Worst thing you've ever said to someone?

cletus van damme

I felt terribel once when i was about 16/17 was outside local disco half pissed.
this girl was walking arkwardly by holding onto the wall / fence.

idiot in me shouts out without thinking "jaysus your one is ****ing pissed can't walk at all"

cue a torrent of abuse from her friends - she's a minor disability that caused her to walk funny.

morto.


thankfully I met her a few week later at same disco and was chatting away and she didn't mention it so reckon she didnt recognise me.

Wacker The Attacker

Conmaicne Mara wrote: »

Worst thing, was in primary school and said it to a then good friend of mine, won't be repeating it but that was it for the friendship.

I don't tend to get in rows etc. like someone said up there when my buttons are pushed then all bets are off on what's said.

Can someone explain what this means?

Mickey H

Wacker The Attacker wrote: »

Can someone explain what this means?

It means "Anything goes" AFAIK.

PirateShampoo

I have a friend who suffers from Alopecia, one evening while having a few drinks we were all sat around a table when he walked in with a baseball cap on that was 2 sizes to big, and before I could stop myself I told him to take it off because he looks like one of them "Make a Wish Foundation" kids and a bleedin cancer victim.

I thought I was hysterical, everybody else not somuch.

PirateShampoo

I have a friend who suffers from Alopecia, one evening while having a few drinks we were all sat around a table when he walked in with a baseball cap on that was 2 sizes to big, and before I could stop myself I told him to take it off because he looks like one of them "Make a Wish Foundation" kids and a bleedin cancer victim.

I thought I was hysterical, everybody else not somuch.

Sir Arthur Daley

You will never get a good time in a marathon, one cannot make a race horse out of a donkey.

krudler

bluefinger wrote: »

when are you due?
Genuine mistake.
Poor girl ran out of the porterhouse in tears.

You never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever assume a woman is pregnant. Unless she mention it or you know for definite dont even go there

smileyj1987

Having a heated argument with the ex gf two years . I turne to her and said " why am I even with you ? You have a face that belongs on a can of pedigree chum " . The poor ex broke into tears , it was pure cruel from me .

PirateShampoo

I have a friend who suffers from Alopecia, one evening while having a few drinks we were all sat around a table when he walked in with a baseball cap on that was 2 sizes to big, and before I could stop myself I told him to take it off because he looks like one of them "Make a Wish Foundation" kids and a bleedin cancer victim.

I thought I was hysterical, everybody else not somuch.

minidazzler

krudler wrote: »

You never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever assume a woman is pregnant. Unless she mention it or you know for definite dont even go there

If you can see her crowning, and you already know there is a baby on the way, you shouldn't even say she's preggers. She'll find a reason to hurt you :pac:

I'm generally a pretty bad person, and say some absolutely horrible things to people. But I also have a nice selective memory where I forget everything bad I say so that I don't hate myself after....

A recent one I remember is when I was shagging a girl I've shagged a few times over the years was "Your cnut is loose as fook I'm going for the bum.... Your bum is as tight as a cnut is supposed to be.". That said, we have that kind of "relationship" where we only communicate in insults. So overall it's not THAT bad.

Femme_Fatale

Hate when people are proud of/not apologetic for being horrible.

nc19

Told a girl to go kill herself in class one day

In fairness she had said a few things before hand

Pat Mustard

Kilgore__Trout wrote: »

I don't mind your showing me your legs. They're very swell legs and it's a pleasure to make their acquaintance. I don't mind if you don't like my manners. They're pretty bad. I grieve over them during the long winter nights.

Delivered this line to a belligerent dame I encountered on a case a few years back... honest...

Was she a smooth shiny girl, hardboiled and loaded with sin?

FairytaleGirl

Op here, had this conversation with my mother earlier and she told me my brother used to torture me when I was younger and after a particularly rough day with us bickering she heard me scream 'fcuk off or il kick you until blood comes out of your ears!'

Clearly I was a violent minded child...

minidazzler

Femme_Fatale wrote: »

Hate when people are proud of/not apologetic for being horrible.

To be fair, if the person was a dick to you there's no need to be apologetic about it. I will tear anyone to shreds with insults if they try to insult me, and I'm a lot better at it than most people. But I won't randomly start insulting people either. I'm not gonna feel sorry when someone else started insulting me and I happened to go the extra mile to shut them up.

Pumpkinseeds

I've said so many that it'd be too hard to pick one.

Suffice to say: Did I do it? Yes
Am I sorry? No
Will I do it again? Yes

Ande1975

nc19 wrote: »

Told a girl to go kill herself in class one day

In fairness she had said a few things before hand

I know this is AH and everything but no matter how horrid someone is to you, telling them to go kill themselves is probably the most shocking thing I have ever read.

I read this earlier and I was so shocked, I had to post.

Rothko

I mock your value system. You also appear foolish in the eyes of others.

mathie

My father once said ‘You’ll never amount to anything,’ he said. ‘You’re that to me.’
On the word ‘that’, he held his finger and thumb one, maybe two, centimetres apart as if to say ‘not very much’

Thataone

I used to get very stressed out over leaving cert higher level maths. During the mocks I turned into a total satanic b!tch and when my friend asked my how the paper went I told her if she even mentioned maths I would get the papers and ram them down her thoat to shut her up. Apparently I said this with a look only fit for a serial killer in my eyes. Felt bad after, especially when it came to the real thing, I didn't panic or stress and ended up with a great result in maths!

I've been known to be as blunt as a rusted spoon to one lad in particular who used to piss me off no end, though apparently he was mad for me. He was a bit thick though and didn't get the message. Pretty sure I said some awful things to him, don't think I could have been more blunt or cutting.

Basically if I dislike someone enough or am in enough of a mood, I can have a bit of a way with words and can be quite harsh. Even if it's not what I say, it's how I say it... my tone of voice can be truly scary.

anoda_username

mathie wrote: »

My father once said ‘You’ll never amount to anything,’ he said. ‘You’re that to me.’
On the word ‘that’, he held his finger and thumb one, maybe two, centimetres apart as if to say ‘not very much’

Did you read the thread title?

Mr. Nice

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FhoDD6L7A6k

Mozzeltoff

Told someone he was a complete waste of sperm.

Ihatecuddles

I was abused as a child, pretty badly too. Years later when I grew up I told my birth mother she wasn't fit to raise dogs.

She later told me that it cut her deep and really upset her. I still feel bad.

Panda_Turtle

krudler wrote: »

You never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever assume a woman is pregnant. Unless she mention it or you know for definite dont even go there

And people get p*ssed off when you don`t offer what looks like a pregnant lady a seat on a train?

Yearning4Stormy

anoda_username wrote: »

Did you read the thread title?

Nevermind if mathie didn't get the title, that's an absolutely abhorrent thing for a father to say to their offspring. Jesus.

Obligicontribution: I've a list of cutting comments to reply to my ex if she ever gets in touch again, but I know when push comes to shove, I won't have the balls to say any of them... mostly 'cause I still love her and I'd take her back in a heartbeat irrespective of how shockingly badly she treated me. Damn you, heart over head! Top of the list is...

"I always said it was never just about the sex for me. Obviously you thought spreading your legs would forgive any of your appalling behaviour."

maguic24

I said some awful things to people as a teenager...thinking back now I was such a dick.

Aglomerado

I was a rotten little fcuker when I was about 13.

A friend of my mother's was visiting one day and she overheard me giving some cheek to my father. She said "If I spoke to my father like that he'd throw me out of the house." I rounded on her and said "If I had an illegitimate child like yours MY father would throw ME out of the house..."
This was in the late 1980s when single mums were still rare enough in rural areas.

It was still horrible though.

The lady and her child are doing well today.

logic

They are the smallest boobs I've ever had.....I meant to say they are the nicest boobs I ever had but it was out and there was no taking it back no matter how much I wanted to. She ended up getting a boob job a couple years later.

Legs.Eleven

Told my dad I hated him in the heat of the moment when I was a teenager. Felt awful about that at the time. Have made sure to tell him as often as I can that I love him ever since.