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Male circumcision

  • 29-05-2015 8:44pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,353 ✭✭✭Cold War Kid


    Half watching East Is East again after seeing it years ago. Good film.

    The little boy got circumcised earlier and was in so much pain; it was fukcing heartbreaking.

    Please don't turn this into a gender war of which is worse, MGM or FGM. They're different because of different organs, but they're both hideous.

    If a man or older boy *chooses* MGM, well that's at least better than involuntary MGM but I think it's still barbaric and wonder what informs that choice (the hygiene thing and what else?) - MGM is criticised for sure, but also so accepted in other quarters, not just extreme religious ones. I find it hard to agree with this.

    Circumcising little baby boys. Wtf? How...?! :confused:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    Giving the ould 'Jewish Chewing Gum' the snip eh!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,169 ✭✭✭Wang King


    You want to put Rabbi's out of business? They only do this job for the tips!
    Oi vey!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,380 ✭✭✭✭Banjo String


    It's fcuking sore, I can tell you that much.

    The guy that circumcised me was cock eyed, he got the sack.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    It's fcuking sore, I can tell you that much.

    Apt username!


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Wang King wrote: »
    You want to put Rabbi's out of business? They only do this job for the tips!
    Oi vey!

    Useless trivia. Unless one is Jewish.

    It's not a rabbi, it's a mohel.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 159 ✭✭Laoislion8383


    Sore as feck that's for sure, but on a personal note being told by numerous sexual partners through out my life that I had plenty of staying power in the bedroom and done a bit of research on it and yes guys that get the procedure done young will find it hard(excuse the pun) to climax during sex, hence the staying power


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,716 ✭✭✭✭Earthhorse


    It's odd, I was just thinking about this earlier.

    I read The Year of Living Biblically by AJ Jacobs who actually did an AMA on this site. It's a book about him trying to live strictly by the old testament. Throughout, he challenges everything put to him though he is fair. Only when it comes to circumcision does he seem to baulk at the task and hide behind tradition. I was really disappointed with that and I don't know what brought it to my mind today but, in short, I agree.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,797 ✭✭✭Sir Osis of Liver.


    Its a bloody rip off.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,034 ✭✭✭mad muffin


    As someone who was circumcised at 6 years old due to an infection, I can tell you, I'd rather would have had it done as a baby.

    I remember it (and I don't remember much from 6 years old) it was painful.

    As far as sensitivity. No problems in that department.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 917 ✭✭✭Mr_Muffin


    Circumcised men are not real men. They have a part of them missing.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,681 ✭✭✭✭P_1


    Should not be done before anyone can consent to it in my eyes. Ridiculous invasion of bodily integrity usually done for religious (Judaism or Islam) or monetary (American pediatricians) means.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,733 ✭✭✭✭osarusan


    I do not know much of what's behind this, but it seems like a strange story, and a cruel one:

    http://news.nationalpost.com/news/world/heather-hironimus-intactivist-mom-who-took-son-into-hiding-to-save-his-foreskin-sobs-in-court-as-she-signs-consent-for-circumcision
    Hironimus and her four-year-old-son’s father, Dennis Nebus, have been warring for years over whether to have the boy’s foreskin removed. She initially agreed in a parenting agreement filed in court, then changed her mind, giving way to a long legal fight. Circuit and appellate judges have sided with the father.

    With her legal options dwindling, Hironimus went missing in February, and ignored a judge’s order that she appear in court and give her consent for the surgery to be performed. A warrant was issued, but she wasn’t located until May 14 at a Broward County shelter where she was staying with her son.

    Brought before Judge Jeffrey Gillen on Friday, Hironimus again declined to sign a consent form for the surgery, and she was advised she would remain jailed indefinitely. After the hearing recessed and she reconsidered, she reluctantly agreed to sign, sobbing as she put pen to paper.

    Though the signature solved a contempt charge against her, she still faces a criminal charge of interference with child custody.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    Circumcising little baby boys. Wtf? How...?! :confused:

    Scissors.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 458 ✭✭REXER


    For truly barbaric and outrageous you need to check out Symphysiotomy!

    Now thats really some fcukedup ****e. :eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 720 ✭✭✭DrGreenthumb


    I was going to become a Jew, but I just couldn't cut it


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,285 ✭✭✭Summer wind


    My son had to be circumcised when he was 3. I nearly went mad in the weeks leading up to the operation worrying. I really really didn't want him to have to go through it but on the day he actually thought he was in a hotel and although he was fairly sore afterwards the operation solved his problem. He was fine very soon afterwards and we were all so relieved he was ok and the operation worked.

    I don't agree with circumcisions on new little baby boys for no reason. I think it's horrific and shouldn't be allowed. I couldn't imagine allowing anyone doing that to my baby ever.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,070 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    An individuals right to bodily integrity should always outweigh someone else's right to religious or traditionalist freedoms

    I've posted that a few times before and my mind has yet to be changed.

    German courts decided on introducing a similar law but some Jews cried discrimination and they reversed the decision. Some orthodox Jews have a Rabbi suck the baby's dick after the 'surgery' too. Lovely stuff


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,070 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    Obviously I have no memory of it so what's the harm? You're not conscious as a baby.

    You don't sound 'conscious' now


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,285 ✭✭✭Summer wind


    Fair enough. I'm not sure mine had to be done for a reason or not, but I'm glad it's done now. Obviously I have no memory of it so what's the harm? You're not conscious as a baby.

    I can assure you a baby can feel pain.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,285 ✭✭✭Summer wind


    You've experimented on them?

    Oh I have yes it's my hobby.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,276 ✭✭✭readyletsgo


    .....Some orthodox Jews have a Rabbi suck the baby's dick after the 'surgery' too. Lovely stuff

    What? Is that for real? Really?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,331 ✭✭✭SparkySpitfire


    What? Is that for real? Really?

    Yeah I've come across that tidbit before, something about preventing infection... :confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,276 ✭✭✭readyletsgo


    Yeah I've come across that tidbit before, something about preventing infection... :confused:

    Peel and wash maybe?

    Seriously, they will suck, the babies, cock, to stop infection. Eh. IDK what to say to that if its true. Do you have a link to anything backing that up?

    What the fook is wrong with humans! Born with it, if it's too tight then you have to get it fixed or removed, grand. But getting it removed as a baby and then having someone suck on it? I know I'm an adult and I'm associating sexual things with that but, wouldn't the guy doing the circumcision be an adult too?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,070 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    What? Is that for real? Really?

    Yep, Google 'Metzitzah b'peh'... or don't


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I've posted that a few times before and my mind has yet to be changed.

    German courts decided on introducing a similar law but some Jews cried discrimination and they reversed the decision. Some orthodox Jews have a Rabbi suck the baby's dick after the 'surgery' too. Lovely stuff

    I have no great time for religious practices and find circumcision highly objectionable...but even still I still wouldn't characterise it as "sucking dick". That's a phrase that is associated with oral sex, it isn't oral sex, they can use their mouths to draw blood away from the cut.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,117 ✭✭✭✭Junkyard Tom


    Adults chopping bits of children's genitalia off.

    Fucking creepy.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Peel and wash maybe?

    Seriously, they will suck, the babies, cock, to stop infection. Eh. IDK what to say to that if its true. Do you have a link to anything backing that up?

    What the fook is wrong with humans! Born with it, if it's too tight then you have to get it fixed or removed, grand. But getting it removed as a baby and then having someone suck on it? I know I'm an adult and I'm associating sexual things with that but, wouldn't the guy doing the circumcision be an adult too?

    He would, but not an adult that automatically assumes that placing the mouth on the penis equates to...snigger snigger nudge nudge..."sucking dick". It's borderline "they're all gay".


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,513 ✭✭✭whupdedo


    I'm circumcised and I have to say I can't imagine any fella not having it done , I think I'd hate the feel of it but I suppose I wouldn't know any different, I had it done as a baby and sur nobody remembers what happens them a baby so I can't see the harm in it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,070 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    I have no great time for religious practices and find circumcision highly objectionable...but even still I still wouldn't characterise it as "sucking dick". That's a phrase that is associated with oral sex, it isn't oral sex, they can use their mouths to draw blood away from the cut.

    What part of 'sucking' on a 'dick' is incorrect?

    Ultra-orthodox Rabbis sometimes suck on baby's dicks... that is a factually correct statement.

    I never mentioned sex. Performing female genital mutilation isn't a sex act either.


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  • Posts: 26,052 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Earthhorse wrote: »
    Throughout, he challenges everything put to him though he is fair. Only when it comes to circumcision does he seem to baulk at the task and hide behind tradition.


    I read that too. It was an obvious cop out, and as you say quite disappointing.

    I'm against all ritual mutilation, from genital mutilation to tribal scarification. Tradition is not an adequate reason to harm a persons body.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,218 ✭✭✭Lucifer MorningStar


    Mr_Muffin wrote: »
    Circumcised men are not real men. They have a part of them missing.

    Shut up ya cheesedick :pac:


  • Posts: 26,052 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Mr_Muffin wrote: »
    Circumcised men are not real men. They have a part of them missing.

    By that logic someone whose toenail falls off isn't a real person, since part of them is missing.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,188 ✭✭✭DoYouEvenLift


    Any parent who does this to their children without fully considering what it is they're actually doing is a scumbag. The only exception for infant circumcission should be health risks where it's an absolute necessity, other than that the option should be entirely up to the individual when they turn 18. Even then, unless there was severe phimosis, I think anyone that did it would be stupid because there are so many cons to circumcission. This wouldn't be needed if parents taught their children correct personal hygiene when growing up anyway, one is supposed to pull the foreskin back to properly clean their dick and also make sure they don't develop an 'anteater' dick.


    At least it's not as popular in Ireland as it is in America, and even they are beginning to cop on. The worst would be fathers who are all for circumcising their sons just because "well I'm circumcised so I guess I'll do the same to my son."


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 535 ✭✭✭Chloris


    My partner has his done as a baby. He's never brought it up with his parents and they've never explained it but his brother isn't circumscised so it's probably for health reasons. Although his mom is a bit of a freak about cleanliness and he is the eldest... I'd love to know what their motivation was.

    Anyway, I think it's fantastic. I think foreskins are completely gross now. Although it's definitely true about the reduced sensitivity, I think the benefits outweigh the cost. Plus, when you jizz, the sensation is just as good... It'll probably just mean a longer build-up, and I can't really see how that's a bad thing either.

    While I would be completely opposed to doing it to a young child (other than for medical reasons) I think it's difficult to say whether it's ethical to do it to an infant. If more research became available with the health benefits, I might think otherwise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,665 ✭✭✭Tin Foil Hat


    It should be banned. No question. As they say - your right to swing your fist stops at the tip of another persons nose. Similarly, your right to practice your religion stops at the tip of a baby boy's penis.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,331 ✭✭✭SparkySpitfire


    Seriously, they will suck, the babies, cock, to stop infection. Eh. IDK what to say to that if its true. Do you have a link to anything backing that up?

    Here's the Wikipedia entry on it (I did look up some of the source links cos Wiki can be dodge, feel free to research those sources yourself, as I wouldn't quote Wiki as Gospel, but it can't be THAT wrong)

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brit_milah#Metzitzah_B.27Peh

    The practice has been banned in NY without written consent from parents:
    http://forward.com/news/195306/rabbi-performs-controversial-metzitzah-bpeh-circum/

    Here's a news article relating that recently enough some babies have contracted herpes as a result of the practice :eek:
    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/05/jewish-mohels-banned_n_5650672.html


    It appears that it's not the most common practice; seems like only a few people follow it so you can't say that it happens in most circumcisions, but it does sometimes happen.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 354 ✭✭agent graves


    Chloris wrote: »
    when you jizz

    ha nicely put.. both my brothers had to get it done when they were babies because their foreskin was very tight.. and it would have to be done at a later age so as babies was the better option..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,117 ✭✭✭✭Junkyard Tom


    Chloris wrote: »
    I think it's difficult to say whether it's ethical to do it to an infant.

    No it isn't difficult at all - it's a barbaric practice.

    Aside from the fact that it is mutilating a baby's genitals causing unnecessary pain and suffering over one hundred babies die in the US each year because of this completely unnecessary practice.

    If over 100 babies having their penises mutilated, often because of moronic religious edict, die in the US can you imagine how many babies in less developed countries die or are left mutilated?

    How the **** is this even an argument?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,366 ✭✭✭✭Kylo Ren




    It's mental how it's so popular in the U.S.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,752 ✭✭✭pablomakaveli


    You can blame the founder of Kelloggs for the prevalence of non-religious cirumcision. The guy was an avid anti-masturbation campaigner and advocated cirumcision to prevent masturbation which is why it's so prevalent in America. He also invented Corn Flakes because he thought it would help prevent masturbation.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,353 ✭✭✭Cold War Kid


    He also invented Corn Flakes because he thought it would help prevent masturbation.
    :pac:
    Quote of the day.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 535 ✭✭✭Chloris


    If over 100 babies having their penises mutilated, often because of moronic religious edict, die in the US can you imagine how many babies in less developed countries die or are left mutilated?
    It's not exclusively for religious reasons and in fact if you read my post, I never advocated the religious reason for doing it. It was more than likely done for medical reasons in my partner's case. It certainly shouldn't be done in countries where their medical system is inadequate.

    I'd imagine all cases of babies dying in the US after circumcision are to do with negligence or poor infection control procedures. I'd like to see the statistics from Ireland; I'd imagine that because the procedure is rarer here, the statistics would show the risk to be negligible (given the rate in America). I don't think that is reason enough to discredit the procedure entirely.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,412 ✭✭✭✭endacl


    Leave it till lads are 16, and non-medical circumcision would disappear overnight.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,944 ✭✭✭✭Links234


    :pac:
    Quote of the day.

    Bizarre, but true. I think it was he felt that too much meat in one's diet led to masturbation, so wanted to replace steak and eggs and the like as breakfast.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 140 ✭✭Detached Retina


    My ex husband (well going through separation) is Muslim,though non religious - where he's from they tend to circumcise older boys,not babies, but before puberty. He was always indifferent with the results,and he said they were told as kids it was their choice but you wont get the party and presents if you don't:confused: he remembered being about 11, very sore at basically a big party for him - but aside from the major pain, it was great fun. He said how they did it was an Imam had literally scraped it off with something kind of blunt :eek: they do it in clinics now, but it's considered extra special if you get the traditional method (may have been bullsh*tting there). I have a 17 month old son,and he's brought circumcision up, as in wants him to have it. I said,when he's 18 and can consent, ask him yourself if he wants to. Not a chance,unless by some fluke he developed urinary problems with his foreskin:mad:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,752 ✭✭✭pablomakaveli


    Links234 wrote: »
    Bizarre, but true. I think it was he felt that too much meat in one's diet led to masturbation, so wanted to replace steak and eggs and the like as breakfast.

    His thinking was sweet or spicy food enflamed peoples passions leading to masturbation and other saucy shenanigans.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 535 ✭✭✭Chloris


    His thinking was sweet or spicy food enflamed peoples passions leading to masturbation and other saucy shenanigans.
    I read somewhere on the Internet that he thought people would just eat the cereal instead of masturbating.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,944 ✭✭✭✭Links234


    Chloris wrote: »
    I read somewhere on the Internet that he thought people would just eat the cereal instead of masturbating.

    That doesn't make sense, you can do both at the same time.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,618 ✭✭✭The Diabolical Monocle


    His thinking was sweet or spicy food enflamed peoples passions leading to masturbation and other saucy shenanigans.

    someone must have been feeding me vindaloo in my sleep all these years.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 535 ✭✭✭Chloris


    Links234 wrote:
    That doesn't make sense, you can do both at the same time.
    But alas, you'll probably enjoy neither!


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