Most insulting/vile/offending thing you ever had said to you

Kaycee2

What's the worst thing you've ever had said to you?

In my last job I would get a fair amount of grief off the customers, it wouldn't be unusual on any day to be called a fcukin b!tch, cnut or have a range of other obsenities thrown at me it was all water off a ducks back.

Until one day I was sitting behind the counter, I was about 7 months pregnant at the time and a customer came and stood in front of me staring at my chest which was well covered I should mention, he then said in the most sleezy pervy way, I don't think there's any other way he could have said it 'Ah I see the milk is coming in, they're filling up nicely'

Being a raging bag of hormones at the time I ran to the bathroom to cry, if I seen the durty bastard now I think I'd punch him in the face, multiple times.

Alf. A. Male

Thanks for this chance to revisit unpleasant memories

stefan idiot jones

Are you French?

Specialun

Your from kerry yeah?

snaphook

My brother's mother in law said to my then new girlfriend, privately, whom she had known for the bones of an hour that "....you're a lovely looking girl, you could do a lot better for yourself".

That's the most offensive thing anyone's said about me.

She didn't heed that dopes 'advice'.

newmug

That its my fault a scumbag paedophile baxtard raped some fellas mate, based on my religion.

The Moldy Gowl

Your cock reminds me of my dead Fathers'

irish_goat

Gowlasauras Rex wrote: »

Your cock reminds me of my dead Fathers'

In a good way..?

Aglomerado

irish_goat wrote: »

In a good way..?

...stiff at last?

Lingua Franca

"I should have aborted you."

The Moldy Gowl

irish_goat wrote: »

In a good way..?

Twas cold and dusty with a bit of gangrene setting it

Stereomaniac

Don't make me put you away.

eviltwin

Lingua Franca wrote: »

"I should have aborted you."

:eek:

IvyTheTerrible

Someone said to my sister it was her fault my brother killed himself! (which was absolutely not true).

MacBizzle

IvyTheTerrible wrote: »

Someone said to my sister it was her fault my brother killed himself! (which was absolutely not true).

That really has to be the worst thing you can tell someone affected by suicide. Sickening.

Grayson

Not the most offensive, but the most offensive I'm willing to put here. anyway, the most offensive are all in context because it was more the people that said them rather than just what they'd said.

I'm bald. I shave my entire head most days.
One day in the canteen during lunch a girl who was sitting opposite me said touching a bald scalp must be like touching a snake. The thought of it made her ill and she couldn't understand why anyone would want to. It was just "icky"

She also couldn't understand why I thought it was rude.

dodzy

Lingua Franca wrote: »

"I should have aborted you."

You're feckin joking, surely?

shruikan2553

I was told I must have a sad life because I don't believe I've been given a purpose in life and I make my own purpose.

newmug wrote: »

That its my fault a scumbag paedophile baxtard raped some fellas mate, based on my religion.

If you are talking about what I think you are that is not what was said.

SimonTemplar

Your mother was a hamster and your father smelt of elderberries

uch

Is it in Yet ?

Philo Beddoe

Grayson wrote: »

She also couldn't understand why I thought it was rude.

She sounds like the kind of person who doesn't understand why anything is rude until someone explains it to her!

razorblunt

"What are you, Welsh?

Not sure if it was an insult or an attempted question.
I'm not by the way!

ronjo

Her : You are British arent you.
Me : No, I am Irish
Her : Well its all the same isnt it?
Me : No, actually its not.
Her : Well to us it is..

I have no problem with her first statement, or even her second one but I did want to slap her after the third.

ETA, I have actually had a lot worse said to me in fairness... that just came to mind.

ancapailldorcha

My brother told me that he wished that I was dead once.

Vito Corleone

ronjo wrote: »

Her : You are British arent you.
Me : No, I am Irish
Her : Well its all the same isnt it?
Me : No, actually its not.
Her : Well to us it is..

I have no problem with her first statement, or even her second one but I did want to slap her after the third.

lol, I'll light a candle for you. :rolleyes:

ronjo

Vito Corleone wrote: »

lol, I'll light a candle for you. :rolleyes:

A lol and a :rolleyes:. Good man Vito

Vito Corleone

ronjo wrote: »

A lol and a :rolleyes:. Good man Vito

u ok hun? xoxox

jimgoose

ronjo wrote: »

Her : You are British arent you.
Me : No, I am Irish
Her : Well its all the same isnt it?
Me : No, actually its not.
Her : Well to us it is..

I have no problem with her first statement, or even her second one but I did want to slap her after the third.

ETA, I have actually had a lot worse said to me in fairness... that just came to mind.

Who was/is "us"?

The Moldy Gowl

ronjo wrote: »

A lol and a :rolleyes:. Good man Vito

mail me bbz

ronjo

jimgoose wrote: »

Who was/is "us"?

She is Slovak

jimgoose

ronjo wrote: »

She is Slovak

Ah, a Russian.

bear1

ronjo wrote: »

She is Slovak

Should have asked her if she's Russian, when she says no then you can say "well to us you are"
Probably what I would have said

bear1

Damn you Jim, damn you to hell for beating me to it!

bodhi085

F*$k off back to England you English c#^t
Twice in 13 years.

everlast75

uch wrote: »

Is it in Yet ?

Liked by "bigwillie" :D:D

jimgoose

bear1 wrote: »

Damn you Jim, damn you to hell for beating me to it!

You must think in Russian, Major! :cool:

Oryx

I bought a house years ago, when I was quite young, and was doing a lot of the work myself. (Female btw) I also had a lot of friends calling in to see the place, I suppose a few of them were men, like most normal people I have friends of both sexes.

My ignorant auld neighbour came out to the front of the house as Im filling a skip with rubble,and says

'Youd think you wouldnt have to do that yourself, what with all the men you have calling all the time'.

Herb Powell

I'm apparently a "wee taig ****"

I'd frankly find it more offensive to be a loyalist, but still, not very nice.

Grayson

Oryx wrote: »

I bought a house years ago, when I was quite young, and was doing a lot of the work myself. (Female btw) I also had a lot of friends calling in to see the place, I suppose a few of them were men, like most normal people I have friends of both sexes.

My ignorant auld neighbour came out to the front of the house as Im filling a skip with rubble,and says

'Youd think you wouldnt have to do that yourself, what with all the men you have calling all the time'.

Obviously she gets a far better deal for sex than you do. You should charge/barter, just like her

bear1

jimgoose wrote: »

You must think in Russian, Major! :cool:

Davajj tu suka!

Oryx

Grayson wrote: »

Obviously she gets a far better deal for sex than you do. You should charge/barter, just like her

The neighbour was a man. His wife was a cow, but at least she didnt openly call me a slut.

mathie

Alf. A. Male wrote: »

Thanks for this chance to revisit unpleasant memories mammaries

FYP

Renegade Mechanic

Think Ill sit this one out. I can already feel the red dot of a lazer guided banhammer on my neck:D

Grayson

Philo Beddoe wrote: »

She sounds like the kind of person who doesn't understand why anything is rude until someone explains it to her!

She's also very large and probably would have punched me if I'd mentioned her weight or said anything disparaging about over weight people.

jimgoose

Grayson wrote: »

She's also very large and probably would have punched me if I'd mentioned her weight or said anything disparaging about over weight people.

Just tell her you always fancied giving a great big fat arse an almighty shlap and surfin' on in on the wave. :cool:

Irishcrx

I don't know if this is insulting or why I was insulted by it but this is the one that springs to mind , generally direct insults just roll off me I'm not reallt bothered by other peoples opinions...anyway got a sales call a couple of years to the house just after I'd moved in...

Me: ' Hey '
Sales: 'Hi , can we speak to the home owner please, is your Dad in'
Me: ' Em , no I'm the homeowner'
Sales: ' Haha , very good , we just need to speak with them for a moment'
(Blank stares)
Me: ' Well, you'd better head down to their house so because their not in this one'
Sales: ' Oh...sorry you just look very young to own a house'
Me:' Yeah it's grand'
Sales: 'Have you always lived in the area? You don't sound like it'
Me: ' Yep always'
Sales: ' Oh , you just sound differant you know , posher than most around here'

Closed door.

Excellent sale skills out of this one. Still , at least she didn't openly call me a slut like the neighbour in the above posts...Maybe she was a slut, maybe she wanted into the house...damn it..

NormalBob Ubiquitypants

"Fcuking whore's abortion". Thank you random drunk woman.

ShiftStorm

I grew up in a cult-like church. I went for a job in a religious organisation and the church leader was one of my referees. (I was obviously still deeply involved in the church at the time). The interviewer said that he was happy with all my references but one alluded to my not being "submissive enough".

Like one poster has said already, it's not so much what is said but who it's said by. I had suffered in silence and had my confidence eroded over many years in that place and I *still* was not submissive enough by their horrible, weird standards.

Took me years to get over it but I'm grand now. Fcuk 'em!

shalalala

bodhi085 wrote: »

F*$k off back to England you English c#^t
Twice in 13 years.

I got told to **** off back to Ireland when I lived in England and to **** off back to England while I live here. It really is a lose lose.

While I was tying a mans tie in work. He asked my colleague why the company didn't employ Irish people, as if I wasn't standing right there! Rude ignorant man, my colleague put him in his place thankfully.

Lingua Franca

dodzy wrote: »

You're feckin joking, surely?

Not at all.

Should go without saying that I have no relationship at all with she who said it and haven't done for years. I think she only said it because she's passionately anti-abortion and it was the most hurtful thing she could think of to say. The funny thing is, I agree with it. Would have saved us both a lot of pain and heartache if she had.

She's a bitter, miserable, spiteful old bitch from a long line of bitter, miserable, spiteful old bitches. I chose to break with tradition and leave it and them all behind.

And a bonus of being told something like that is, there's not much worse than that. Anything and everything since has been water off a duck's back.

Chattastrophe!

As it happened, when I got pregnant, it was around the time of the "Savita" case, and all the protests etc were happening in the area of our offices.

It was said to me, by someone in my place of work, that it was a pity that the abortion legislation hadn't yet come into effect in this country.

My pregnancy wasn't planned, but jeez, abortion was never even in the question. I'm all for having the option. But being told "Ah isn't it a pity you couldn't have one ...?" No..