Starting a relationship with my lecturer

El_Duderino 09

Nobody_can wrote:

How can I judge someone's character when I don't know them? Explain please? I once said that a man I know had divorced his wife on the down low and married someone else. 6 months later I found out I was right !!

Confirmation bias is the explanation.

This thread was interesting up to a point. Then you made clear that you have some kind of supernatural sixth sense which allows you to understand people and events.... Why on earth come and ask us normal people for advice then? We don't have your super power of perception.

I had a similar power when I was 20 and in uni. I was smarter than everyone around me but I lost it at about the same time as I learned my arse from my elbow.

Nobody_can

El_Duderino 09 wrote: »

Confirmation bias is the explanation.

This thread was interesting up to a point. Then you made clear that you have some kind of supernatural sixth sense which allows you to understand people and events.... Why on earth come and ask us normal people for advice then? We don't have your super power of perception.

I had a similar power when I was 20 and in uni. I was smarter than everyone around me but I lost it at about the same time as I learned my arse from my elbow.

If you say so. I must be crazy . I won't pursue anything.

El_Duderino 09

Nobody_can wrote:

If you say so.

Yes it's confirmation bias. It happens to us all

[/quote] I must be crazy[/quote]

I haven't commented on your mental health so I defer to you on that.

[/quote] I won't pursue anything.[/quote]

Probably the first genuinely clever decision you've made on this thread

Nobody_can

El_Duderino 09 wrote: »

Yes it's confirmation bias. It happens to us all

I must be crazy[/quote]

I haven't commented on your mental health so I defer to you on that.

[/quote] I won't pursue anything.[/quote]

Probably the first genuinely clever decision you've made on this thread[/quote]

You talk as if I'm beneath you and you act like I'm dumb

FYI I was being sarcastic when I said I was crazy

IvyTheTerrible

What is the point of you posting this thread? You fancy your lecturer, you want to sleep with him, and when people suggest it's a bad idea/not necessarily going to happen you get all defensive.

What exactly is the personal issue you want help with? Or do you just want people to say "Ah go on, shag him, be grand"?

J Mysterio

Well, this has been entertaining.

OP definitely naive and arrogant.

How wonderfull to be so attractive and have guys fall all over you. Being able to read their minds and then pick and choose is a big plus too.

Nobody_can

And for those who didn't pay attention I have mentioned that he will not be my lecturer this year at all

And to be honest I don't understand why any lecturer/student relationships would be frowned upon if the lecturer wasn't grading any of the student's paper. To say that two people cannot fall in love accidentally because of fear of rumours and public perception is ridiculous. Any two adults can come into a situation where they find each other falling in love. Why should it be a conflict of interest if the student isn't in the lecturers classes ?

J Mysterio

You said just sex, not love, love.

Nobody_can

J Mysterio wrote: »

Well, this has been entertaining.

OP definitely naive and arrogant.

How wonderfull to be so attractive and have guys fall all over you. Being able to read their minds and then pick and choose is a big plus too.[/quote

I'm not being arrogant people asked if I wasn't able to get the D from anywhere else and I said I could

Even if I was arrogant and naive. I'd rather that than to be a dickhead

Potatoeman

Nobody_can wrote: »

And for those who didn't pay attention I have mentioned that he will not be my lecturer this year at all

And to be honest I don't understand why any lecturer/student relationships would be frowned upon if the lecturer wasn't grading any of the student's paper. To say that two people cannot fall in love accidentally because of fear of rumours and public perception is ridiculous. Any two adults can come into a situation where they find each other falling in love. Why should it be a conflict of interest if the student isn't in the lecturers classes ?

It might raise the question of when it began.

Nobody_can

J Mysterio wrote: »

You said just sex, not love, love.

actually what I want is a sexual relationship. But as many have pointed out ANY lecturer/student relationship is under scrutiny. Obviously a relationship based only on sex would be twice as bad

Neyite

Mod:

OP, you've gotten advice on your original question and there is not much more that can be said. I'm closing this because its veering wildly off topic and not much of a thread can be had when you are deleting all your posts.

All the best.