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predicament

LegacyUser · 2013-05-17 21:03:28

I met a wonderful woman online a few months ago. We hit it off immediately and exchanged emails for a few weeks before calling each other. We've a lot in common and within no time we became very good friends. She sent me photos and looked beautiful in them. I couldn't believe my luck. Last week we eventually got to meet as…

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#32 19-05-2013 10:34PM

ToffeeT

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allym wrote: »

Just on the size thing, I'm 5 1 and at a 10 I'm a perfectly fine and healthy weight, however earlier this year I was a good bit heavier,a size 12 and definitely overweight. So at my height the difference in size really is noticeable, whereas in someone taller it wouldn't be at all.

OP if you're not attracted to her you can't help that, but I would say don't throw it away just yet. Attraction can grow overtime and you might find that if you meet again her personality might make her more attractive to you. Of course it may not, but I'd give it more time.

Seriously!!! don't be encouraging him she deserves better.

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#33 19-05-2013 10:52PM

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ToffeeT,

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#34 20-05-2013 11:23AM

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DoozerT6 wrote: »

Exactly. Honestly, you must be into very slim ladies if you think one extra stone on a person who was previously slim/average, is overweight. If it is, to your eyes, then you've obviously learned a lesson about yourself and what your expectations are and work from there. I

But if you really like this woman as a person, look around at some of the really grossly overweight people out there who have partners. How does she compare physically to them? Which would you, personally, rather have as your partner?

Having a few curves is not overweight, gertall. And if you do decide to end things with her, for God's sake DON'T tell her it's about her weight. No girl needs to hear that!!!!! Just tell her you didn't feel a spark when ye actually met up.

Would it not be best to tell her the truth

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#35 20-05-2013 01:51PM

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Thread Closed.

OP, please contact the mods for clarification if you require it.

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