What is wrong with my mother ?

Afroshack

You seem to be in denial of how serious all this is OP. Physical abuse, denying meals, emotional bullying, locking you out...this is all very serious child abuse. No doubt about it. You seem to think that the withholding of a measly 50 euro a week is " punishing" her in some way or is justified because of her cruelty. You also seem fixated on her hygiene/money grabbing qualities, why are you not fighting tooth and nail to get your brothers and sisters out of there?????

GingerLily

OP, do you have children?

XsApollo

Basil3 wrote: »

Sorry, I stopped at the point where you said you're working full time and don't want to pay €50/week rent. That's not unreasonable at all.

Did you actually read the bloody rest of the post?
That woman should be locked up and giving a beating herself.
Report her.

Edit I stopped reading the rest of the thread after reading this post.
But hey.

Das Reich

I have no advice to give you as it is obvious (leave home). But I am commenting because I got curious to know what your father does to have 1.000 euros per week.

Neyite

Mod:

Closed for review.

shalena

GingerLily wrote: »

OP, do you have children?

No i do not. Ginger Lily I see you are taking my post a bit to heart and I understand where you are coming from. Your main concern here is my younger siblings. But you need not worry, the 19 year old thinks my mother is a bitch but she is very successful, currently studying veterinary and happy with her life, comes home at the weekends from college. The 2 younger have gotten by and although they also think my mother is a bitch, putting them into foster care would make things so so so bad for them. They would hate it, it would destroy their lives. They love my mother, they make her breakfast in bed, she thanks them and kisses and hugs them for it. But yet if my brother has a football match and doesnt get a game, she will give out. If my sister fairs poorly in school, she gets nasty. It would ruin their lives a foster home. Who wants to be taken out of their home at 12 and 14 years of age? My mother did not neglect them. I seen when they were infants, they were brought to the doctor over the littlest things, they were fed, wrapped up well when brought out in the cold, spoilt rotten at Christmas time. She just is mean to them sometimes now. I was neglected, not them. my older siblings were neglected, but why should I take a 12 and 14 year old out of their home that they love for what I suffered? I once asked them , has mum ever slapped you? And they said "no why would she do that". If they were 5 and 6 i would probably worry more but they are teenagers now, they know if my mother is neglecting them.