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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,537 ✭✭✭Arthur Beesley


    You could be into something.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,513 ✭✭✭whupdedo


    Some will say your talking balls


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 79 ✭✭My.testicals


    whupdedo wrote: »
    Some will say your talking balls


    Suck em







    Baby


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 663 ✭✭✭FairytaleGirl


    Wile idea but maybe set up a residential facility where women can get clean and be supported throughout their pregnancy . . ?

    Criminalizing it would only lead to women not availing of pre natal services and abandoned babies.

    It's a no from me, there are far more productive options


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 663 ✭✭✭FairytaleGirl


    Wile idea but maybe set up a residential facility where women can get clean and be supported throughout their pregnancy . . ?

    Criminalizing it would only lead to women not availing of pre natal services and abandoned babies.

    It's a no from me, there are far more productive options


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,681 ✭✭✭✭P_1


    Wile idea but maybe set up a residential facility where women can get clean and be supported throughout their pregnancy . . ?

    Criminalizing it would only lead to women not availing of pre natal services and abandoned babies.

    It's a no from me, there are far more productive options

    You'd need to be very careful to avoid a Mother & Babies Home Mk II situation there but it certainly has merit as an idea.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 79 ✭✭My.testicals


    Wile idea but maybe set up a residential facility where women can get clean and be supported throughout their pregnancy . . ?

    Criminalizing it would only lead to women not availing of pre natal services and abandoned babies.

    It's a no from me, there are far more productive options

    This is a good post, but something has to be done i have seen far too many kids with all sorts of problems.

    1 child was born with 1 ear much smaller than the other one and that same child is about 10 now and cannot control her saliva at all she STILL has to wear a bib because she dribbles all the time, but for me the worst part are the screams, hearing a brand new baby screaming for a fix of crack is definitely the most haunting sound I have ever herd in all my life.

    The mother of said child has done this 5 times, she should have been shot after the first one.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,337 ✭✭✭Wishiwasa Littlebitaller




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 79 ✭✭My.testicals




    I bet you have been waiting to post that for ages, Haven't you:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,442 ✭✭✭Sulla Felix


    Hate to break up the urban myth circle jerk but a 25 year study, tracking children from birth to mid-20s, that finished last year was resounding in its finding that there were little or no long term side effects.
    Compare that to foetal alchohol syndrome and you can see why hysteria of the masses, while great for selling newspapers, is terrible when it comes to deciding medical policy.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 79 ✭✭My.testicals


    Hate to break up the urban myth circle jerk but a 25 year study, tracking children from birth to mid-20s, that finished last year was resounding in its finding that there were little or no long term side effects.
    Compare that to foetal alchohol syndrome and you can see why hysteria of the masses, while great for selling newspapers, is terrible when it comes to deciding medical policy.

    Well I reckon my niece would say that the study was wrong.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,442 ✭✭✭Sulla Felix


    Well I reckon my niece would say that the study was wrong.

    Crap, yea, I completely forgot that what your niece says totally trumps a multi-million dollar quarter century study by one of Americas largest maternity hospitals.
    I'll let them know right away.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,166 ✭✭✭Fr_Dougal


    Hate to break up the urban myth circle jerk but a 25 year study, tracking children from birth to mid-20s, that finished last year was resounding in its finding that there were little or no long term side effects.
    Compare that to foetal alchohol syndrome and you can see why hysteria of the masses, while great for selling newspapers, is terrible when it comes to deciding medical policy.

    I believe that study was on crack babies. I don't think a similar study has been carried out on the likes of meth.

    In severe cases babies are isolated and go through a detox period where they are given morphine to ease them off their drug addiction. If the mother is addicted to certain drugs it would kill the unborn baby if she were to quit mid-pregnancy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,750 ✭✭✭fleet_admiral


    Wonder what the feminazis will say about it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 79 ✭✭My.testicals


    Crap, yea, I completely forgot that what your niece says totally trumps a multi-million dollar quarter century study by one of Americas largest maternity hospitals.
    I'll let them know right away.

    You see she never really says alot. she has problems with her speech and well lets just say i have been "Studying" her for the last 8 years since i became her legal guardian, so as far as I am concerned I believe what is in front of my own eyes and not what a study says.

    Poor girl is 10 years of age and my 4 year old daughter is MUCH taller than her. She is in and out of hospital all the time, She will never ever be able to have as a single drink because she will be addicted.

    She was having headaches all the time and I couldt figure out why until one of the Doctors figured she was actually addicted to MIWADI.

    But the yanks said different so I must be lying


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,635 ✭✭✭Pumpkinseeds


    I'd like to see a better child services system in place. One that provides a safe environment for children who come from backgrounds where the parent/carer is an alcoholic or drug addict. Every now and again I come across a story in the paper where the parent has used the fact that they are an alcoholic/drug addict who commited a crime to support their addiction and they use the fact that they are the sole guardian or earner for their children.

    A serial offending alcoholic/drug addict parent is not the right person to have custody of a child, that's no environment for a child to grow up in. We need a system where the child and parent are supported and where the parent needs to get sober/clean and prove that they can provide a safe home for their kids.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 223 ✭✭Fate Amenable To Change


    Hate to break up the urban myth circle jerk but a 25 year study, tracking children from birth to mid-20s, that finished last year was resounding in its finding that there were little or no long term side effects.
    Compare that to foetal alchohol syndrome and you can see why hysteria of the masses, while great for selling newspapers, is terrible when it comes to deciding medical policy.

    I can't believe that having an addiction to being born addicted to a drug causes no harm in such a key development stage. The withdrawal symptoms alone would cause serious problems, no?

    Do you have a link to this study so I can make up my own mind on it?

    My own opinion is that the user should be sentenced and the dealer should face a harsher sentence than normal also if it is obvious the customer is pregnant.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 79 ✭✭My.testicals


    I'd like to see a better child services system in place. One that provides a safe environment for children who come from backgrounds where the parent/carer is an alcoholic or drug addict. Every now and again I come across a story in the paper where the parent has used the fact that they are an alcoholic/drug addict who commited a crime to support their addiction and they use the fact that they are the sole guardian or earner for their children.

    A serial offending alcoholic/drug addict parent is not the right person to have custody of a child, that's no environment for a child to grow up in. We need a system where the child and parent are supported and where the parent needs to get sober/clean and prove that they can provide a safe home for their kids.

    But you will be told the best place for a child is with the mother


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,442 ✭✭✭Sulla Felix


    TheZohan wrote: »
    I believe that study was on crack babies. I don't think a similar study has been carried out on the likes of meth.

    In severe cases babies are isolated and go through a detox period where they are given morphine to ease them off their drug addiction. If the mother is addicted to certain drugs it would kill the unborn baby if she were to quit mid-pregnancy.

    Crack was the drug referenced, I should have included a quote of the post I meant to answer.
    GCU FATC wrote:
    I can't believe that having an addiction to being born addicted to a drug causes no harm in such a key development stage. The withdrawal symptoms alone would cause serious problems, no?
    Not off the top of my head, principle was Dr Hallam Hurt in Philadelphia Einstein Medical Centre though. Basically the "crack babies" outcomes were no worse overall than other children from similarly disenfranchised upbringings.


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 13,198 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    The best option is for intervention to help drug/drink addicted mothers, not criminalisation. Criminalisation will only serve to isolate them and could make things worse. Obviously social services have their part to play as well. If a mother refuses intervention/treatment, she forfeits the right to keep her baby.

    But I'd wager that most addicted mothers would prefer treatment/help rather than be thrown into jail.

    Where does this end? Refusing to serve expectant women alcohol or cigarettes? Education is the key, not criminalisation.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,635 ✭✭✭Pumpkinseeds


    But you will be told the best place for a child is with the mother

    We all know that the reality is sadly different and it's becoming more common to see men being the alcoholic/drug addict sole guardian.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,219 ✭✭✭pablo128


    Crack was the drug referenced, I should have included a quote of the post I meant to answer.

    Not off the top of my head, principle was Dr Hallam Hurt in Philadelphia Einstein Medical Centre though. Basically the "crack babies" outcomes were no worse overall than other children from similarly disenfranchised upbringings.
    Your posts are highly insulting. I would like you to ask my niece, who was born with Hepatitis C due to her mothers drug use before and during pregnancy, if there are no long term effects.
    Go and do some proper fcuking research before spouting that sh1te.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 79 ✭✭My.testicals


    We all know that the reality is sadly different and it's becoming more common to see men being the alcoholic/drug addict sole guardian.

    In the case of what I am talking bout this "woman" has 5 kids, 2 are with one grandparents 1 is with me and the other 2 are with their grandparents.

    This Woman is approaching 50 and is still getting off her face on all types of sh!te, The 3 youngest kids have physical problems but the older 2 dont seem to but have emotional and psychological problems.

    What gets to me is she was allowed to do it 5 times.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,442 ✭✭✭Sulla Felix


    pablo128 wrote: »
    Your posts are highly insulting. I would like you to ask my niece, who was born with Hepatitis C due to her mothers drug use before and during pregnancy, if there are no long term effects.
    Go and do some proper fcuking research before spouting that sh1te.
    Where did I say sharing needles with people who are infected with hepatitis C while pregnant wouldn't impact a foetus? Please, do point it out to me.
    Crack has been shown to have neglible effects on the foetus, that's all I've maintained.
    Try reading the posts, it always helps in this kind of discussion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 79 ✭✭My.testicals


    Where did I say sharing needles with people who are infected with hepatitis C while pregnant wouldn't impact a foetus? Please, do point it out to me.
    Crack has been shown to have neglible effects on the foetus, that's all I've maintained.
    Try reading the posts, it always helps in this kind of discussion.

    But you are spouting from a study whereas some people have 1st hand experience of it and you are saying that we are wrong


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 223 ✭✭Fate Amenable To Change


    Crack was the drug referenced, I should have included a quote of the post I meant to answer.

    Not off the top of my head, principle was Dr Hallam Hurt in Philadelphia Einstein Medical Centre though. Basically the "crack babies" outcomes were no worse overall than other children from similarly disenfranchised upbringings.

    Well for starters they done it on an interview based assessment as to whether the mother had made use of drugs in the last two trimesters....

    That alone would bring the validity of everything into question IMO. Sat down face to face with an interviewer and from a poor background it would be unlikely IMO that many of them would admit to taking drugs while pregnant. Theres also a difference between say for example one use in 9 months and someone who is using every day,.

    Also there may have been an aim by the doctor in charge to put the blame at the feet of poverty especially considering almost half of the whole cohort was "lost". That could easily have altered the findings massively.

    TBH there are very few actual findings in the report no graphing of outliers etc. What if there were 10 very outliers in the findings which would make it a 16% rate of serious damage... God forbid we be given this information

    Maybe I'm completely wrong in my view that something like being addicted to crack when you're developing and for the earliest development stages has no effect.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,635 ✭✭✭Pumpkinseeds


    In the case of what I am talking bout this "woman" has 5 kids, 2 are with one grandparents 1 is with me and the other 2 are with their grandparents.

    This Woman is approaching 50 and is still getting off her face on all types of sh!te, The 3 youngest kids have physical problems but the older 2 dont seem to but have emotional and psychological problems.

    What gets to me is she was allowed to do it 5 times.

    I think a lot of it comes down to the total neglect succesive governments have left the child welfare system in. There doesn't seem to be any such thing as emergency care and very few places for kids to go where they are safe. It's easier and cheaper to ignore the problem and leave the kids with parents who aren't equipped to care for them, or themselves.

    It costs them nothing to leave children to starve and be neglected in their homes and for people to live homeless.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,442 ✭✭✭Sulla Felix


    Alright, I concede defeat. Two peoples personal anecdotes and one other persons gut feeling obviously trumps medical science. I got it all wrong.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 79 ✭✭My.testicals


    Alright, I concede defeat. Two peoples personal anecdotes and one other persons gut feeling obviously trumps medical science. I got it all wrong.

    Ha ha, is that you Katie hopkins


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 223 ✭✭Fate Amenable To Change


    Alright, I concede defeat. Two peoples personal anecdotes and one other persons gut feeling obviously trumps medical science. I got it all wrong.

    The single piece of research you quote has serious flaws in its setup and implementation but don't let that stop from believing you have a superior point of view just because its different from the mainstream.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 79 ✭✭My.testicals


    Alright, I concede defeat. Two peoples personal anecdotes and one other persons gut feeling obviously trumps medical science. I got it all wrong.

    Ok a question for you, what if a more in depth study is done and it finds that their is a correlation between drug use in pregnancy and problems in the child which one will you believe


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,735 ✭✭✭dar100


    Alright, I concede defeat. Two peoples personal anecdotes and one other persons gut feeling obviously trumps medical science. I got it all wrong.

    Your research is not reliable or valid. It certainly is not medical science.

    Also there are far to many variables to account for in this study to make a conclusive call.

    If I writes a book claiming the sun is the causality of all human suffering does that mean it's true?, hardly


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,574 ✭✭✭whirlpool


    I'm sorry, are we meant to be taking the OP seriously considering this post he just made about balls?
    Suck em

    Baby

    Anyway OP you could at least start with learning about question marks before getting into heavy stuff like laws protecting unborn babies.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 79 ✭✭My.testicals


    whirlpool wrote: »
    I'm sorry, are we meant to be taking the OP seriously considering this post he just made about balls?



    Anyway OP you could at least start with learning about question marks before getting into heavy stuff like laws protecting unborn babies.

    Seen as though we are being pedantic!! I didn't just make that comment it was made nearly 3 hours ago.

    What has question marks got to do with anything. If you do not like the way I structure my posts then the simple thing to do is not give it the time of day.

    Why did you bother posting if my grammar is not up to your acceptable standards ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,574 ✭✭✭whirlpool


    Seen as though we are being pedantic!! I didn't just make that comment it was made nearly 3 hours ago.

    What has question marks got to do with anything. If you do not like the way I structure my posts then the simple thing to do is not give it the time of day.

    Why did you bother posting if my grammar is not up to your acceptable standards ?

    There ye go! Next step: child protection laws!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 485 ✭✭generalmental


    whirlpool wrote: »
    There ye go! Next step: child protection laws!


    Sum ppl


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,508 ✭✭✭ceadaoin.


    You see she never really says alot. she has problems with her speech and well lets just say i have been "Studying" her for the last 8 years since i became her legal guardian, so as far as I am concerned I believe what is in front of my own eyes and not what a study says.

    Poor girl is 10 years of age and my 4 year old daughter is MUCH taller than her. She is in and out of hospital all the time, She will never ever be able to have as a single drink because she will be addicted.

    She was having headaches all the time and I couldt figure out why until one of the Doctors figured she was actually addicted to MIWADI.

    But the yanks said different so I must be lying

    Sorry, what? Addicted to miwadi? And this causing actual withdrawal symptoms? How does that work exactly? I find it hard to believe that a doctor would diagnose a 10 year old with an orange cordial addiction!


    And how could they possibly know that she will be addicted after one drink?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,122 ✭✭✭BeerWolf


    I'd be all up for it - if the person's taking drugs they're clearly unfit to be a mother as they're placing their unborn in harms way.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 329 ✭✭Corkgirl210


    my.testicals.. I have sincere compassion for you & understand your frustrations.. I had a relative born with withdrawals.. however, she is a brilliant thriving very intelligent child. It seems it may be case specific..

    I do agree with you, that there should be some type of intervention but in a caring/compassionate way... the mother I am speaking about went on to have more children... and again they were kept in for a week after birth to cope with withdrawals.. this time spent in hospital I believe should be spent educating the mother so that it does not happen again... as well as taking a proactive approach to addiction.. it would certainly be a good time to try some sort of intervention... lets face reality... many would simply go back to their old ways.. but there maybe SOME who may surrender..

    Our health system is reactive and not proactive and unfortunately our archaic health system may change but no time soon... meanwhile we all have to cope with the lack of system.

    Addicts are people too, who are sick (it is a physical disease coupled with a mental obsession).. they need help & understanding also.. they don't need punishment.. their daily life of existing and not living is punishment on a daily basis! If an addict had cancer instead of drug addiction, they would have all the sympathy in the world... how many other diseases out there are inherited in some shape or form from their parents? IMHO Lots!!

    Well done on taking on the responsibility of this child.. I have another relative who is physically disabled and personally understand how much of a strain it can be.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 231 ✭✭prizefighter


    You see she never really says alot. she has problems with her speech and well lets just say i have been "Studying" her for the last 8 years since i became her legal guardian, so as far as I am concerned I believe what is in front of my own eyes and not what a study says.

    Poor girl is 10 years of age and my 4 year old daughter is MUCH taller than her. She is in and out of hospital all the time, She will never ever be able to have as a single drink because she will be addicted.

    She was having headaches all the time and I couldt figure out why until one of the Doctors figured she was actually addicted to MIWADI.

    But the yanks said different so I must be lying

    Addicted to Miwadi?! Ahhh come on. How exactly did the doctors pin point Miwadi as the source of the addiction related headaches?!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,080 ✭✭✭✭Maximus Alexander


    Ok a question for you, what if a more in depth study is done and it finds that their is a correlation between drug use in pregnancy and problems in the child which one will you believe

    Are you... seriously suggesting that we should just ignore science for now in case we get better at it later?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 329 ✭✭Corkgirl210


    Addicted to Miwadi?! Ahhh come on. How exactly did the doctors pin point Miwadi as the source of the addiction related headaches?!

    Sounds viable to me.. How many people get caffeine withdrawal related headaches?

    Maybe the child is sensitive to chemicals.. would shine some light on the original question of disability... maybe she is sensitive to the preservatives, E numbers etc?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 231 ✭✭prizefighter


    Sounds viable to me.. How many people get caffeine withdrawal related headaches?

    Maybe the child is sensitive to chemicals.. would shine some light on the original question of disability... maybe she is sensitive to the preservatives, E numbers etc?

    Caffeine is a bit different to Miwadi. Either way a sensitivity to preservatives does not imply an addiction?! I think if a child was 'addicted' to Miwadi, their obvious consumption of copious amounts of it would be a give away. So am I to assume that the implication of this child's addiction is that she inherited addictive tendencies from her drug addled mother?! If so I'm not sure inheriting addictive personality traits through genetics can be blamed on drug use.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,737 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    But you are spouting from a study whereas some people have 1st hand experience of it and you are saying that we are wrong
    The plural of 'anecdote' is not 'data'. If for every child that has been negatively effected by drug use during pregnancy there are 999 children that are no worse off than if their mother wasn't a junkie that would mean that your anecdote accounts for 0.1%, which is a pretty insignificant amount.*
    Caffeine is a bit different to Miwadi. Either way a sensitivity to preservatives does not imply an addiction?! I think if a child was 'addicted' to Miwadi, their obvious consumption of copious amounts of it would be a give away. So am I to assume that the implication of this child's addiction is that she inherited addictive tendencies from her drug addled mother?! If so I'm not sure inheriting addictive personality traits through genetics can be blamed on drug use.

    It is possible to be psychologically addicted to something but I have to say that I'm dubious about a MiWadi 'addiction'. I'd more put it down as 'drinking too much MiWadi'.

    * Numbers are pulled out of my arse simply to illustrate that one or two people's experience does not negate the outcome of scientific studies. I have seen someone say that that particular study is flawed, and if it is then it should be questioned because of that, not because one person's personal experience might differ from the findings. Also it seems that that study focussed on 'crack babies', and wouldn't necessarily reflect the children of heroin (etc.) users.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 329 ✭✭Corkgirl210


    Caffeine is a bit different to Miwadi. Either way a sensitivity to preservatives does not imply an addiction?! I think if a child was 'addicted' to Miwadi, their obvious consumption of copious amounts of it would be a give away. So am I to assume that the implication of this child's addiction is that she inherited addictive tendencies from her drug addled mother?! If so I'm not sure inheriting addictive personality traits through genetics can be blamed on drug use.


    Many studies may disagree:
    children of parents who abuse drugs may inherit a genetic predisposition (or greater likelihood) for addiction.
    Scientists have discovered a gene that causes alcoholism or addiction etc.


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