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Texting an "escort"

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    #32
    kneemos
    Registered Users Posts: 20,411 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    One for you wrote: »
    I am not possessive... when you ring a voice mail and it tells you how to contact her via a website.. think that's where I got that idea from!!!

    Maybe a porn site got his number .


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    #33
    Ficheall
    Registered Users Posts: 9,023 ✭✭✭Ficheall


    I presume she means it's one of those TV3 ad type yokes "For Filthy conversation, text FLIRT to 1850 666 666*" as opposed to an actual hooker. So it's closer to porn than cheating/hiring a hooker.
    Care to clarify, OP?

    I suppose there's a judgement call to be made then on what's cheating and what's porn..


    *Randomly made up number. Ficheall accepts no responsibility for any disappointment or cost incurred by contacting this number.


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    #34
    Bpd or bipolar?
    Registered Users Posts: 31 ✭Bpd or bipolar?


    Custardpi wrote: »
    It's 2015, lots of people have websites, doesn't make them hookers.

    Jeez im sure the poor woman knows if it's a hooker or not!!!!


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    #35
    Buzz Meeks
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 127 ✭✭Buzz Meeks


    Yeah girl kick his ass to the curb.

    I am a strong, independent, black woman etc


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    #36
    PARlance
    Registered Users Posts: 21,096 ✭✭✭✭PARlance


    One for you wrote: »
    I am not possessive... when you ring a voice mail and it tells you how to contact her via a website.. think that's where I got that idea from!!!

    Maybe she's just a dumb (not sure if that's PC anymore) acquaintance that can only communicate via text or online.

    And before any smartarses start... she obviously got a hooker friend to record the voicemail message for her....


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    #37
    SummerSummit
    Closed Accounts Posts: 103 ✭✭SummerSummit


    One for you wrote: »
    I am not possessive... when you ring a voice mail and it tells you how to contact her via a website.. think that's where I got that idea from!!!

    What is the website?


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    #38
    kneemos
    Registered Users Posts: 20,411 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    Probably lives within three miles.


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    #39
    silverfeather
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,154 ✭✭✭silverfeather


    Dumb him forget about him. Get an std test. Do something nice for yourself.


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    #40
    Custardpi
    Registered Users Posts: 2,807 ✭✭✭Custardpi


    Just a thought, does he have any mates with stag dos coming up by any chance? He could just have been helping to organise the "entertainment" for it, while of course refraining from such activities himself. There's often a perfectly innocent explanation for these things.


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    #41
    ShaunieVW
    Registered Users Posts: 585 ✭✭✭ShaunieVW


    ScottStorm wrote: »
    I'm pretty sure they would only communicate via text with regular customers.

    So perhaps you need to get a sti/d check up? And if you don't need a check up then we may know why he was texting escorts.

    your right she needs to get an STI they're much quicker than a crappy escort.


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    #42
    silverfeather
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,154 ✭✭✭silverfeather


    Custardpi wrote: »
    Just a thought, does he have any mates with stag dos coming up by any chance? He could just have been helping to organise the "entertainment" for it, while of course refraining from such activities himself. There's often a perfectly innocent explanation for these things.
    That is NOT innocent. Dumb him.


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    #43
    One eyed Jack
    Registered Users Posts: 23,695 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    SummerSummit wrote: »
    What is the website?


    Boards.ie :p

    Custardpi wrote: »
    Just a thought, does he have any mates with stag dos coming up by any chance? He could just have been helping to organise the "entertainment" for it, while of course refraining from such activities himself. There's often a perfectly innocent explanation for these things.


    Not for what the OP describes there isn't :pac:


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    #44
    silverfeather
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,154 ✭✭✭silverfeather


    Come ON OP start the countdown on the clock to DUMPING HIM!


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    #45
    MarkAnthony
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,934 ✭✭✭MarkAnthony


    Most of them don't respond to texts.



    So I'm told!


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    #46
    Bpd or bipolar?
    Registered Users Posts: 31 ✭Bpd or bipolar?


    Dump his cheating ass,I dumped mine for the same reason.Ul never trust him again
    He's no respect for u and I didn't know hookers texted (what money are they getting from just a text?)


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    #47
    silverfeather
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,154 ✭✭✭silverfeather


    Custardpi wrote: »
    Just a thought, does he have any mates with stag dos coming up by any chance? He could just have been helping to organise the "entertainment" for it, while of course refraining from such activities himself. There's often a perfectly innocent explanation for these things.
    Zoologist wrote: »
    Maybe he wants to dump you OP but was to cowardly to do it the traditional way. So he pretended to be caught using escorts.
    Very very possible. Either way DUMP HIM.


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    #48
    nokia69
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,050 ✭✭✭nokia69


    MarkAnthony wrote: »
    Most of them don't respond to texts.



    So I'm told!

    most will if they know you and have your number saved



    So I'm told!


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    #49
    Eugene Norman
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,191 ✭✭✭Eugene Norman


    The car jokes were just amaze balls.


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    #50
    Custardpi
    Registered Users Posts: 2,807 ✭✭✭Custardpi


    I wonder has the OP considered the radical approach of actually talking to her OH & getting his side of the story. Might work out better than being led by the pitchfork wielding mob here.


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    #51
    Eugene Norman
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,191 ✭✭✭Eugene Norman


    thelad95 wrote: »
    Don't. He's (presumably) an adult. He can do what he wants.

    That's not really how relationships work.


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    #52
    Bpd or bipolar?
    Registered Users Posts: 31 ✭Bpd or bipolar?


    Custardpi wrote: »
    I wonder has the OP considered the radical approach of actually talking to her OH & getting his side of the story. Might work out better than being led by the pitchfork wielding mob here.

    Yea at least give him the opportunity to fill you with lame excuses


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    #53
    silverfeather
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,154 ✭✭✭silverfeather


    Bpd or bipolar? wrote: »
    Yea at least give him the opportunity to fill you with lame excuses
    Yup.
    She can read a book for fiction.

    Get rid.


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    #54
    Rikand
    Registered Users Posts: 20,342 ✭✭✭✭Rikand


    PARlance wrote: »
    Tell him to change their name in his phone to "Vodafone Roaming" and you'll be less likely to click into those messages.

    ... speaking from experience


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    #55
    Bpd or bipolar?
    Registered Users Posts: 31 ✭Bpd or bipolar?


    silverfeather wrote: »
    Yup.
    She can read a book for fiction.

    Get rid.

    My exes excuse was
    Apparently he thought it was a friends number He got off another friend,he rang it nine times one night when he stayed away from home
    I rang his friend who apparently gave him the number and he knew nothing about it..
    Caught by the balls lol
    Sad part is he didn't even get the ride that night as I contacted her and she doesn't work after 9pm(he was ringing her from 1am )haha


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    #56
    Custardpi
    Registered Users Posts: 2,807 ✭✭✭Custardpi


    Bpd or bipolar? wrote: »
    Yea at least give him the opportunity to fill you with lame excuses

    Or he might be honest & upfront about what was lacking in the physical aspect of their relationship that drove him to contact an escort. A full & frank discussion of such matters might actually breathe a new spark of life into their relationship. Even if it doesn't & she decides to end things with him, she will at least have identified her mistakes & learn from them going forward.


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    #57
    nokia69
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,050 ✭✭✭nokia69


    Bpd or bipolar? wrote: »
    Sad part is he didn't even get the ride that night as I contacted her and she doesn't work after 9pm(he was ringing her from 1am )haha

    he may have been trying to make booking for the next day, its always better to book ahead



    So I'm told!


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    #58
    MarkAnthony
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,934 ✭✭✭MarkAnthony


    Custardpi wrote: »
    Or he might be honest & upfront about what was lacking in the physical aspect of their relationship that drove him to contact an escort. A full & frank discussion of such matters might actually breathe a new spark of life into their relationship. Even if it doesn't & she decides to end things with him, she will at least have identified her mistakes & learn from them going forward.

    Funniest post so far!


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    #59
    Bpd or bipolar?
    Registered Users Posts: 31 ✭Bpd or bipolar?


    Custardpi wrote: »
    Or he might be honest & upfront about what was lacking in the physical aspect of their relationship that drove him to contact an escort. A full & frank discussion of such matters might actually breathe a new spark of life into their relationship. Even if it doesn't & she decides to end things with him, she will at least have identified her mistakes & learn from them going forward.

    Her mistakes???
    Oh please let's not go blaming the woman when a coward decides to go elsewhere to get a bit!
    If he's having sex with hookers get rid asap!!! No excuses,no talking no working things out!
    He's put her health at risk and is a selfish excuse for a human being ...end of!!


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    #60
    Bpd or bipolar?
    Registered Users Posts: 31 ✭Bpd or bipolar?


    MarkAnthony wrote: »
    Funniest post so far!

    Agreed!


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    #61
    PARlance
    Registered Users Posts: 21,096 ✭✭✭✭PARlance


    Rikand wrote: »
    ... speaking from experience

    I've been screwed by roaming charges but never texted a hooker ;)


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