Younger women and older men and vice versa?

steddyeddy · 13-08-2014 12:10AM #1

The most surprising thing I learned in college is that younger women like older men! Although I have had offers from younger women (around 5-6 years younger) I don't feel comfortable with it. Is an age difference a big deal and would you go out with a younger/older man/woman?

Edit: For example I was chatting to one girl just to see would I change my mind. It didn't. My worst fear is going to bed with her and waking up the next morning to hear her signing "call me maybe" in the shower :S. (Which happened to a mate of mine).

Sir Arthur Daley · 13-08-2014 12:11AM

Age is only a number.

Hotfail.com · 13-08-2014 12:11AM

Sir Arthur Daley wrote: »

Age is only a number.

What a load of nonsense.

The Backwards Man · 13-08-2014 12:12AM

Hotfail.com wrote: »

What a load of nonsense.

Shouldn't you be sleeping? Big day tomorrow.

Sir Arthur Daley · 13-08-2014 12:13AM

Hotfail.com wrote: »

What a load of nonsense.

Care to expalian?

shane9689 · 13-08-2014 12:13AM

if theyre under 17 then yes, worry haha...but other than that, knock yourself out because no one gives a flying turd, you might get the odd witty comment from your mates but in the grand scheme of things they probably don't really care either

Hotfail.com · 13-08-2014 12:14AM

Sir Arthur Daley wrote: »

Care to expalian?

No.

The Backwards Man wrote: »

Shouldn't you be sleeping? Big day tomorrow.

No sleep, too scared :pac:

steddyeddy · 13-08-2014 12:16AM

Hotfail.com wrote: »

No.

No sleep, too scared :pac:

Ah best of luck dude!

steddyeddy · 13-08-2014 12:17AM

OP edited for further details.

catallus · 13-08-2014 12:18AM

What's happening tomorrow?

Sir Arthur Daley · 13-08-2014 12:18AM

Op STOP editing.

Guy:Incognito · 13-08-2014 12:18AM

Sir Arthur Daley wrote: »

Age is only a number.

If the op is 18 then the waters are slightly muddied. 30 and it's not such abig issue.

13-08-2014 12:19AM

5 or 6 years isn't much of a gap if everyone is over the age of 20, say.

steddyeddy · 13-08-2014 12:19AM

Guy:Incognito wrote: »

If the op is 18 then the waters are slightly muddied. 30 and it's not such abig issue.

I'm 30 and there is a 24 year old sending me dirty pics :S

Macavity. · 13-08-2014 12:19AM

catallus wrote: »

What's happening tomorrow?

Hotfail has a big date with an older lady.

Sir Arthur Daley · 13-08-2014 12:19AM

So you dont like Carly Rae Jepsen Op?

steddyeddy · 13-08-2014 12:19AM

Sir Arthur Daley wrote: »

Op STOP editing.

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The Backwards Man · 13-08-2014 12:20AM

catallus wrote: »

What's happening tomorrow?

Leaving Cert results.

Hotfail will be grand though, even if he doesn't do well he only as to look at me, I haven't used my education in years and I'm alright.

amandaf675 · 13-08-2014 12:20AM

Im 23, Bf is 30 in october.. together 18 months

13-08-2014 12:21AM

steddyeddy wrote: »

The most surprising thing I learned in college is that younger women like older men! Although I have had offers from younger women (around 5-6 years younger) I don't feel comfortable with it. Is an age difference a big deal and would you go out with a younger/older man/woman?

Edit: For example I was chatting to one girl just to see would I change my mind. It didn't. My worst fear is going to bed with her and waking up the next morning to hear her signing "call me maybe" in the shower :S. (Which happened to a mate of mine).

Had he just met her?
'Cos that is crazy.

steddyeddy · 13-08-2014 12:21AM

Sir Arthur Daley wrote: »

So you dont like Carly Rae Jepsen Op?

No!

Hotfail.com · 13-08-2014 12:23AM

Sir Arthur Daley wrote: »

Age is only a number.

Might as well explain,

In general I hate that phrase because it's nothing but a lie to make old people feel better.

Sorry old people.

amandaf675 · 13-08-2014 12:24AM

Sir Arthur Daley wrote: »

Age is only a number.

Jail is just a room :P

Deranged96 · 13-08-2014 12:25AM

I myself go for older, generally by about 10 years
More craic less hang ups

steddyeddy · 13-08-2014 12:25AM

Hotfail.com wrote: »

Might as well explain,

In general I hate that phrase because it's nothing but a lie to make old people feel better.

Sorry old people.

Well it is and it isn't. It's a fact some people age better than others. Some cells divide at different rates so age (the number) isn't an exact determination of physiological decline.

Sir Arthur Daley · 13-08-2014 12:25AM

steddyeddy wrote: »

No!

Why wasnt this "friend" in the shower with the Carly Rae Jepsen fan?

steddyeddy · 13-08-2014 12:27AM

Sir Arthur Daley wrote: »

Why wasnt this "friend" in the shower with the Carly Rae Jepsen fan?

He really regretted what he done TBH. He felt like a cradle snatcher which is how I would feel.

Macavity. · 13-08-2014 12:27AM

If I was 30 years old 5 or 6 years younger would not bother me at all.

Talib Fiasco · 13-08-2014 12:28AM

amandaf675 wrote: »

Jail is just a room :P

Jail isn't a room though....

Macavity. · 13-08-2014 12:28AM

steddyeddy wrote: »

He really regretted what he done TBH. He felt like a cradle snatcher which is how I would feel.

What age was the girl?

steddyeddy · 13-08-2014 12:29AM

Macavity. wrote: »

What age was the girl?

He was 28 and she was 19

Hotfail.com · 13-08-2014 12:29AM

steddyeddy wrote: »

He was 28 and she was 19

Lucky him....

chinacup · 13-08-2014 12:30AM

I think you need to take maturity and circumstance into account. I wouldn't categorically say I disagree with age gaps. It depends on the motivations behind it, whether or not the couples are equals or if someone's being taken advantage of. Older person preying on younger people out of shallow reasons or because they are generally more attracted to very young partners - doesn't sit right with me at all. If its out of love and there's a real bond there then I'm not judging!

Sir Arthur Daley · 13-08-2014 12:31AM

steddyeddy wrote: »

He was 28 and she was 19

This "friend" is a hopeless case.

13-08-2014 12:31AM

Ever since my music teacher in Secondary school I have always searched for an older milf type lady, but no one will ever beat gene gene the sex machine..... My gawd if i counted all the times I thought about her it would amount to about 786 days

Talib Fiasco · 13-08-2014 12:32AM

Sirsok wrote: »

Ever since my music teacher in Secondary school I have always searched for an older milf type lady, but no one will ever beat gene gene the sex machine..... My gawd if i counted all the times I thought about her it would amount to about 786 days

So about 5 million **** then?

steddyeddy · 13-08-2014 12:35AM

chinacup wrote: »

I think you need to take maturity and circumstance into account. I wouldn't categorically say I disagree with age gaps. It depends on the motivations behind it, whether or not the couples are equals or if someone's being taken advantage of. Older person preying on younger people out of shallow reasons or because they are generally more attracted to very young partners - doesn't sit right with me at all. If its out of love and there's a real bond there then I'm not judging!

Yea I would agree with that. I don't judge anyone else it's just not for me. I do notice that some of the young ones seem to want to get an older man for the challenge of it.

Ihatecuddles · 13-08-2014 12:36AM

I've always been attracted to older men. My husband is 32, I'm 22.

He's a bit young if I'm being honest

Deranged96 · 13-08-2014 12:37AM

mauzo! wrote: »

I've always been attracted to older men. My husband is 32, I'm 22.

He's a bit young if I'm being honest

DILFs ftw!

13-08-2014 12:37AM

Anything up to 10 years older I wouldn't mind.

More than that and I'd be afraid of winding up changing his diapers and pushing his wheelchair in my twilight years.

steddyeddy · 13-08-2014 12:38AM

Can I ask the ladies why they like older men?

Ihatecuddles · 13-08-2014 12:39AM

Candie wrote: »

Anything up to 10 years older I wouldn't mind.

More than that and I'd be afraid of winding up changing his diapers and pushing his wheelchair in my twilight years.

but you'll be so attached to him by then you won't care

Sure I lick his arse now, I'll probably still do it when we're ancient.

Sir Arthur Daley · 13-08-2014 12:39AM

Candie wrote: »

Anything up to 10 years older I wouldn't mind.

More than that and I'd be afraid of winding up changing his diapers and pushing his wheelchair in my twilight years.

The 10 year rule seems to be popular with alot of people and is also the way with cars, a 10 year old car is now deemed old and subject to a yearly nct.

shane9689 · 13-08-2014 12:39AM

shes 24? and your 30? wtf op, thats not a much of a gap at all.... shes a grown woman at that stage, if she was under 21 id understand

Hotfail.com · 13-08-2014 12:39AM

mauzo! wrote: »

but you'll be so attached to him by then you won't care

Sure I lick his arse now, I'll probably still do it when we're ancient.

Why are Boardsie women so shamelessly vulgar? :pac:

Guy:Incognito · 13-08-2014 12:40AM

steddyeddy wrote: »

I'm 30 and there is a 24 year old sending me dirty pics :S

Happy days

shane9689 · 13-08-2014 12:40AM

Hotfail.com wrote: »

Why are Boardsie women so shamelessly vulgar? :pac:

true colours shine through with anonymity, no doubt they're sweet angels in person XD

13-08-2014 12:41AM

mauzo! wrote: »

but you'll be so attached to him by then you won't care

Sure I lick his arse now, I'll probably still do it when we're ancient.

He's only about 10 years on you though, right?

I'm just not attracted to them if they've more than 10 on me. Mpst men aren't the evergreens they sometimes think they are

Ihatecuddles · 13-08-2014 12:41AM

Hotfail.com wrote: »

Why are Boardsie women so shamelessly vulgar? :pac:

Coz I love the taste of sh*te from his arse :pac:

steddyeddy · 13-08-2014 12:41AM

shane9689 wrote: »

shes 24? and your 30? wtf op, thats not a much of a gap at all.... shes a grown woman at that stage, if she was under 21 id understand

She looks about 20 Shane :S.

Hotfail.com · 13-08-2014 12:41AM

Sir Arthur Daley wrote: »

The 10 year rule seems to be popular with alot of people and is also the way with cars, a 10 year old car is now deemed old and subject to a yearly nct.

They could bring in that for women.

If you've a wife that's 10 years older than you they have to take part in a "National Cúnt Test" on an annual basis, to ensure they're safe to ride.

Younger women and older men and vice versa?

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