younger people would put me under enormous pressure to join in the drinking, sometimes they'd just buy me drinks when I'd already said I didn't want one. Luckily the older I get the more accepting my circle is and I don't have that anymore. I've noticed more and more people don't drink these days, that makes it easier too.

As much as it boils my shîte when people label every drinker as a raging alcoholic, I wouldn't be doing that either. If you choose not to drink then that's your choice and be proud of it. I don't think by the sounds of it you'd be lecturing people and it's nobody's decision but your own.

Bobtheman

Brooke Deafening Hedge wrote: »

Oh I see old age all around me, but if you're talking about me personally well I run at a minimum 30km a week (I throw in a Parkrun.ie or charity event on the weekend), I cycle 40km every day, I'm a Judo black belt with a number of national championship titles and have represented Ireland.

My job involves an annual medical and a requirement to pass a fitness test, I'm also 52 yrs old.. So I'll ask you, what will you be doing at my age?.

I enjoy a beer, a book and a bowl of chicken wings (don't forget the hot sauce and plenty of salt) on occasion, what's your indulgence?.

I have my health issues but none too serious, at 52 and a very active life style most of us will.

My question wasn't serious!

Bobtheman

oceanman wrote: »

about 60 units a week on average, more at times like Christmas ect.

Really? Im just curious if a system can hold up with that much. Not moralizing. I'm in no position to do that over booze

xzanti

Zero, zilch, zippo.

theteal

Most weeks would be zero. The ones in between I suppose I might see up to 10 units (assuming a pint is 2 units).

Then we get to December. Quantity consumed in December will most likely surpass the sum of the previous 11 months combined, it's a merry old time.

Sunny Disposition

This thread is flawed, proper drinkers are in the pub interacting with people, not fluting around online!

pconn062

3 out of the 4 weeks of the month I don't drink at all. The other week I would have 5-10 units. 2-3 pints once a month or so.

Bobtheman

The thread got a bit moralistic. Never my intention. I was just curious about how many heavy drinkers are out there and yes I regard myself as a heavy drinker on 30-40 units a week.

Dalomanakora

The thread isn't all that moralistic.



It's pleasantly surprising to me to see how many people drink infrequently. Friends and colleagues look at me like I'm a freak because I don't drink much (three or four drinks once every few months), so it's nice to see other people have similar habits.


And for those drinking tens of units per week - whatever works for you tbh. If it's a regular thing you've been doing for years, it'd be no harm to get your liver function checked, but it's a social norm to drink more than 14 units per week so I'm not gonna shame someone for doing what most others do.

oceanman

Bobtheman wrote: »

Really? Im just curious if a system can hold up with that much. Not moralizing. I'm in no position to do that over booze

well, im still here and in good health thank god.:)

arybvtcw0eolkf

Bobtheman wrote: »

My question wasn't serious!

super_furry

Down to zero. There's nothing like a 10 month old who's getting up at 6:30am regardless of whether you have a sore head, to get you to cut all the way back.

Graces7

Dalomanakora wrote: »

The thread isn't all that moralistic.


"moralistic" like "judgmental. " is in the eye and sensitivity of the person reacting.

These days we cannot hold an opinion that is strong and true without being called on it.

After seeing what drink does to my sweet kind old neighbour....

OldMrBrennan83

Graces7 wrote: »

Dalomanakora wrote: »

The thread isn't all that moralistic.


"moralistic" like "judgmental. " is in the eye and sensitivity of the person reacting.

These days we cannot hold an opinion that is strong and true without being called on it.

After seeing what drink does to my sweet kind old neighbour....

But the point is that not everyone who drinks alcohol behaves like your neighbour. The vast majority don't.

KERSPLAT!

Only get out about once a month or so, I'd have about 8-10 pints before falling over from tiredness and drunkenness.

Foweva Awone

Patww79 wrote: »

But the point is that not everyone who drinks alcohol behaves like your neighbour. The vast majority don't.

Exactly, it's like saying "I'm coeliac so nobody should eat bread, it's awful stuff."

Dalomanakora

"moralistic" like "judgmental. " is in the eye and sensitivity of the person reacting.

These days we cannot hold an opinion that is strong and true without being called on it.

After seeing what drink does to my sweet kind old neighbour....

But your own posts were judgemental and you're calling others for being judgemental?


I feel sorry for your neighbour because he's obviously fighting with some demons and drink isn't good for him.


That doesn't mean other people can't enjoy it socially. One of my parents has been in recovery for over twenty years now (and hasn't touched a drop in that time, they're amazing!). That doesn't mean I can't enjoy a glass of wine with my dinner, or a few vodkas in a bar with friends.


The majority of people are perfectly capable of controlling themselves.

Graces7

Dalomanakora wrote: »

But your own posts were judgemental and you're calling others for being judgemental?


You are misreading my posts. and you know it.. And am not calling anyone.or being judgemental.. We all and each have different ideas and shades of meaning, ah well, have a happy day and I hope you become less .... picky!

funny guy! roflol! Happy day!

Deebles McBeebles

84.

Graces7

Graces7 wrote: »

Dalomanakora wrote: »

The thread isn't all that moralistic.


"moralistic" like "judgmental. " is in the eye and sensitivity of the person reacting.

These days we cannot hold an opinion that is strong and true without being called on it.

repeating this as clearly needed

Love thee and leave thee....have a great Monday!

beertons

I lose count, every time.

_Kaiser_

Pretty much zero most weeks. Going for a drink means getting people together who are long settled down and live in different counties, and planning it so I either get a coach to and from Dublin or arrange somewhere to stay.

Too much hassle most of the time. We try and do something every quarter but that's about it.

TerrorFirmer

I think about 40. Usually confined to one day a week though, not a fan of multiple days on the tear. I'm well able for one good wild night, but long weekend, wedding and stag sessions absolutely slay me.

KERSPLAT!

TerrorFirmer wrote: »

I think about 40. Usually confined to one day a week though, not a fan of multiple days on the tear. I'm well able for one good wild night, but long weekend, wedding and stag sessions absolutely slay me.

These days I need a 3 day weekend to recover from one night

GoneHome

Jermaine Quiet Sidewalk wrote: »

It'll be a sad day when I start counting units.

Same as that, I'd have a few pints most weekends, either in the local with the OH and friends or a few beers at home or if we're away on holidays etc, Friday and Saturday night only, would never drink on a "school night", work is hard enough without going in hungover

Deebles McBeebles

GoneHome wrote: »

would never drink on a "school night", work is hard enough without going in hungover

Practice makes perfect!

BobMc

15 to 20 over the entire weekend. Dont go out much, so its at home, dont drink Monday to Thursday