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Younger women and older men and vice versa?

  • 13-08-2014 12:10am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭


    The most surprising thing I learned in college is that younger women like older men! Although I have had offers from younger women (around 5-6 years younger) I don't feel comfortable with it. Is an age difference a big deal and would you go out with a younger/older man/woman?

    Edit: For example I was chatting to one girl just to see would I change my mind. It didn't. My worst fear is going to bed with her and waking up the next morning to hear her signing "call me maybe" in the shower :S. (Which happened to a mate of mine).


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,720 ✭✭✭Sir Arthur Daley


    Age is only a number.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,928 ✭✭✭Hotfail.com


    Age is only a number.

    What a load of nonsense.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    What a load of nonsense.
    Shouldn't you be sleeping? Big day tomorrow.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,720 ✭✭✭Sir Arthur Daley


    What a load of nonsense.

    Care to expalian?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,184 ✭✭✭shane9689


    if theyre under 17 then yes, worry haha...but other than that, knock yourself out because no one gives a flying turd, you might get the odd witty comment from your mates but in the grand scheme of things they probably don't really care either


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,928 ✭✭✭Hotfail.com


    Care to expalian?

    No. :p
    Shouldn't you be sleeping? Big day tomorrow.

    No sleep, too scared :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    No. :p



    No sleep, too scared :pac:

    Ah best of luck dude!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    OP edited for further details.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,106 ✭✭✭catallus


    What's happening tomorrow?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,720 ✭✭✭Sir Arthur Daley


    Op STOP editing.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 38,244 ✭✭✭✭Guy:Incognito


    Age is only a number.

    If the op is 18 then the waters are slightly muddied. 30 and it's not such abig issue.


  • Posts: 26,052 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    5 or 6 years isn't much of a gap if everyone is over the age of 20, say.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    If the op is 18 then the waters are slightly muddied. 30 and it's not such abig issue.

    I'm 30 and there is a 24 year old sending me dirty pics :S


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,745 ✭✭✭Macavity.


    catallus wrote: »
    What's happening tomorrow?

    Hotfail has a big date with an older lady.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,720 ✭✭✭Sir Arthur Daley


    So you dont like Carly Rae Jepsen Op?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    Op STOP editing.

    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    catallus wrote: »
    What's happening tomorrow?
    Leaving Cert results.

    Hotfail will be grand though, even if he doesn't do well he only as to look at me, I haven't used my education in years and I'm alright.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 488 ✭✭amandaf675


    Im 23, Bf is 30 in october.. together 18 months


  • Posts: 26,052 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    steddyeddy wrote: »
    The most surprising thing I learned in college is that younger women like older men! Although I have had offers from younger women (around 5-6 years younger) I don't feel comfortable with it. Is an age difference a big deal and would you go out with a younger/older man/woman?

    Edit: For example I was chatting to one girl just to see would I change my mind. It didn't. My worst fear is going to bed with her and waking up the next morning to hear her signing "call me maybe" in the shower :S. (Which happened to a mate of mine).

    Had he just met her?
    'Cos that is crazy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    So you dont like Carly Rae Jepsen Op?

    No!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,928 ✭✭✭Hotfail.com


    Age is only a number.

    Might as well explain,

    In general I hate that phrase because it's nothing but a lie to make old people feel better.

    Sorry old people. :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 488 ✭✭amandaf675


    Age is only a number.

    Jail is just a room :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 588 ✭✭✭Deranged96


    I myself go for older, generally by about 10 years
    More craic less hang ups


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    Might as well explain,

    In general I hate that phrase because it's nothing but a lie to make old people feel better.

    Sorry old people. :p

    Well it is and it isn't. It's a fact some people age better than others. Some cells divide at different rates so age (the number) isn't an exact determination of physiological decline.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,720 ✭✭✭Sir Arthur Daley


    steddyeddy wrote: »
    No!

    Why wasnt this "friend" in the shower with the Carly Rae Jepsen fan?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    Why wasnt this "friend" in the shower with the Carly Rae Jepsen fan?

    He really regretted what he done TBH. He felt like a cradle snatcher which is how I would feel.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,745 ✭✭✭Macavity.


    If I was 30 years old 5 or 6 years younger would not bother me at all.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,428 ✭✭✭Talib Fiasco


    amandaf675 wrote: »
    Jail is just a room :P

    Jail isn't a room though....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,745 ✭✭✭Macavity.


    steddyeddy wrote: »
    He really regretted what he done TBH. He felt like a cradle snatcher which is how I would feel.

    What age was the girl?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    Macavity. wrote: »
    What age was the girl?

    He was 28 and she was 19 :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,928 ✭✭✭Hotfail.com


    steddyeddy wrote: »
    He was 28 and she was 19 :(

    Lucky him....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 539 ✭✭✭chinacup


    I think you need to take maturity and circumstance into account. I wouldn't categorically say I disagree with age gaps. It depends on the motivations behind it, whether or not the couples are equals or if someone's being taken advantage of. Older person preying on younger people out of shallow reasons or because they are generally more attracted to very young partners - doesn't sit right with me at all. If its out of love and there's a real bond there then I'm not judging!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,720 ✭✭✭Sir Arthur Daley


    steddyeddy wrote: »
    He was 28 and she was 19 :(

    This "friend" is a hopeless case.


  • Posts: 0 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Ever since my music teacher in Secondary school I have always searched for an older milf type lady, but no one will ever beat gene gene the sex machine..... My gawd if i counted all the times I thought about her it would amount to about 786 days


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,428 ✭✭✭Talib Fiasco


    Sirsok wrote: »
    Ever since my music teacher in Secondary school I have always searched for an older milf type lady, but no one will ever beat gene gene the sex machine..... My gawd if i counted all the times I thought about her it would amount to about 786 days

    So about 5 million **** then?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    chinacup wrote: »
    I think you need to take maturity and circumstance into account. I wouldn't categorically say I disagree with age gaps. It depends on the motivations behind it, whether or not the couples are equals or if someone's being taken advantage of. Older person preying on younger people out of shallow reasons or because they are generally more attracted to very young partners - doesn't sit right with me at all. If its out of love and there's a real bond there then I'm not judging!

    Yea I would agree with that. I don't judge anyone else it's just not for me. I do notice that some of the young ones seem to want to get an older man for the challenge of it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles


    I've always been attracted to older men. My husband is 32, I'm 22.

    He's a bit young if I'm being honest :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 588 ✭✭✭Deranged96


    mauzo! wrote: »
    I've always been attracted to older men. My husband is 32, I'm 22.

    He's a bit young if I'm being honest :o

    DILFs ftw!


  • Posts: 26,052 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Anything up to 10 years older I wouldn't mind.

    More than that and I'd be afraid of winding up changing his diapers and pushing his wheelchair in my twilight years.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    Can I ask the ladies why they like older men?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles


    Candie wrote: »
    Anything up to 10 years older I wouldn't mind.

    More than that and I'd be afraid of winding up changing his diapers and pushing his wheelchair in my twilight years.

    but you'll be so attached to him by then you won't care :D

    Sure I lick his arse now, I'll probably still do it when we're ancient.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,720 ✭✭✭Sir Arthur Daley


    Candie wrote: »
    Anything up to 10 years older I wouldn't mind.

    More than that and I'd be afraid of winding up changing his diapers and pushing his wheelchair in my twilight years.

    The 10 year rule seems to be popular with alot of people and is also the way with cars, a 10 year old car is now deemed old and subject to a yearly nct.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,184 ✭✭✭shane9689


    shes 24? and your 30? wtf op, thats not a much of a gap at all.... shes a grown woman at that stage, if she was under 21 id understand


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,928 ✭✭✭Hotfail.com


    mauzo! wrote: »
    but you'll be so attached to him by then you won't care :D

    Sure I lick his arse now, I'll probably still do it when we're ancient.

    Why are Boardsie women so shamelessly vulgar? :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 38,244 ✭✭✭✭Guy:Incognito


    steddyeddy wrote: »
    I'm 30 and there is a 24 year old sending me dirty pics :S

    Happy days


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,184 ✭✭✭shane9689


    Why are Boardsie women so shamelessly vulgar? :pac:

    true colours shine through with anonymity, no doubt they're sweet angels in person XD


  • Posts: 26,052 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    mauzo! wrote: »
    but you'll be so attached to him by then you won't care :D

    Sure I lick his arse now, I'll probably still do it when we're ancient.

    He's only about 10 years on you though, right?

    I'm just not attracted to them if they've more than 10 on me. Mpst men aren't the evergreens they sometimes think they are :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles


    Why are Boardsie women so shamelessly vulgar? :pac:

    Coz I love the taste of sh*te from his arse :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    shane9689 wrote: »
    shes 24? and your 30? wtf op, thats not a much of a gap at all.... shes a grown woman at that stage, if she was under 21 id understand

    She looks about 20 Shane :S.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,928 ✭✭✭Hotfail.com


    The 10 year rule seems to be popular with alot of people and is also the way with cars, a 10 year old car is now deemed old and subject to a yearly nct.

    They could bring in that for women.

    If you've a wife that's 10 years older than you they have to take part in a "National Cúnt Test" on an annual basis, to ensure they're safe to ride.


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