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  • #32
    Bootlegger
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 25 ✭Bootlegger


    Dafuk is going on with on with men today?

    Maybe lay off the internet for a bit.


  • #33
    Bootlegger
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 25 ✭Bootlegger


    cloudatlas wrote: »
    If you identify as straight and have sex with another man on a night out that doesn't automatically make you gay. Identify as, sleep with, fantasies about. All three could be different, why are you trying to pigeon hole the o.p. Are you from the past? No he shouldn't be careful about exploring his urges.

    If a man is sleeping with other men how can he not be a homo?


  • #34
    AndrewJRenko
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,811 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Bootlegger wrote: »
    Dafuk is going on with on with men today?

    Maybe lay off the internet for a bit.

    Mad isn't it? People going off and doing whatever they want sexually, without worrying about what the world thinks. Where will it all end?


  • #35
    Shimbabwe
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 ✭Shimbabwe


    power pants wrote: »
    I’m sure if it was on YouTube it has to be true.....
    people justify anything by , back to tree swinging days

    Of course you are gay to some extent if you get turned on by someone of the same sex

    I guess so. I've been thinking I am gay to an 'extent'. I can't watch gay porn though. I think of it more as an anomaly, a fetish or a weirdness. Im not sure if I would even do anything if I was presented the opportunity tbh.

    It doesn't matter though cos....it doesn't matter :)


  • #36
    cloudatlas
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,711 ✭✭✭cloudatlas


    Bootlegger wrote: »
    If a man is sleeping with other men how can he not be a homo?

    Er they might be experimenting and decide it's not for them and they want to continue identifying as straight. Oh and it's 'gay' not 'homo'.


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  • #37
    Shimbabwe
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 ✭Shimbabwe


    I think people who argue that you're either gay or not gay and there's no spectrum are homophobic. They just want to slot people into 'hate' or 'dont hate'


  • #38
    power pants
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,907 ✭✭✭power pants


    Shimbabwe wrote: »
    I think people who argue that you're either gay or not gay and there's no spectrum are homophobic. They just want to slot people into 'hate' or 'dont hate'


    Bit of a chip on your shoulder? Who has said anything about hate? I don’t hate gays just because I believe if you have sex with someone of the same sex you are gay.


  • #39
    .......
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,057 ✭✭✭.......


    power pants wrote: »
    Bit of a chip on your shoulder? Who has said anything about hate? I don’t hate gays just because I believe if you have sex with someone of the same sex you are gay.

    By that logic if you have sex with someone of the opposite sex you are straight.

    So the OP is clearly straight as he has had sex with many women. By your logic.


  • #40
    GingerLily
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,766 ✭✭✭GingerLily


    ....... wrote: »
    By that logic if you have sex with someone of the opposite sex you are straight.

    So the OP is clearly straight as he has had sex with many women. By your logic.

    Exactly!

    What is the point of these labels anyway?

    The idea that sexuality is strictly binary is very out dated - we've moved since then.


  • #41
    power pants
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,907 ✭✭✭power pants


    power pants wrote: »
    Just read Kinsey scale anything that isn’t 0 is heterosexual plus homosexual of various degree

    So it is incorrect based on the above for me to say op is completely homosexual and at the same time it is incorrect too then say he is heterosexual

    He is heterosexual and homosexual to a level between 1-5 which effectively means bisexual

    0 heterosexual
    1-5 bisexual
    6 homosexual

    This is what I concluded

    If we have all moved from labels

    Why is there a lgbt society and movement ?


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  • #42
    Neyite
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,948 ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    Mod:
    Back on topic - advice to the OP rather than back and forth debate please.


  • #43
    Shimbabwe
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 ✭Shimbabwe


    power pants wrote: »
    Bit of a chip on your shoulder? Who has said anything about hate? I don’t hate gays just because I believe if you have sex with someone of the same sex you are gay.

    You're arguing so hard it's clearly you with the chip on your shoulder.

    Anyway back to the OP. I would wonder if its more fetish than full on sexuality difference. If you don't want to a actually kiss men but you want to kiss women then I think you're closer to straight and any slight desire for something is probably magnified by the fact it's so naughty and taboo.


  • #44
    power pants
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,907 ✭✭✭power pants


    Shimbabwe wrote: »
    You're arguing so hard it's clearly you with the chip on your shoulder.

    Anyway back to the OP. I would wonder if its more fetish than full on sexuality difference. If you don't want to a actually kiss men but you want to kiss women then I think you're closer to straight and any slight desire for something is probably magnified by the fact it's so naughty and taboo.

    Ok to label someone straight but cant label anyone gay as it’s outdated ?

    How does that work?


  • #45
    Neyite
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,948 ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    Neyite wrote: »
    Mod:
    Back on topic - advice to the OP rather than back and forth debate please.
    power pants wrote: »
    Ok to label someone straight but cant label anyone gay as it’s outdated ?

    How does that work?


    Mod:
    Hi Power pants - you may have missed the mod note upthread. Please stick to giving advice to the Op on his issue rather than debating back and forth with another poster.


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