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Not together, but not allowed to date other men

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  • #62
    pwurple
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,449 ✭✭✭✭pwurple


    Well go you! That is the best break up story I have read in ages. Good woman!

    You even explained it to him to benefit the next human he encounters. That is decent moral values right there, and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. :)


  • #63
    Unanimous
    Closed Accounts Posts: 143 ✭✭Unanimous


    Jenneke87 wrote: »
    <Snip> Please don't repost such a lengthy post.
    i dont see what he has to offer that would make you consider not telling him off straight away. he is judgemental and is just so strange. i can just imagine "are you this easy?" "where did you meet all these men"...he def thinks you are a slut so why wait for him to frustrate your life first before ending it?


  • #64
    Ursus Horribilis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,168 ✭✭✭Ursus Horribilis


    Erm...she did end it.


  • #65
    professore
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,857 ✭✭✭professore


    I agree with most of what people are saying on here.

    I would make a few comments though - if he feels this way about women, that he "wants a virgin" etc etc for religious reasons or whatever, he is perfectly entitled to this viewpoint. However if he is happy enough to sleep with you and then calls you "easy" this is a double standard.

    Also not sure why you are "feeling judged" as you say. People judge each other all day long. This is normal human behaviour.

    If he has some set of morals and you have a different set (although I think this guy is the type that has one set of morals for himself and another set for everyone else), why do you care what he thinks? I don't care that for example a Christian will judge me to be an evil heathen because I am an atheist.

    You made the right decision.


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