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i think i married the wrong woman

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  • 13-04-2013 9:08pm
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    lost in cork
    Registered Users Posts: 133 ✭✭


    When i was 22 i had a girlfriend and everything was going well so we moved in together in a flat we rented,things were ticking along nicely till i met an ex girlfriend who persuaded me to ditch my gf ,i did this and then had a relationship with this girl but it soon went sour and finished ,i moved on and eventually married a woman who made me happy ,but as time moved on it has become clear to me that we are just friends no more than that,on top of this i have just become friends on facebook with the first girl i lived with and she looks stunning and after chatting with her she is still a great laugh ,think i made a big mistake years ago,has anyone else married the wrong woman


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    #2
    maneno
    Registered Users Posts: 235 ✭✭maneno


    Yes,are you drunk?


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    Praetorian Saighdiuir
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,968 ✭✭✭✭Praetorian Saighdiuir


    Calm down Ross.

    Why don't you hook up with the Facbook chick.


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    hyperborean
    Closed Accounts Posts: 655 ✭✭✭hyperborean


    lost in cork wrote: »
    When i was 22 i had a girlfriend and everything was going well so we moved in together in a flat we rented,things were ticking along nicely till i met an ex girlfriend who persuaded me to ditch my gf ,i did this and then had a relationship with this girl but it soon went sour and finished ,i moved on and eventually married a woman who made me happy ,but as time moved on it has become clear to me that we are just friends no more than that,on top of this i have just become friends on facebook with the first girl i lived with and she looks stunning and after chatting with her she is still a great laugh ,think i made a big mistake years ago,has anyone else married the wrong woman

    Your willy is too small


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    Rayne Wooney
    Registered Users Posts: 14,136 ✭✭✭✭Rayne Wooney


    Was the second one a lesbian and are you Ross from Friends?


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    galwayrush
    Registered Users Posts: 12,815 ✭✭✭✭galwayrush


    This being a public forum and all that...:D

    Of course not, i married the best person in the world.:)


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    humbert
    Registered Users Posts: 5,238 ✭✭✭humbert


    If you're not planing to get a divorce I'd question the wisdom of befriending the ex.

    Not married and tales like that scare the bejesus out of me.


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    #8
    To Alcohol
    Registered Users Posts: 526 ✭✭✭To Alcohol


    Never Mind your username "lost in cork". I think your lost full stop.


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    blindsider
    Registered Users Posts: 2,018 ✭✭✭blindsider


    Faraway hills are greener......?


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    lost in cork
    Registered Users Posts: 133 ✭✭lost in cork


    Praetorian Saighdiuir wrote: »
    Calm down Ross.

    Why don't you hook up with the Facbook chick.
    im in ireland shes in england plus i now have kids to complicate the situation


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    Fr_Dougal
    Registered Users Posts: 9,167 ✭✭✭Fr_Dougal


    blindsider wrote: »
    Faraway hills are greener......?

    Or are they just small?


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    Royal Legend
    Registered Users Posts: 2,655 ✭✭✭Royal Legend


    lost in cork wrote: »
    im in ireland shes in england plus i now have kids to complicate the situation

    kids wont complicate it if you leave them at home when you are visiting your ex.


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    kinkygirl
    Registered Users Posts: 218 ✭✭kinkygirl


    lost in cork wrote: »
    When i was 22 i had a girlfriend and everything was going well so we moved in together in a flat we rented,things were ticking along nicely till i met an ex girlfriend who persuaded me to ditch my gf ,i did this and then had a relationship with this girl but it soon went sour and finished ,i moved on and eventually married a woman who made me happy ,but as time moved on it has become clear to me that we are just friends no more than that,on top of this i have just become friends on facebook with the first girl i lived with and she looks stunning and after chatting with her she is still a great laugh ,think i made a big mistake years ago,has anyone else married the wrong woman

    Charming, I just hope your original (now stunning) girlfriend tells you to sling your hook.


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    hullaballoo
    Administrators, Entertainment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,718 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭hullaballoo


    If you don't get with the hot one, you'll have to live with the regret for the rest of your life.

    If you get with the hot one, you'll have to live with the shame and regret and mortal terror of your WIFE finding out for the rest of your life.

    You're welcome.


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    Custardpi
    Registered Users Posts: 2,807 ✭✭✭Custardpi


    Having considered your situation for a good couple of minutes I reckon this dilemma is easily solved. Just suggest to your wife that you spice up your sex life with a threesome, eventually leading onto a full menage á trois. That way you get to keep your family unit intact & get to cop off with your old flame. It might sound crazy but knowing your wife as well as I do I reckon she'd totally go for it.


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    [Deleted User]
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    lost in cork wrote: »
    im in ireland shes in england plus i now have kids to complicate the situation


    Then you quit chatting up the ex and put everything you have into fixing your marriage for the sake of your kids. They deserve parents who put a decent shot into sticking together and working things out. Your wife deserves someone who isn't chasing after lost ex's before every avenue of rescue is explored.

    If you put the work in and you're still miserable, then leave for yourself, not for some relationship that you're looking at through hindsights rose-tinted glasses.


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    pablomakaveli
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,752 ✭✭✭pablomakaveli


    OP your just having whats called a "mid life crisis". Just buy yourself a Porsche you cant afford and everything will be alright again.


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    El Guapo!
    Registered Users Posts: 12,431 ✭✭✭✭El Guapo!


    Dude you're in the wrong forum to get proper advice. Try the Personal Issues section on Boards. I'm on the phone now so can't link to it but I'm sure a nice person will give you a link.
    Best of luck.


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    mattjack
    Registered Users Posts: 5,389 ✭✭✭mattjack


    lost in cork wrote: »
    im in ireland shes in england plus i now have kids to complicate the situation

    Whoa , you're in AH , you need to have a look around at some of the other posts and threads in AH , before you continue.

    On a more serious note , if any one's out and about in Dublin and see's my wife (blonde , in a blue dress ) can you ask her where she left the car.


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    hyperborean
    Closed Accounts Posts: 655 ✭✭✭hyperborean


    El Guapo! wrote: »
    Dude you're in the wrong forum to get proper advice. Try the Personal Issues section on Boards. I'm on the phone now so can't link to it but I'm sure a nice person will give you a link.
    Best of luck.

    Let me help

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=22


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    [Deleted User]
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    You reap what you sow.

    Sit down, shut up & wait till your kids grow up.

    (Alternatively post this in Soc > Personal Issues, where there'll be more serious, sensitive & better informed answers. After Hours is more for p*ss-taking than advice.)


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    mr_edge_to_you
    Registered Users Posts: 3,053 ✭✭✭mr_edge_to_you


    lost in cork wrote: »
    i now have kids to complicate the situation

    Pesky little kids....ruining all the fun

    Anyway, why don't ya get rid of the kids? No more complications. Sell them on Donedeal.


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    kneemos
    Registered Users Posts: 20,417 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    Don't know about you but I think your wife married the wrong man.


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    Three Seasons
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 548 ✭✭✭Three Seasons


    OP you need to stay with your wife and accept your miserable existence and sexual frustration. Cheer up though, eventually you will die and your suffering will be over.


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    #25
    snollup
    Registered Users Posts: 1,464 ✭✭✭snollup


    Hope for your sake Mrs lost in cork doesn't read this.

    Hope for our sake she does.


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    lost in cork
    Registered Users Posts: 133 ✭✭lost in cork


    Three Seasons wrote: »
    OP you need to stay with your wife and accept your miserable existence and sexual frustration. Cheer up though, eventually you will die and your suffering will be over.
    where did it say i had a miserable existence and that i was sexually frustrated ,fool


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    DanWall
    Registered Users Posts: 509 ✭✭✭DanWall


    Matjack: your car is at the airport


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    #28
    pragmatic1
    Registered Users Posts: 5,573 ✭✭✭pragmatic1


    Well since you now have kids, you're desires have to take a backseat. Life doesn't turn out the way we'd like a lot of the time.


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    #29
    cuana
    Registered Users Posts: 304 ✭✭cuana


    lost in cork wrote: »
    When i was 22 i had a girlfriend and everything was going well so we moved in together in a flat we rented,things were ticking along nicely till i met an ex girlfriend who persuaded me to ditch my gf ,i did this and then had a relationship with this girl but it soon went sour and finished ,i moved on and eventually married a woman who made me happy ,but as time moved on it has become clear to me that we are just friends no more than that,on top of this i have just become friends on facebook with the first girl i lived with and she looks stunning and after chatting with her she is still a great laugh ,think i made a big mistake years ago,has anyone else married the wrong woman

    Bloody Drama!! This is Sh!te, "the wrong woman" please you were obviously happy enough to marry her! with time and on your reflection you aren't happy now well grow a pair either work on the relationship or move on!

    lusting after some chick you knew years ago please.... its just opened up your eyes to the fact your unhappy


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    #30
    martic
    Registered Users Posts: 515 ✭✭✭martic


    Wait until the next time your wife mops the kitchen floor, walk up to her and kiss her passionately and tell her how much you love her then walk away slip on the wet floor and pretend to bang your head off the nearest press.
    When you come around act like she is a complete stranger that you have never met before and tell her you better go as you don't want to miss your flight back home to England.
    Fly over to England and meet the other girl, do all the dirty stuff until your fed up with her and then one day act like you have got your memory back and go back home to your wife. Hopefully she will still remember the passionate kiss you gave her before your accident and welcome you back with open arms and a dry floor.


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    Legs.Eleven
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,987 ✭✭✭Legs.Eleven


    She persuaded you to ditch the girl, move in together, get married and have kids?? Are you actually for real???


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