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Extramarital affairs

LegacyUser · 2017-08-26 12:25:50

Going unregistered for this. I’m male, mid 40’s, married 10 years with two kids. We don’t have the best marriage in the world by a long shot but we don’t have the worst one either. I’ve been struggling with the concept of having an affair for a few years now. My head was so wrecked by the thoughts and fighting the thoughts…

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#32 04-09-2017 9:03pm
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Go into any bookstore, chose five or six chick-lit type books and read them .They will tell you everything and anything you want to know, from all sides.

There's a reason for all the cliches.It pretty much never ends well.You might enjoy it while it lasts, but do you think the fallout is worth that?

Go try fix whatever the problem is with your marraige (start with the fighting over school runs etc?seems odd), and then come back and see how you feel.Might be the more adult approach.

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