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Relationships - yay or nay?

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  • 11-08-2013 10:07pm
    #1
    whirlpool
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,574 ✭✭✭


    At this current point in your life, (if you're not currently in one) would you be happy to enter a relationship [but not actively seeking one?] Or are you currently avoiding them? Or are you desperate to be in one? Which one of these are you?

    At the moment I'm purposely avoiding them (in before someone says You first, OP.)

    No explanations required. An answer will suffice.


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    wazky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,516 ✭✭✭wazky


    Actively seeking one.

    When I get parole in a few weeks.


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    #3
    Rothko
    Registered Users Posts: 12,839 ✭✭✭✭Rothko


    Nay, based on past experiences.


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    #4
    catallus
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,106 ✭✭✭catallus


    Actively avoiding one. (I am also getting parole in a few weeks)


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    #5
    Itwasntme.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,754 ✭✭✭Itwasntme.


    I thought I wanted a relationship. Then I got it and realised I wasn't ready for it. So I left it. And now I think I may have made a really big mistake.

    So I guess my answer is that I have no clue.


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    #6
    Femme_Fatale
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,628 ✭✭✭Femme_Fatale


    Happy to be in one but not actively seeking one.


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    #7
    Augmerson
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 6,162 ✭✭✭Augmerson


    The most important relationship for me right now is between me and my family :) they'rrrrrre great.


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    #8
    Fox_In_Socks
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,616 ✭✭✭Fox_In_Socks


    Femme_Fatale wrote: »
    Happy to be in one but not actively seeking one.

    Same as.

    Hey, we'd make a great couple.

    :pac:


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    #9
    cantdecide
    Registered Users Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    Happily not pursuing one and haven't been for a long (and peaceful) time now. If I met someone nice I wouldn't rule it out though.


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    #10
    Grainne101
    Closed Accounts Posts: 89 ✭✭Grainne101


    Right now would rather have all my teeth pulled than get involved with another headwrecking b**lix!! Usually would be happy to be in one but today is a REALLY bad day!


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    #11
    Panthro
    Registered Users Posts: 14,684 ✭✭✭✭Panthro


    You know what kind of Ship never sinks?
    A Friend..Ship..:o

    (I'll just run away now)


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    #12
    Mocha Joe
    Registered Users Posts: 895 ✭✭✭Mocha Joe


    I'd rip off both arms for regular sex.


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    #13
    Fox_In_Socks
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,616 ✭✭✭Fox_In_Socks


    Mocha Joe wrote: »
    I'd rip off both arms for regular sex.

    Legs as well. All you need is the John Thomas.


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    GarIT
    Registered Users Posts: 8,671 ✭✭✭GarIT


    Mocha Joe wrote: »
    I'd rip off both arms for regular sex.

    Said no girl ever.

    Try it, there's definitely a market for it online anyway.


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    #15
    HalloweenJack
    Registered Users Posts: 7,056 ✭✭✭HalloweenJack


    Currently in one for the past five months.

    Was looking and found one. Would be looking if I wasn't in one.


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    #16
    Femme_Fatale
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,628 ✭✭✭Femme_Fatale


    GarIT wrote: »
    Said no girl ever.
    I thanked it though.


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    #17
    Esoteric_
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,255 ✭✭✭✭Esoteric_


    On the verge of being in one. Wasn't looking for one, and was actually determined to stay single. Go figure. Happy with how things have turned out, though. :)


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    #18
    ElChe32
    Registered Users Posts: 2,690 ✭✭✭ElChe32


    Was in one for 2 years, felt like I was being put under too much pressure from it, left her, miss her, she's moved on. Not sure what I want to do.


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    Mocha Joe
    Registered Users Posts: 895 ✭✭✭Mocha Joe


    Femme_Fatale wrote: »
    I thanked it though.

    You'll accept the deal or you echo the sentiment? Or both? It would be pretty low quality sex if we both had no arms though. Not that I'd complain.


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    #20
    carzony
    Registered Users Posts: 2,780 ✭✭✭carzony


    I'd love one. Had my first little relationship last year and I couldn't have been happier. Turned out SHE only wanted the sex part. As a man, I should have been happy about that, right?:eek:


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    green_bow
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 94 ✭✭green_bow


    actively seeking one, if your a male in his thirties and single , it leaves you a spare wheel when it comes to socialising , people avoid you and view you as a bit of a misfit , you find your not invited to stuff as much as you used to


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    #22
    Fox_In_Socks
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,616 ✭✭✭Fox_In_Socks


    carzony wrote: »
    I'd love one. Had my first little relationship last year and I couldn't have been happier. Turned out SHE only wanted the sex part. As a man, I should have been happy about that, right?:eek:

    Hmmmm...wellllll...yeah, I would be happy with that.


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    #23
    EdenHazard
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,296 ✭✭✭EdenHazard


    Yeah, would have been in one(my first) but right girl, wrong time. When I say yeh I like the idea of being in one but not really sure it entails, I'd love to go out with someone who you completely click with, and proper enjoy being around each other. Think that would be a given but a lot of relationships I see are just convenience, someone to bang etc. Maybe I've watched too much Disney movies.


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    #24
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    I have an imaginary girlfriend, she's the best.


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    #25
    Frosty McSnowballs
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,396 ✭✭✭Frosty McSnowballs


    Looking back, I seem to have always been in relationships. One or two I may not have classed as relationships though.

    Anyway, I'm 32 and in my 10th year of my current one.....probably why I spend so much time on here! :)


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    #26
    Real Life
    Registered Users Posts: 943 ✭✭✭Real Life


    Im not in a relationship, im not seeking one but also not avoiding one. im just living my life. anything could happen, or not happen as the case may be


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    Katunga
    Registered Users Posts: 659 ✭✭✭Katunga


    Not in one but would be happy to be in one but not seeking one if it happens it happens.


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    #28
    jaffacakesyum
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,207 ✭✭✭jaffacakesyum


    I've never been in a proper relationship so yeah I'd love one. But fat chance of that so I'm just trying to enjoy life at the moment and let things happen :) Going to be travelling with work for a good while now so I'm glad I'm single for that :pac:


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    #29
    The Backwards Man
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    I'm with Cliff Richard.








    Not literally like;

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0uRlgNF7uAU


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    #30
    Karl Stein
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,689 ✭✭✭Karl Stein


    pharmaton wrote: »
    I have an imaginary girlfriend, she's the best.

    I'm sorry to the bearer of bad news but she cheated on you with me.

    I'd like to know if it was the other way round.


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    #31
    Yellow121
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 737 ✭✭✭Yellow121


    I'm in a relationship with an amazing, beautiful woman. I'm not trying to make you all jealous but she's the greatest gf ever. She's really sweet, intelligent, she'll do anything for me, she's a doll.


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