Texting an "escort"

One for you

Hi guys. Just want to put this out there to all guys out there. ..

So I find out that my partner has been texting "escorts" and I'm unsure of what to do...

How do I approach this?

The Backwards Man

Go out with a Granada to make him jealous

masti123

I don't think he was just texting them

Gran Hermano

Two can play that game. Your turn now, go text a fiesta?

PARlance

One for you wrote: »

Hi guys. Just want to put this out there to all guys out there. ..

So I find out that my partner has been texting "escorts" and I'm unsure of what to do...

How do I approach this?

You've come to the right place, the rest will be easy.

thelad95

One for you wrote: »

Hi guys. Just want to put this out there to all guys out there. ..

So I find out that my partner has been texting "escorts" and I'm unsure of what to do...

How do I approach this?

Don't. He's (presumably) an adult. He can do what he wants.

Rackstar

Bath of sheep dip for him and get yourself checked

kneemos

Check his emails.

Hammar

One for you wrote: »

Hi guys. Just want to put this out there to all guys out there. ..

So I find out that my partner has been texting "escorts" and I'm unsure of what to do...

How do I approach this?

End the relationship and move on.

silverfeather

You mean ex partner.

jimmy180sx

Was it one of them mexico ones?

DoYouEvenLift

Ask him for pics of her so you can post them on here for us

J Mysterio

Kill him.

Buzz Meeks

It might be Platonic??

Fr_Dougal

One for you wrote: »

Hi guys. Just want to put this out there to all guys out there. ..

So I find out that my partner has been texting "escorts" and I'm unsure of what to do...

How do I approach this?

You obviously need to work a bit harder on your relationship. Have you considered a cookery course?

Ruu

Burn his clothes.

PARlance

Tell him to change their name in his phone to "Vodafone Roaming" and you'll be less likely to click into those messages.

The Backwards Man

Buzz Meeks wrote: »

It might be Platonic??

Think they were GM, not Ford

ScottStorm

PARlance wrote: »

Tell him to change their name in his phone to "Vodafone Roaming" and you'll be less likely to click into those messages.

Genius!

Custardpi

How do you know they were escorts? Are you perhaps just being jealous & assuming that every female who communicates with your partner is a scarlet woman of the night? Maybe you need to dial back the possessiveness a notch.

Buzz Meeks

Buzz Meeks wrote: »

It might be Platonic??

She's worried about sexting, not losing her hearing.

Buzz Meeks

The Backwards Man wrote: »

Think they were GM, not Ford

No. I mean he might be just friends with the car.

silverfeather

So long loser. So long farewell Aufwiedersein goodniiiight.

Book yourself a holiday and treat yourself.

Get an STD test.
Tell him never to dark on your door again. You always knew you were too good for him. Then never give him a moments though again.
Byyyyyyyyyyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee loooooooooooser!

From now on he is whatshisnamethingy??

Bpd or bipolar?

I had this problem with an ex ..he wasn't texting them though. I found out he had rang one(claimed it was an accident) BULL!!!!
Get rid of him and get checked out,u don't just ring a hooker for a chat

The Backwards Man

Buzz Meeks wrote: »

No. I mean he might be just friends with the car.

Ah, you mean pontiac?

ScottStorm

I'm pretty sure they would only communicate via text with regular customers.

So perhaps you need to get a sti/d check up? And if you don't need a check up then we may know why he was texting escorts.

diusmr8a504cvk

One for you wrote: »

Hi guys. Just want to put this out there to all guys out there. ..

So I find out that my partner has been texting "escorts" and I'm unsure of what to do...

How do I approach this?

Go to the relationship issues board.

silverfeather

Ephraim Polite Podium wrote: »

Go to the relationship issues board.

Hey she asked US!

Bpd or bipolar?

silverfeather wrote: »

So long loser. So long farewell Aufwiedersein goodniiiight.

Book yourself a holiday and treat yourself.

Get an STD test.
Tell him never to dark on your door again. You always knew you were too good for him. Then never give him a moments though again.
Byyyyyyyyyyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee loooooooooooser!

From now on he is whatshisnamethingy??

LOVE THIS

One for you

Custardpi wrote:

How do you know they were escorts? Are you perhaps just being jealous & assuming that every female who communicates with your partner is a scarlet woman of the night? Maybe you need to dial back the possessiveness a notch.

I am not possessive... when you ring a voice mail and it tells you how to contact her via a website.. think that's where I got that idea from!!!

Custardpi

One for you wrote: »

I am not possessive... when you ring a voice mail and it tells you how to contact her via a website.. think that's where I got that idea from!!!

It's 2015, lots of people have websites, doesn't make them hookers.

kneemos

One for you wrote: »

I am not possessive... when you ring a voice mail and it tells you how to contact her via a website.. think that's where I got that idea from!!!

Maybe a porn site got his number .

Ficheall

I presume she means it's one of those TV3 ad type yokes "For Filthy conversation, text FLIRT to 1850 666 666*" as opposed to an actual hooker. So it's closer to porn than cheating/hiring a hooker.
Care to clarify, OP?

I suppose there's a judgement call to be made then on what's cheating and what's porn..


*Randomly made up number. Ficheall accepts no responsibility for any disappointment or cost incurred by contacting this number.

Bpd or bipolar?

Custardpi wrote: »

It's 2015, lots of people have websites, doesn't make them hookers.

Jeez im sure the poor woman knows if it's a hooker or not!!!!

Buzz Meeks

Yeah girl kick his ass to the curb.

I am a strong, independent, black woman etc

PARlance

One for you wrote: »

I am not possessive... when you ring a voice mail and it tells you how to contact her via a website.. think that's where I got that idea from!!!

Maybe she's just a dumb (not sure if that's PC anymore) acquaintance that can only communicate via text or online.

And before any smartarses start... she obviously got a hooker friend to record the voicemail message for her....

SummerSummit

One for you wrote: »

I am not possessive... when you ring a voice mail and it tells you how to contact her via a website.. think that's where I got that idea from!!!

What is the website?

kneemos

Probably lives within three miles.

silverfeather

Dumb him forget about him. Get an std test. Do something nice for yourself.

Custardpi

Just a thought, does he have any mates with stag dos coming up by any chance? He could just have been helping to organise the "entertainment" for it, while of course refraining from such activities himself. There's often a perfectly innocent explanation for these things.

ShaunieVW

ScottStorm wrote: »

I'm pretty sure they would only communicate via text with regular customers.

So perhaps you need to get a sti/d check up? And if you don't need a check up then we may know why he was texting escorts.

your right she needs to get an STI they're much quicker than a crappy escort.

silverfeather

Custardpi wrote: »

Just a thought, does he have any mates with stag dos coming up by any chance? He could just have been helping to organise the "entertainment" for it, while of course refraining from such activities himself. There's often a perfectly innocent explanation for these things.

That is NOT innocent. Dumb him.

One eyed Jack

SummerSummit wrote: »

What is the website?

Boards.ie

Custardpi wrote: »

Just a thought, does he have any mates with stag dos coming up by any chance? He could just have been helping to organise the "entertainment" for it, while of course refraining from such activities himself. There's often a perfectly innocent explanation for these things.

Not for what the OP describes there isn't :pac:

silverfeather

Come ON OP start the countdown on the clock to DUMPING HIM!

MarkAnthony

Most of them don't respond to texts.



So I'm told!

Bpd or bipolar?

Dump his cheating ass,I dumped mine for the same reason.Ul never trust him again
He's no respect for u and I didn't know hookers texted (what money are they getting from just a text?)

silverfeather

Custardpi wrote: »

Just a thought, does he have any mates with stag dos coming up by any chance? He could just have been helping to organise the "entertainment" for it, while of course refraining from such activities himself. There's often a perfectly innocent explanation for these things.

Zoologist wrote: »

Maybe he wants to dump you OP but was to cowardly to do it the traditional way. So he pretended to be caught using escorts.

Very very possible. Either way DUMP HIM.

nokia69

MarkAnthony wrote: »

Most of them don't respond to texts.



So I'm told!

most will if they know you and have your number saved



So I'm told!

Eugene Norman

The car jokes were just amaze balls.

Custardpi

I wonder has the OP considered the radical approach of actually talking to her OH & getting his side of the story. Might work out better than being led by the pitchfork wielding mob here.

Eugene Norman

thelad95 wrote: »

Don't. He's (presumably) an adult. He can do what he wants.

That's not really how relationships work.