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Are you afraid of dying?

  • 12-01-2014 10:52PM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,537 ✭✭✭


    Apologies for the morbid question late on a Sunday night!! :D

    I don't want to get into a chat about the after life etc. just been thinking of my own mortality lately and the surreal thought that one second you are alive and the next it could be all over.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 2,917 ✭✭✭scwazrh


    Yes


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,532 ✭✭✭passremarkable


    actually think about it a lot
    scary so it is..
    we have absolutely no say in it..
    i never want to die...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,847 ✭✭✭desbrook


    Apologies for the morbid question late on a Sunday night!! :D

    I don't want to get into a chat about the after life etc. just been thinking of my own mortality lately and the surreal thought that one second you are alive and the next it could be all over.

    It was "over " before you were born and you knew no different. No big deal!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 893 ✭✭✭danslevent


    I am more afraid of my family dying because if I die then it's not like I will ever be aware of being dead, I'll just be dead.


    But the thoughts of being diagnosed with some long,painful illness that will inevitably be fatal...yeah...scares me...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 783 ✭✭✭Saucy McKetchup


    Yeah, thanks for reminding me


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,396 ✭✭✭Frosty McSnowballs


    No but I am scared of dying a slow painful death.

    I hope it's quick, like sex.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,562 ✭✭✭✭Sunnyisland


    Not afraid of dying, but don't want to skip out for a while yet,sure iam only a youngfella .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,250 ✭✭✭pixbyjohn


    Its the luck of the draw that we are still alive. Hopefully when the time comes it will be quick and painless


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,087 ✭✭✭Spring Onion


    Dying ain't much of a living.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 657 ✭✭✭tracey turnblad


    I am.. And often take slight panic attacks over it... Its not so much me dying...its leaving my children ... Also how I would die... Seeing my mam suffer and die from cancer..its not something I would like to go through... Id rather a bang of a bus...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,887 ✭✭✭Mariasofia


    I dont want to die. I sometimes wish I never was born at all.
    Carry on........


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,467 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    Don't mind dying but colour runs scare me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 361 ✭✭jazz101


    No. I sometimes wonder if it can be deduced that it is more desirable than life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,847 ✭✭✭desbrook


    Mariasofia wrote: »
    I dont want to die. I sometimes wish I never was born at all.
    Carry on........

    Nothing really matters ....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,660 ✭✭✭COYVB


    Nope. No point fearing something I won't even realise has happened


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,380 ✭✭✭✭Banjo String


    Em. Not really.

    The way I look at it is, right, I was essentially 'dead' before I was born, I.e, I didn't exist. Yeah wasn't that bad tbh. (don't recall much of it lol)

    However, for the other possibilities after death.

    I might go to heaven. (I don't believe Im due a roasting in hell)
    Might get reincarnated. (lucky dip.)
    Might live on in a spiritual form.

    I've Prob missed out on a load of other stuff.

    Not scared of dying, but certainly not planning on it happening for another 40-50 years at least.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,584 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    desbrook wrote: »
    It was "over " before you were born and you knew no different. No big deal!

    That's got to be the worst bit of reasoning there is to not fear death =p

    You don't experience anxiety before you're born.. that comes with life; and the idea of ones own mortality is something that causes a lot of anxiety for many people.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,421 ✭✭✭major bill


    Death doesn't scare me too much thats life we should be just thankfull we made it past birth.

    I am more scared of growing old alone or ending up with Alzheimers or Dementia, I'd hate to get to that age and forget the life i had or the people I loved..........deep thoughts but it scares the **** out of me


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I'm not afraid of being dead, I'm afraid of how I might die.

    What really horrifies me is the thought of dying old and alone, after losing every member of my family first. That is terrifying.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,178 ✭✭✭✭Captain Chaos


    That's got to be the worst bit of reasoning there is to not fear death =p

    You don't experience anxiety before you're born.. that comes with life; and the idea of ones own mortality is something that causes a lot of anxiety for many people.

    But you are just going back to the way you were before and you won't know when it happens.

    It's the best way of reasoning it imo.

    Every point you made will be irrelevant when you are dead anyway as you can't experience that or lack of that anymore.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,003 ✭✭✭Busted Flat.


    Used to be many years ago when the conquer cancer campaign was on the tele, I knew people who become terrified about that. Now that I am older I have no fear, my parents and their friends had those fears in their last few years.
    The church created those fears to protect their wealth. Ba$tards.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,822 ✭✭✭Chazz Michael Michaels


    Dying, yes.

    Death, no.

    Lack of belief in god/heaven helps with the latter.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 979 ✭✭✭Michael Weston


    Apologies for the morbid question late on a Sunday night!! :D

    I don't want to get into a chat about the after life etc. just been thinking of my own mortality lately and the surreal thought that one second you are alive and the next it could be all over.

    Thinking about it a bit lately, death of a parent has brought it to my mind but I was assuming it was a stage in my life that triggers it. How old are you o p ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,390 ✭✭✭clairefontaine


    Yes. Terrified of it.

    However, there are times that the idea of it gave me great consolations, that I could end this whenever I feel like it, so long as I succeeded. If I failed and ended up paralysed or brain damaged, that would be worse.

    However those consolations depended upon an assumption that conciousness also ends. When it dawned on me I could be wrong about that, it no longer seemed a consoling thought. More like OH ****.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,311 ✭✭✭✭weldoninhio


    Not at all, wish it would come sooner. Bored living.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,467 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    Generally I think people don't fear death,it's more a fear of the pain associated with it or leaving loved ones.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,461 ✭✭✭✭Pawwed Rig


    It was one of the positives of religion where you do not have to worry about death as afterwards everything will be rosey in the garden. With the decline in belief I suppose people have to face their mortality in a much more morbid way as an end. Some will welcome nothing after death while others will fear oblivion.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 445 ✭✭rwg


    I dont wanna die, not now anyways when its looking like Liverpool will win the league :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,297 ✭✭✭✭Sam Kade


    To all of you people afraid of dying think of it this way every day you spend alive is a day less and a day nearer death :(


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,301 ✭✭✭Days 298


    Sam Kade wrote: »
    To all of you people afraid of dying think of it this way every day you spend alive is a day less and a day nearer death :(

    Good.


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