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Don't know where to start

  • 01-08-2017 10:03pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭


    Really struggling with body confidence at the moment. It hit me earlier when I was sitting down that I felt so bloated that you could pop a pin in me and I'd burst. I feel horrible in my clothes, I don't feel attractive anymore as much as i try to do myself up. I don't feel like my partner is interested in me being this size ( that part is all in my head , he actually hasn't ever said anything negative about my size).

    A bit of background I suppose. I'm 31 with a 1 and 3 year old. I work part time .have a lot of help from family if i ever need a sitter. I'm 5'5 and 12.6 st. All my weight is actually fat.i have it on my arm's, I feel I'l have an overhang from a c section on my stomach.my thighs are thunder thighs.

    I just cannot break my grazing habits. I wake up at 7 with the baby, have a few coffees. Properly wouldn't eat anything until 11/12. Something small.or toast whatever.il pick until dinner which could be a rice dish or meat with potatoes or homemade chips with something else ECT.. I sit down when the kids are asleep at 9ish for a cup of tea but I'l need chocolate with the tea. Had two bars tonight already. I would have a bottle of wine at the weekend or a few bottles at home.

    Today mam offered to babysit if I wanted to go to the gym and I asked could I have an hour's sleep instead. I'm so tired all the time. I should have just sucked it up and went to the gym.

    I dunno what I'm looking for in this post but I know I'm struggling with making a first move or change. I'm lacking real motivation .
    Thanks for any help.


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 225 ✭✭Tinwhistle*


    Hi ja1986

    I know exactly how you are feeling, I've felt the same for years on and off. I'm in my early 50's now and I've just gone back to Slimming World for the third time! My eating habits sound just like yours, and I have the c-section overhang too, not sure that will ever go away unless I have surgery.

    Anyway, just by posting here you've made a good choice, little steps will get you to where you want to be. I always set a date for a new start, so maybe August 1st is a good date for you :)

    T* x


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,268 ✭✭✭✭uck51js9zml2yt


    2 young kids is hard work. Don't underestimate it.
    Start with your diet and then look at the gym another time.
    And cut out the bars;)

    What does your partner do to give you a break?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78 ✭✭Ninja_Go


    If you're tired all the time get your thyroid checked, I was flat out for weeks on end and turns out I've an underactive thyroid which leaves me totally fatigued

    Two little kids will tire you out too though, don't be too hard on yourself!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭ja1986


    Thanks for the replys. I dunno I'm just always having a slump at around 3 or 4 I'm absolutely shattered. I feel I should be using my free time more proactively. My partner is great.hes out 7 until 6 everyday but I can do whatever I need to in the evenings or weekends it's not a problem.

    I have all the slimming world books I'm on numerous Facebook groups following it. Iv tried it twice and didn't have great losses. But then I didn't stick to long to the plan to find out. Maybe 3rd time lucky.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 225 ✭✭Tinwhistle*


    I suggest you don't have any goodies in the house.

    I agree with tatranska, leave the gym out of it and concentrate on changing your eating habits first. Do you walk? I try to do a 20 minute brisk walk three/four times a week.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,030 ✭✭✭njs030


    Fixing your diet is the place to start, have you been to the doctor to get blood tests? Your body is still recovering from pregnancy so you could be lacking in vitamins like iron or b vitamins.

    Once you get your diet sorted and start doing small bits of exercise like walking you'll find you've more energy for more.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,191 ✭✭✭uncle_sam_ie


    Try setting a goal with just one thing. Like no chocolate with the tea. Then work your way up from there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,103 ✭✭✭mathie


    OP try some substitution.
    I used to have 1 or 2 bars of chocolate with my afternoon tea.
    Then a packet of biscuits and the rest with my evening tea.

    I (over many weeks) changed the chocolate to dark chocolate and gradually reduced the amount to the point where I didn't need any.

    In the evenings I started to have porridge with berries and bananas and found that satisfied my need for a sugar hit and also kept the cravings away.
    After finishing the porridge at 7pm I'd have no desire to eat that evening.

    Best of luck.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,039 ✭✭✭✭HeidiHeidi


    OP, I was very like you until recently. Felt totally out of control, didn't know where to start, had PILED on the weight (to much heavier than you, and I'm a lot older than you!). I don't have kids though, so lifestyle not really comparable - although I do shift work which is a different challenge.

    I changed quite a lot all of a sudden about 3 months ago - maybe too suddenly! - and I won't bore you with all of that.

    But I think the biggest factor was MAKING myself eat first thing when I get up (which is sometimes 6am, and I can barely even face coffee at that hour). I was like you, could happily do without food until 3 or 4 in the afternoon, but would then eat and graze all night and go to bed stuffed - no wonder I wasn't able for breakfast in the morning!

    The early early mornings I still can't face food, so I've taken to having protein shakes with a spoon of peanut butter. I've never been able to do porridge, despite my best efforts - it just makes me gag - and if I start on bread I usually can't stop. So the shake is filling, easy, quick and (for me) very palatable.

    Maybe it's just kick-starting a routine every day, but I find it much, much easier to control what I eat during the day now. And I don't find myself grazing in the evenings as I'm eating about 5 small meals throughout the day, which means I never get starving.

    As I said, I've changed loads of other stuff (including my level of activity, hugely) so it's not just down to the shakes! But it's one thing that would be easy to do for you, might just make your food intake a bit easier to regulate over the day if you start the day on the right foot.

    Good luck! I know how it feels - horrible - but if you can manage to make one small change then you'll manage another, and then another......


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭ja1986


    Thanks so much everyone for all the support. I woke up this morning a bit more positive. Iv just made myself an omelette with veg and had a piece of fruit. The small changes in going to make from now on would be getting rid of the sweets in the evening, having a breakfast so I'm not leaving myself get hungry and I'l kick the fizzy drinks habit. I'm not even hungry in the evenings for the chocolate it's just a pure habit.

    I do have whey protein here so I might even have a shake throughout the day to fill me up.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,062 ✭✭✭Dixie Chick


    Hi there!!

    Oh you sound so tired. Can I just say, that 3 or 4pm slump is probably down to you have little or no fuel in the body to that point. No wonder come evening time when your hubby is home and you relax that you are grabbing for sugar and fat, you are malnourished by the sounds of it

    If you can get used to having a small breakfast at maybe 9 or so- have you ever tried overnight oats or something similar or fast to eat and then maybe take it a week at a time building up new habits as opposed to trying to go all gung ho immediately?

    Best of luck with it, sounds like you are just in a rut but it is workable !


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,095 ✭✭✭✭omb0wyn5ehpij9


    Can I just say, that 3 or 4pm slump is probably down to you have little or no fuel in the body to that point

    Exactly what I was about to say. You need to fuel your body. I'm sure you are feeding the kids nutritious meals throughout the day, when you are making these meals for the kids, make something for yourself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭ja1986


    Hi there!!

    Oh you sound so tired. Can I just say, that 3 or 4pm slump is probably down to you have little or no fuel in the body to that point. No wonder come evening time when your hubby is home and you relax that you are grabbing for sugar and fat, you are malnourished by the sounds of it

    If you can get used to having a small breakfast at maybe 9 or so- have you ever tried overnight oats or something similar or fast to eat and then maybe take it a week at a time building up new habits as opposed to trying to go all gung ho immediately?

    Best of luck with it, sounds like you are just in a rut but it is workable !

    Ya I really need to start eating properly. Will try those oats. Would the oats be too heavy to eat at night as a dessert rather than the chocolate


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 746 ✭✭✭gypsylee


    From your post I would say you are not eating enough. No wonder you are tired mid-afternoon. You need food for energy!

    Aim to have three meals and two healthy snacks a day. Have the meals at the same time each day, say breakfast at 8.30, snack of fruit at 11.00, lunch at 1.00, snack at 3.30 and dinner in the evening. Have some protein at lunch and dinner. Eggs are great so you have made a good start with the omelette. Are you drinking enough water? Aim to have 2 litres a day to flush out the toxins and hydrate you. I start each day with a mug of hot water and lemon to flush out the overnight toxins.

    Once you start eating and drinking right you will feel more inclined to exercise. Even a good brisk walk with the kids in a buggy will improve your mental attitude. It's a win win and it's free!

    Good luck with your lifestyle change, it won't take too long to notice the difference in how you feel if you change your eating habits.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,062 ✭✭✭Dixie Chick


    They are a way better choice than chocolate so if you can swap them out then that would be really great progress. I would not get too bogged down in advice people can give, like food timings and not eating after 6pm and other over fussy things that might be more in line with their own targets. You need to start eating more and better foods and get that established before you go on any quickloss route as in the long run it will stand to you. By eating regularily and losing or cutting back on the bars of chocolate you will feel more energy and then you can start working on the next step.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,458 ✭✭✭scarepanda


    OP I'm similar to you. I have a 1 yr old and I'm addicted to sugar. It's actually ridiculous how bad it is!

    Anyways, I hit a rock bottom last November
    All I changed was my eating habits, cut out the junk, bread, reduced milk intake. Increased water, and allowed myself unlimited fruit and veg. Porridge and honey for breakfast, something simple like scrambled eggs for lunch and a smaller portion of whatever was going for dinner (that way I didn't feel like I was missing out on anything). I also got rid of the sweet press, except for a box of roses. Everyday I didn't touch it was a good day!
    Anyways, just by doing that I lost on average 1kg over 5 weeks ( I was also breastfeeding). Unfortunately for me Christmas came to quickly and all my good work went down the drain except for one thing.... I knew i could do it when I set my mind to it.

    It's only in the last few weeks iv hit the same rock bottom but this week I'm back on track. Same as above only I'm aiming on walking at least 5km a day (or 5km 5 days a week) as I have a weight loss target with an end date, so I need to loose it a bit quicker than normal. Anyways in 4 days I'm down .6kg! It's only the start for me, but I'm hoping I can keep it up!

    One other thing I did was plan for a treat night ahead of time. Buy whatever treats you want, eat them that night and whatever is left over goes straight into the bin BEFORE you go to bed. No leaving it till the morning because then you won't be able to skip them! When I'm in the frame of mind I'm currently in I also see it as a challenge to not take the biscuit or bar or whatever else is on offer if I'm visiting someone and when I don't then it's a mini victory!

    Best of luck OP!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭ja1986


    Oh well done you. It's the staying power I don't have.if I don't have a big loss the first week then it's back to sabotaging myself. I feel like I really need to do it this time I don't want to spend my 30s disgusted with myself.
    Anyway 7 hours in I'm doing good haha


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,534 ✭✭✭✭guil


    One thing I will say is try cut out sugar as much as possible. I drive a truck and was always sure I needed sugary food to stay awake, fast forward a few years and I had put on 8 stone. Over the last year and a half I've lost between 5 and 6 stone and most of that was cutting out sugar but I eat loads of fruit even though that still has sugar. Obviously that's not all I done but it's a start and should be manageable. Good luck with it anyway.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,103 ✭✭✭mathie


    guil wrote: »
    One thing I will say is try cut out sugar as much as possible. I drive a truck and was always sure I needed sugary food to stay awake, fast forward a few years and I had put on 8 stone. Over the last year and a half I've lost between 5 and 6 stone and most of that was cutting out sugar but I eat loads of fruit even though that still has sugar. Obviously that's not all I done but it's a start and should be manageable. Good luck with it anyway.

    Fruit also has fiber which makes it easier for your body to deal with.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭ja1986


    Actually starving now. Had nothing since the breakfast I never really have lunches.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,458 ✭✭✭scarepanda


    ja1986 wrote:
    Actually starving now. Had nothing since the breakfast I never really have lunches.


    Eat your lunch! When your hungry outside of meal times drink plenty of water and if your still a bit peckish eat some fruit! It's way easier said than done though!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,039 ✭✭✭✭HeidiHeidi


    ja1986 wrote: »
    Actually starving now. Had nothing since the breakfast I never really have lunches.

    You need to get into the habit of eating regularly. Set an alarm or something!

    Getting to the point of being starving will achieve nothing, and may lead to binging (it certainly did with me anyhow). Small meals, regularly. Without fail.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭ja1986


    Ya this is where I slip up all the time .I was busy playing with the baby and bathing her and feeding the kids so I forget about myself and I end up grazing all the time. Think I need to so that alarm or have a good diary. I just had a yougart and banana and I'm still hungry.this is where I'd go for the crisps now. I'l have water and start an early dinner I think.
    Thanks for being with me today everyone!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭ja1986


    ja1986 wrote: »
    Ya this is where I slip up all the time .I was busy playing with the baby and bathing her and feeding the kids so I forget about myself and I end up grazing all the time. Think I need to so that alarm or have a good diary. I just had a yougart and banana and I'm still hungry.this is where I'd go for the crisps now. I'l have water and start an early dinner I think.
    Thanks for being with me today everyone!

    Spelling mistakes sorry!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,229 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    gypsylee wrote:
    I start each day with a mug of hot water and lemon to flush out the overnight toxins.

    What overnight toxins might these be?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,694 ✭✭✭✭Alf Veedersane


    Dial Hard wrote: »
    What overnight toxins might these be?

    The ones implanted by the lizard people.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,534 ✭✭✭✭guil


    ja1986 wrote: »
    Ya this is where I slip up all the time .I was busy playing with the baby and bathing her and feeding the kids so I forget about myself and I end up grazing all the time. Think I need to so that alarm or have a good diary. I just had a yougart and banana and I'm still hungry.this is where I'd go for the crisps now. I'l have water and start an early dinner I think.
    Thanks for being with me today everyone!
    Believe it or not a lot of the time when I get hungry I have a drink of water and more times than not the hunger goes away. Supposedly our bodies signs for needing water is the same as hunger.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,860 ✭✭✭Cake Man


    gypsylee wrote: »
    Aim to have 2 litres a day to flush out the toxins and hydrate you. I start each day with a mug of hot water and lemon to flush out the overnight toxins.
    LOL


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭ja1986


    I just want to update this to show how yesterday went.
    Up since 6.30
    11ish had omelette and plum
    4ish had low fat yougart and banana
    6 had homemade chicken curry

    So I was starving at 4 and reached for the yougart and was still hungry so had dinner at 6 and around 9 was hungry again .
    I didn't go for the chocolate! But had a sausage sandwich which is probably worst.

    I didn't have any carbs until dinner at 6, maybe this is why I was so hungry. Should have tracked my calorie intake yesterday to see why I was peckish


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,062 ✭✭✭Dixie Chick


    Morning !! Sounds like you made good efforts yesterday and well done on the no chocolate!! You are probably still not eating enough during the day, hence needing the sausage sambo but I think you are more aware now so a really fab start!!

    Just for an example of my own food yesterday
    B - Porridge with an apple and half a banan blended in (makes is nice and sweet)
    S- hard boiled egg (I always have a few of these ready in the fridge, great to grab)
    L- Spicy beans and a slice of toast (this was peppers, mushrooms and onions fried off, added half a tin of butter beans and used chilli and smoked paprika spices )
    D- Spaghetti bolognese
    S- Glenisk vanilla yogurt.

    That might seem like a lot but I am on a personal mission to eat lots earlier in day as I can have a wandering hand in the evening myself otherwise!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,030 ✭✭✭njs030


    ja1986 wrote: »
    I just want to update this to show how yesterday went.
    Up since 6.30
    11ish had omelette and plum
    4ish had low fat yougart and banana
    6 had homemade chicken curry

    So I was starving at 4 and reached for the yougart and was still hungry so had dinner at 6 and around 9 was hungry again .
    I didn't go for the chocolate! But had a sausage sandwich which is probably worst.

    I didn't have any carbs until dinner at 6, maybe this is why I was so hungry. Should have tracked my calorie intake yesterday to see why I was peckish

    What type of curry? What size portion?
    How many sausages? How much bread?
    How many eggs in the omelette? Was there cheese, how much?

    Op use my fitness pal to track what you eat and have steady meals throughout the day rather than eating nothing all day and loads at night.

    Also there's nothing wrong with carbs!! Try to avoid white over processed carbs like white bread and cakes but otherwise they are fine as long as you know the amount you're eating and the calories used.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,694 ✭✭✭✭Alf Veedersane


    While you can make choices to offset it, you're going to have to be ok being a little hungry at times if you want to lose weight.

    But you need to get a handle on the calorific value of what you're eating in order to understand where you can make changes. Low-fat yoghurt doesn't mean low-calorie yoghurt. It usually means they've reduced the fat content and increased the sugar content.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭ja1986


    Iv just tracked my calorie for the day and I'm left with 400 left.
    Breakfast small breakroll with ham
    Fruit

    Lunch yougart

    Dinner 2 jacket potatoes with light soft cheese and ham.
    Around 4 coffees today


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,030 ✭✭✭njs030


    What are your daily calories and how did you work them out?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭ja1986


    What are your daily calories and how did you work them out?

    My fitness pal.
    It's 1410 per day for a 2lb lose a week.
    I tracked everything on the app today with the barcode scanner and scales


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,103 ✭✭✭mathie


    While you can make choices to offset it, you're going to have to be ok being a little hungry at times if you want to lose weight.

    But you need to get a handle on the calorific value of what you're eating in order to understand where you can make changes. Low-fat yoghurt doesn't mean low-calorie yoghurt. It usually means they've reduced the fat content and increased the sugar content.
    ja1986 wrote: »
    Iv just tracked my calorie for the day and I'm left with 400 left.
    Breakfast small break roll with ham
    Fruit

    Lunch yougart

    Dinner 2 jacket potatoes with light soft cheese and ham.
    Around 4 coffees today

    100% agree with what Alf says here.

    I'm guesstimating here but ...
    one white roll plus butter = 356calories (http://www.myfitnesspal.com/food/calories/buttered-roll-generic-deli-buttered-roll-60607483)
    100g of sliced ham = 200 calories

    556 calories

    Personally I'd have eaten that previously and been hungry again 2 hours later.

    Now I'd eat

    Baked Beans No Sugar
    Aldi, 210 g, 143 calories

    the Deli Reduced Fat Hummus
    Aldi, 50 g, 108 calories

    3 large raw carrots
    Calories 89

    200g spinach - 58 calories

    250g cherry tomatoes (1 punnet) - 65 calories

    463 calories total

    The main thing is that I'd be satiated for far longer than a ham roll.

    Now you may not like some of what I eat but as Alf say "you need to get a handle on the calorific value of what you're eating in order to understand where you can make changes"

    Try to think low calorie and high satiety.

    Best of luck.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭ja1986


    mathie wrote: »
    100% agree with what Alf says here.

    I'm guesstimating here but ...
    one white roll plus butter = 356calories (http://www.myfitnesspal.com/food/calories/buttered-roll-generic-deli-buttered-roll-60607483)
    100g of sliced ham = 200 calories

    556 calories

    Personally I'd have eaten that previously and been hungry again 2 hours later.

    Now I'd eat

    Baked Beans No Sugar
    Aldi, 210 g, 143 calories

    the Deli Reduced Fat Hummus
    Aldi, 50 g, 108 calories

    3 large raw carrots
    Calories 89

    200g spinach - 58 calories

    250g cherry tomatoes (1 punnet) - 65 calories

    463 calories total

    The main thing is that I'd be satiated for far longer than a ham roll.

    Now you may not like some of what I eat but as Alf say "you need to get a handle on the calorific value of what you're eating in order to understand where you can make changes"

    Try to think low calorie and high satiety.

    Best of luck.

    Thanks for the reply. To be honest I did feel like I could have eat more for those calories. Proud of myself for doing the jacket potatoes when they were all eating takeaway!
    Was in such a rush today I grabbed 2 sausages from a deli to fill me until lunch in work. Those calories are ridiculous! I need to check calories before I eat them ha.
    Now I'm working in an Asian street food place and I have a 9 hour shift so I need to think wisely here.
    Any suggestions?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,694 ✭✭✭✭Alf Veedersane


    You need to be more prepared. It appears as though the majority of the food you eat is something hastily grabbed from somewhere.

    If you put some preparation into what you are going to eat in advance of when you're going to eat it, then you'll reduce the chances of grabbing sh*te on the fly.

    If yesterday you had sat down and planned what you would eat and when you would eat it and had it prepared this morning to bring with you to eat today, then you wouldn't be running into buy sausages from a hot food counter and you wouldn't be wondering what you'll have to eat during a 9-hour shift.

    Plan your week out on a Sunday night. Prepare lunches and/or dinners in advance and have them ready to go. Otherwise you'll end up in a shop or supermarket looking for the least worst option, which will rarely be a good option.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,103 ✭✭✭mathie


    ja1986 wrote: »
    Thanks for the reply. To be honest I did feel like I could have eat more for those calories. Proud of myself for doing the jacket potatoes when they were all eating takeaway!
    Was in such a rush today I grabbed 2 sausages from a deli to fill me until lunch in work. Those calories are ridiculous! I need to check calories before I eat them ha.
    Now I'm working in an Asian street food place and I have a 9 hour shift so I need to think wisely here.
    Any suggestions?

    Avoid things smothered in sauces. There can be a lot of calories in them.
    http://calorielab.com/foods/asian-sauces/124

    Try to eat as close to whole foods as possible and avoid processed.
    So brown rice over white.
    Prioritise fruit and vegetables.

    For example :
    whole foods ...
    one large red pepper = 50 calories
    100g mushrooms = 21 calories
    300g wholegrain rice = 330 calories

    processed ...
    300g white rice = 451 calories

    Just FYI a large jacket potato has 279 calories which is quite calorific.

    You can see how you can spend your calories wisely or unwisely.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,973 ✭✭✭✭Mars Bar


    Seriously, prep is the way to go.

    I already have what I'm going to eat for lunch and dinner for today in MFP! I know where I have some leeway and where I don't.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭ja1986


    Morning everyone thanks so much for all the advice. Iv stayed within my calories for the last two days but I'm seeing I need to be a bit more clever in what I'm eating to get more for my calories.
    Does anyone have any nice dinner / lunch ideas. Just doing my shopping list now.
    I'm going to switch the whole house over to brown rice/pasta and wholemeal bread.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 736 ✭✭✭Tea-a-Maria


    ja1986 wrote: »
    Morning everyone thanks so much for all the advice. Iv stayed within my calories for the last two days but I'm seeing I need to be a bit more clever in what I'm eating to get more for my calories.
    Does anyone have any nice dinner / lunch ideas. Just doing my shopping list now.
    I'm going to switch the whole house over to brown rice/pasta and wholemeal bread.

    Anything made with lean mince I find is good. Think chilli con carne, spag bol, shepherds pie and the like. Sweat onion, carrots and celery for the base, then add your spices, tomatoes, etc. Homemade burgers with roasted sweet potato fries are also a good shout.

    Stir fries are also a great way of getting in lots of veg. Look up some simple marinades for your meat to mix it up. I'm a fan of lemon, ginger, honey and soy sauce. Mix them together, fire in some chopped chicken and leave to marinate for an hour or overnight then fry off.

    You want to try and work in as much veg as possible. Also try to batch cook things that freeze well, like curries and stews. If you can set aside an hour to do some meal prep and freeze things, it'll make the rest of the week a lot easier. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,870 ✭✭✭✭Dtp1979


    ja1986 wrote: »
    Morning everyone thanks so much for all the advice. Iv stayed within my calories for the last two days but I'm seeing I need to be a bit more clever in what I'm eating to get more for my calories.
    Does anyone have any nice dinner / lunch ideas. Just doing my shopping list now.
    I'm going to switch the whole house over to brown rice/pasta and wholemeal bread.

    White vs brown rice/pasta etc will make very little difference. Maybe a little more fibre in brown but nothing worth talking about


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,062 ✭✭✭Dixie Chick


    Well done you. And it is great to see you are getting the jist of better bang for your buck

    The thing with counting calories alone is that sometimes nutrition might be overlooked but you seem to be doing well.

    Do you own a slow cooker, so easy yo make bolognese, chilli con carne, curries etc. You can make and freeze huge amounts. You are doing so well within the space of week to be working on getting proper food into you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,694 ✭✭✭✭Alf Veedersane


    Well done you. And it is great to see you are getting the jist of better bang for your buck

    The thing with counting calories alone is that sometimes nutrition might be overlooked but you seem to be doing well.

    Do you own a slow cooker, so easy yo make bolognese, chilli con carne, curries etc. You can make and freeze huge amounts. You are doing so well within the space of week to be working on getting proper food into you.

    Making likes of chillies, Bolognese, curries etc are great because you can make a big batch with very little work involved and have a load of dinner portions ready to freeze and have another time.

    The best thing is you've started to make changes. Too many people wait until they think they have the perfect set up rather than just start making positive changes and improve the different elements that need to be improved over time.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,468 ✭✭✭✭OldNotWIse


    Hi OP.

    I find eggs are great for starting the day. They are full of protein. I'd often scramble 2 eggs with a chopped shallot, some cherry tomatoes and a little bit of cheese. It's yum and will stop me grazing in between breakfast and lunch.

    I recently lost a lot of weight and the single biggest change I made was having "dinner" at lunchtime and vice versa. Home made stew or curry with brown rice or baby potatoes in the middle of the day is very comforting and leaves you fuller for longer. Then you have lots of time to burn it off throughout the rest of the day. I found this preferable to having the same meal at say 8 or 9 at night.

    Also be sure to fill up on fruit and water during the day.

    Good luck!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,468 ✭✭✭✭OldNotWIse


    ja1986 wrote: »
    Ya I really need to start eating properly. Will try those oats. Would the oats be too heavy to eat at night as a dessert rather than the chocolate

    Lidl sell oats (I think they are in the Deluxe range) that are extra fine to make a really smooth porridge. I guess the GI score might be higher but still, the porridge is simply amazing. I don't take dairy so I make mine with almond or soya milk and the taste is actually far nicer. The soya milk gives it a little extra sweetness so you don't need to add too much sugar. It is smooth, sweet porridge bliss! The almond milk is also nice, gives a slight nutty taste which is lovely if you sprinkle cinnamon on top! Also, almond milk tends to be more filling. Feeling the porridge love lol :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,694 ✭✭✭✭Alf Veedersane


    OldNotWIse wrote: »
    Lidl sell oats (I think they are in the Deluxe range) that are extra fine to make a really smooth porridge. I guess the GI score might be higher but still, the porridge is simply amazing. I don't take dairy so I make mine with almond or soya milk and the taste is actually far nicer. The soya milk gives it a little extra sweetness so you don't need to add too much sugar. It is smooth, sweet porridge bliss! The almond milk is also nice, gives a slight nutty taste which is lovely if you sprinkle cinnamon on top! Also, almond milk tends to be more filling. Feeling the porridge love lol :)

    You can also get a 2.5kg bag of 'Instant oats' from My Protein for €8.50. It's very, very fine. Like flour. Makes for a really smooth porridge. Also, a 50g scoop looks small in the bowl but when you add in 4 scoops worth of liquid and add heat, it multiplies in volume hugely.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 39,900 ✭✭✭✭Mellor


    mathie wrote: »
    300g wholegrain rice = 330 calories

    processed ...
    300g white rice = 451 calories

    The difference between white and brown rice is nothing like that. Also a lot higher in calories.

    100g White Rice = 365 Cals
    100g Brown Rice = 370 Cals


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,062 ✭✭✭Dixie Chick


    When I make my porridge in the mornings i blend them with half a banana or an apple in the nutribullet before cooking them. They consistency is like Redi Brek and so sweet as well so no need to add anything.


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