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    #32
    irishguy1983
    Registered Users Posts: 1,389 ✭✭✭irishguy1983


    tina4t wrote: »
    There is just under an hours drive between us, he insisted on paying the first 2 times we went halves the 3rd time. He stayed the nite, as time goes on i'm already forgetting about him.

    Don't know about him being married as he had his pic up on public view on his profile, surely if he was married he wouldn't take a chance like that.[/QUOTE]

    Who knows? To be honest he obviously is a ballsy enough chap/risk taker to suggest hotel on second date.


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    #33
    Emme
    Registered Users Posts: 4,055 ✭✭✭Emme


    tina4t wrote: »
    There is just under an hours drive between us, he insisted on paying the first 2 times we went halves the 3rd time. He stayed the nite, as time goes on i'm already forgetting about him.

    Don't know about him being married as he had his pic up on public view on his profile, surely if he was married he wouldn't take a chance like that.

    If he was single and there is less than an hour's drive between you he wouldn't be looking to have a session in a hotel unless he lived with his parents. Even then he might prefer to go to your place.

    Anyone who wants to have a session in a hotel on the 2nd date is suspect.

    As for having his pic on public view he could still be married. If he was caught he'd just say somebody put up a profile for him as a joke.


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    #34
    Alf. A. Male
    Closed Accounts Posts: 740 ✭✭✭Alf. A. Male


    tina4t wrote: »
    Don't know about him being married as he had his pic up on public view on his profile, surely if he was married he wouldn't take a chance like that.

    Every week, at least one thread appears in this forum after a woman finds out her fella has one or more profiles on dating sites, complete with pictures. Cheaters don't think they're doing nothing wrong, they just think they won't get caught.
    Stop working so hard to give him the benefit of the doubt. It looks to me like you're going to cave and call him in spite of everything. If I'm wrong, apologies. If I'm right, it's up to you what you do, but personally I have enough respect for myself not to bother with someone who treats me like that.


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    #35
    Flippyfloppy
    Registered Users Posts: 3,748 ✭✭✭Flippyfloppy


    Treat him in kind OP, why should you wallow to him when he treats you this way? In fact, what is there to even like about him?


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    #36
    stargazer 68
    Registered Users Posts: 5,096 ✭✭✭stargazer 68


    tina4t wrote: »
    Don't know about him being married as he had his pic up on public view on his profile, surely if he was married he wouldn't take a chance like that.

    Oh trust me he would! If you go onto the online dating forum you will see tons of stories like this. People (I say people as women do it too) have profiles on dating sites with their pics and even put that they are married. They think they will never get caught or don't care if they do. They have to be real pics too because in some cases they would use better looking pics if they were fake! :rolleyes:


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