Want to ask a girl out.

Iron Man 2.0

Hi

Okay, there's a girl I know who I have fancied for a log time. I am 21 and she is 20 ad we know each other since primary school. Now when I say know each other, I mean know off each other more so than actually know each other well. We used to get on well when we were younger but as we got older we went our separate ways.

She is kind of shy which is why I am nervous about asking her out. I worry if I do it the wrong way she might say no.

Any advice?

Thanks

Just be asking her. If not maybe another will and how will you feel? Better to try and fail than not try.

Magico Gonzalez

My advice.

Invent a time machine and don't ask this question in after hours.

MRnotlob606

Buy her lubricant and handcuffs in without a specific context.

Iron Man 2.0

Magico Gonzalez wrote: »

My advice.

Invent a time machine and don't ask this question in after hours.

Theres no place else lol

omb0wyn5ehpij9

Ask her out. What's the worst she will say? No? If she says no, at least you can move on and focus your attention on somebody else. And as the saying goes, if you're not in, you can't win

Iron Man 2.0

BDJW wrote: »

Ask her out. What's the worst she will say? No? If she says no, at least you can move on and focus your attention on somebody else. And as the saying goes, if you're not in, you can't win

Just out of the blue? I need a plan lol

heldel00

I'm a bit older than ye and maybe things have changed but would you wait until you meet her on a night out and chat her then? Not when you bananas drunk btw.
The new way might be to Facebook her or whatever but that's just weird if you ask me! At least in a pub, if you not gettin the right kind of vibes, you can go on about your business without being embarrassed.
Good luck!

One eyed Jack

OP if you're nervous and the girl is shy, that's a recipe for disaster.

Just ask her out and don't make a big song and dance about it. She might say no, and then again she might ravish you! :eek:


Seriously though, don't build it up to be something it isn't, it's asking a girl out, not asking her to lend you a kidney or anything

strobe

Iron Man 2.0 wrote: »

Hi

Okay, there's a girl I know who I have fancied for a log time. I am 21 and she is 20 ad we know each other since primary school. Now when I say know each other, I mean know of each other more so than actually know each other well. We used to get on well when we were younger but as we got older we went our separate ways.

She is kind of shy which is why I am nervous about asking her out. I worry if I do it the wrong way she might say no.

Any advice?

Thanks

She might say no even if you do it the absolutely perfect way. But at least then you'll know. Just do it. If she's not interested, no big deal. There's 3.5 billion women in the world. It'll only be weird if you make it weird. Ask her, and if she's not interested, shrug you shoulders and say something along the lines of "ah well, can't blame me for trying, you're gorgeous, anyway, ... (and then chat away as normal)".

Day Lewin

Chat, smile at her, ask her pleasantly and without too much pressure.

"The new Bond film is on at the Plaza this weekend, would you like to see it with me? And maybe we could have a drink afterwards. Unless you are busy, of course."

Anything along those lines.

Tiddlypeeps

Iron Man 2.0 wrote: »

Just out of the blue? I need a plan lol

Do you ever see her in person, or do you have her on facebook or the like?

ChippingSodbury

Forget about any potential embarrassment if she says no!
Think positive: if she says yes, woo hoo!!!
If she says no, she should be flattered you asked (and if she's not, she's a wagon not worth caring about)

ads20101

For the love of god......

Are you serious op?

Just ask her, its not like you're in the friendship zone.

Hey, what's the worst that can happen?

GL

tomwaterford

Iron Man 2.0 wrote: »

Just out of the blue? I need a plan lol

Send her a pic of an open door on snapchat and ask deos she want to go out!!




*i wouldn't take advice on this off me

Iron Man 2.0

Thank you all for the great replies.

I have't asked a girl out before and the only experience I have is American sitcoms lol Is there anyway to make sure it is a date and not a friendly get together yano?

mikom

katemarch wrote: »

"The new Bond film is on at the Plaza this weekend, would you like to see it with me? And maybe we could have a drink afterwards. Unless you are busy, of course."

By the way I like my pussy shaven, not furred.

Iron Man 2.0

Tiddlypeeps wrote: »

Do you ever see her in person, or do you have her on facebook or the like?

Well she works in a shop nearby and I am friends with her on facebook.

3qsmavrod5twfe

tomwaterford wrote: »

Send her a pic of an open door on snapchat and ask deos she want to go out!!

Penis pic ftw. No one has ever done that before.

spud82

Aww my best friend is a guy and I LOVE stories like this. Just be honest and direct. Ask her to the cinema and maybe a drink afterwards and than ye can chat too, and you'll get a sense when ye're chatting if she feels the same. Good luck x

Tugboats

Iron Man 2.0 wrote: »

Thank you all for the great replies.

I have't asked a girl out before and the only experience I have is American sitcoms lol Is there anyway to make sure it is a date and ot a friendly get together yano?

Set up a fake mugging and then you be there to save the day

SlipperyPeople

what happened to the last guy that asked this question? His long time neighbour or friend or something

did he ever give us an update?

bb1234567

BDJW wrote: »

Ask her out. What's the worst she will say? No? If she says no, at least you can move on and focus your attention on somebody else. And as the saying goes, if you're not in, you can't win

I hate when people say this lol there is a lot to lose you can make a friendship permanently awkward forever if you ask somebody out and they say no:pac:

tomwaterford

hungoverbunny wrote: »

what happened to the last guy that asked this question? His long time neighbour or friend or something

did he ever give us an update?

Too busy !!!!

Turtyturd

Ask her would she like to be Iron Woman 2.0.

If she say yes tell her how happy you are..




















Cos you've a pile of clothes building up.

snickerpuss

When I was 23 I reconnected with someone I knew as a teenager but had never been close to. We ended up really hitting it off and now we're getting married next month

So run!

Kidding, definitely do it.

Magico Gonzalez

I want to believe this is real. I do want to....

tomwaterford

Lane Echoing Organ wrote: »

Penis pic ftw. No one has ever done that before.

Expect when people reply what is it/too small to see.

Iron Man 2.0

Turtyturd wrote: »

Ask her would she like to be Iron Woman 2.0.

If she say yes tell her how happy you are..
.

Love it

Magico Gonzalez wrote: »

I want to believe this is real. I do want to....

The situation? lol

Iron Man 2.0

My friend is going out with her sister, so I wonder if that could help?

Adamantium

No witnesses


























Chloroform, rags.

You're good to go.

heldel00

Iron Man 2.0 wrote: »

Well she works in a shop nearby and I am friends with her on facebook.

Don't feckin ask her out on feckin Facebook for feck sake! Jesus Christ how did the world work at all before that pile of $hite was invented!

Iron Man 2.0

I don't think shes had a boyfriend before but she is sooooo cute and I would love to get to know her better. I know I just have to bite the bullet and ask her out but now I have to build up the courage.

SEPT 23 1989

Iron Man 2.0 wrote: »

I don't think shes had a boyfriend before but she is sooooo cute and I would love to get to know her better. I know I just have to bite the bullet and ask her out but now I have to build up the courage.

how are you going to deal with the rejection when she calls the guards?

Steve_Carella

Iron Man 2.0 wrote: »

My friend is going out with her sister, so I wonder if that could help?

Suggest to her that ye get together to do a four-in-a-room swingers sex session. Then when you're banging the sister while your friend smashes your lady's back doors open, you can ask the sister if you're in with a chance with your fancy woman, does she ever talk about you, does she have a picture of your face on the top of her vibrator etc.

Or sit outside her bedroom for hours with a telescope, call her and watch her reaction when she sees your number come up. If she looks happy you know you're on to a good thing.

Zippie84

Iron Man 2.0 wrote: »

Theres no place else lol

Personal issues?

Iron Man 2.0

Ah not really serious enough for personal issues. But I have got some very good advice here so Im happy with my decision.

Colonialboy

Do something.
Find some social event that YOU are interested in. Something that your interested in. There's no point starting relationship if ye have nothing in common. Ask her along on date. If she is as a nice as you say then she deserves to be asked out in a proper way.
It's nerve wracking but you have no choice ... you obviously have some feelings for her..

Iron Man 2.0

Who knows she could be one of the posters in this thread. Any 20 year old Donegal women on here? lol

Sky King

Write her a poem. Girls love that kind of stuff.

Roses are red
Violets are blue
I have a knife
Get in the van

SoftMicro

Invite her round for dinner and cook some coddle. I've got the perfect recipe, never fails.

Roquentin

Sky King wrote: »

Write her a poem. Girls love that kind of stuff.

Roses are red
Violets are blue
I have a knife
Get in the van

are you in the news lately

jimmypenguin

just ask her.. she'll be delighted. and if not. it wasnt meant to be right now but may be in the future..

Iron Man 2.0

The last few times I have seen her out, she has been quite shy around me. She is quite outgoing though and seems lively with her friends. I think asking her straight out would put her on the spot. Suppose no other option really.

sensible option

invite her out to a shared social or cultural event, ask if she wants coffee afterwards. she will inferred that a romantic liason is anticipated without it being stated bluntly. expect no sex until a future date.
thank this post

Iron Man 2.0

I think asking her out of the blue might put her under too much pressure. If I could meet her out and get chatting it would be a better start but not ideal chatting in a nightclub.

tomwaterford

Iron Man 2.0 wrote: »

I think asking her out of the blue might put her under too much pressure. If I could meet her out and get chatting it would be a better start but not ideal chatting in a nightclub.

But if she's shy around you....would it not be weird??

Iron Man 2.0

tomwaterford wrote: »

But if she's shy around you....would it not be weird??

Touche Im banjaxed

Macavity.

Don't do it OP, or you will die.

Iron Man 2.0

Macavity. wrote: »

Don't do it OP, or you will die.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Iron Man 2.0

Okay, so not a great turn of events. I sent her a message yesterday, just a 'Hi ________, long time no chat, How have ya been? '.
And she saw it and no reply ....................Game over, ball burst.