If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)

Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie

Is it ok to skip your debs?

vithit · 2018-04-10 22:16:35

I go to a tiny, rural school and suffered from bad social anxiety until late TY/5th year. I was picked on a lot & branded as a weirdo. Nowadays, I have people I talk to, but I would never meet up with them and maybe drink with them at large parties. I don't have any friends at school. I really don't see any point in going,…

Comments

#32 08-05-2018 10:55PM

Bowlardo

Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,390 ✭✭✭

Join Date: October 2009

Posts: 2206

It’s a load of bollocks. I regret going to mine to be honest.

0
#33 09-05-2018 05:13AM

B.A._Baracus

Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,240 ✭✭✭✭

Join Date: June 2012

Posts: 10995

Missing your debs does not mean a thing. But when you are young you can't realise that. Same goes for college graduation party. Same goes for a Christmas Party in a job.

In the immortal words of Randy Savage on the Arsenio Hall Show: "It's like a grain of sand in the Sahara Desert... It don't matter" - Your life is the desert. The debs is just a random Thursday. People who do go forget about it two days later.

0
#34 09-05-2018 12:13PM

B0jangles

Closed Accounts Posts: 4,950 ✭✭✭

Join Date: May 2010

Posts: 4813

Yeah, don't worry about it - I went to mine and it was... ok I suppose - crap food, mediocre DJ, no major drama. Bit of a letdown after all the build-up.

I'd say the majority of the really memorable ones are ones that go horribly wrong, and even they are more fun to tell stories about afterwards than to actually live through.

0