weird thing about this girl at work.

teednab-el

There is this girl, i know who works with me and she literally copies everything i do, she is beginning to freak me out. We have a history and eventhough we are friends now; im still dont like her. We werent friends for a while. I am in a relationship with another girl by the way before i start.
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Firstly last year i bought a car. Two months later she buys the same car only two years newer. Then i got things put into the car etc and she did the exact same.

I went on diet as i was slightly overweight and when she heard that she did the same. She now has the same stuff for lunch as me funny enough and has lost weight like myself. I stated focusing on my fitness and got myself in good shape training most of week. She now does the same. I then ran marathons and funny enough she started running marathons, i started cycling bought a bike and she did the same thing and now cycles too eventhough she never did before. I started swimming and few months after she started too eventhough she never did it before.

I then started doing cooking classes and she now is doing something similiar.

Finally im looking to buy a house with my partner and have been looking for a few months. Now she and her partner are doing the same.

Am i really that inspiring to this freak or what the hell is going on?

m5ex9oqjawdg2i

teednab-el wrote: »

There is this girl, i know who works with me and she literally copies everything i do, she is beginning to freak me out. We have a history and eventhough we are friends now; im still not gone in her. We werent in friends for a while. I am in a relationship with another girl by the way before i start.
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Firstly last year i bought a car. Two months later she buys the same car only two years newer. Then i got things put into the car etc and she did the exact same.

I went on diet as i was slightly overweight and when she heard that she did the same. She now has the same stuff for lunch as me funny enough and has lost weight like myself. I stated focusing on my fitness and got myself in good shape training most of week. She now does the same. I then ran marathons and funny enough she started running marathons, i started cycling bought a bikeband she did the same thingband now cycles too eventhough she never did before. I started swimming and few months after she started too eventhough she never did it before.

I then started doing cooking classes and she now is doing somethibg similiar

Finally im looking to buy a house with my partner and have been looking for a few months. Now she and her partner are doing the same.

Am i really that inspiring to this freak or what the hell is going on?

I got this far... what???

Actually, none of your sense makes any sentences.

But I would suggest getting in her first. Once you have gone in her you should start to see things settle down.

I hope this helps.

teednab-el

teednab-el wrote: »

We have a history and eventhough we are friends now

you answered your own question

did you break up with her

Pilotdude5

*Plot twist: OP is schizophrenic

Duckworth_Luas

Have your arm amputated, if she does the same you've confirmation she's a wierdo!

teednab-el

[Deleted User] wrote: »

you answered your own question

did you break up with her

Its work related. No relationship with her.

folan

Pilotdude5 wrote: »

*Plot twist: OP is schizophrenic

dude, totally blew my mind!

Outkast_IRE

Its time for an extreme measure OP.

Cut off the thumb on your left hand and she does she copy you.

stoneill

Is it a mirror?

The Backwards Man

Normal person does what normal people normally do. What's the problem?

teednab-el

The Backwards Man wrote: »

Normal person does what normal people normally do. What's the problem?

Would you not find it strange if someone you know well starts doing the exact same things as you that it becomes noticable?

nocoverart

What have I walked on in?

3DataModem

Get a henna tattoo, and tell her it's real.

syklops

You and her do the same job so presumably are on similar salaries, and are at similar stages in your life. Alot of my friends are on a health kick at the moment, alot of them are riding bicycles and swimming and learning to cook properly.

The only true coincidence is she bought the same car as you. I think you are looking for something that isn't there to be honest.

kfallon

So we can surely expect a "weird thing about this guy at work" thread from her in the next few minutes?

castletownman

Jump off a bridge

Test the Irish mammy's adage!

The Backwards Man

teednab-el wrote: »

Would you not find it strange if someone you know well starts doing the exact same things as you that it becomes noticable?

If they are everyday mundane things that people usually do, then no.

If anything it seems like she sees you as some kind of role model, which is kind of unusual as you sound like bit of a boring bastard to me.:P:pac:

fatknacker

Start telling her you do some mad weird **** like free diving while being ayten out by dolphins and see if she follows suit.

shopaholic01

Janessa Rapping Poet wrote: »

I got this far... what???

Actually, none of your sense makes any sentences.

But I would suggest getting in her first. Once you have gone in her you should start to see things settle down.

I hope this helps.

It's obvious - he pulled out.

teednab-el

Outkast_IRE wrote: »

Its time for an extreme measure OP.

Cut off the thumb on your left hand and she does she copy you.

Maybe if i jump off a cliff she might follow but i will never know that way.

biko

teednab-el wrote: »

Firstly last year i bought a car. Two months later she buys the same car only two years newer. Then i got things put into the car etc and she did the exact same.

Mimicry is the most sincere form of flattery. She likes your style.

teednab-el

kfallon wrote: »

So we can surely expect a "weird thing about this guy at work" thread from her in the next few minutes?

Its quite possible.

Lando Griffin

What the.
Give me a good public vs private sector thread anyday than this gobildy gook.

Jaxxy

Stop talking about the minutiae of your life in work. If you're going to the gym in the evening just go, the office doesn't need to know. If this woman emulating you is that annoying then stop discussing your personal plans to get fit, your new diet and what that entails and your cookery aspirations.

Aside from that I don't see the problem other than it being a bit weird. Unless of course you think this behaviour could potentially evolve into a scenario where she eventually kills you and takes your place. That would definitely be problematic.

shopaholic01

Lando Griffin wrote: »

What the.
Give me a good public vs private sector thread anyday than this gobildy gook.

How's the knee?

Chuck Stone

“What would Tyler Durden do?”

Lando Griffin

shopaholic01 wrote: »

How's the knee?

Grand. The scab fell off in the bed the other night so the new skin is very tender.

teednab-el

Lando Griffin wrote: »

What the.
Give me a good public vs private sector thread anyday than this gobildy gook.

Hope your knee isnt bothering you too badly.

Thud

OP you should go to work topless

Hardonraging

Pilotdude5 wrote: »

*Plot twist: OP is schizophrenic

M night shyamalan ... in the making ..

teednab-el

Thud wrote: »

OP you should go to work topless

She has a fine pair but no.

kfallon

shopaholic01 wrote: »

How's the gee?

Lando Griffin wrote: »

Grand. The scab fell off in the bed the other night so the new skin is very tender.

:eek:

0ph0rce0

You still love her, Its you that has an obsession here.

Cee-Jay-Cee

Tell her you've started doing all this new stuff and then don't do it!
Tell her you do charity work a few evenings a week and you volunteer at the local dog pound on Saturday morning. Tell her you joined the church choir and are taking singing lessons. Basically have her doing so much activities that she burns herself out and gives up. That'll show the crazy bitch.

teednab-el

0ph0rce0 wrote: »

You still love her, Its you that has an obsession here.

No definately not. I was never in love with her day one. She works with me , Im the one doing new activities not her. I have yet to copy her which i dont intend doing. A pilot is my next aim. It wont be long before there will be a hawk following me up the skies.

Boo2112

Op are you male or female? If you're a chick you should buy a wig and cut it so it looks completely stupid and wear it in front of her and tell her you love it. If she doesn't cut hers the same its a figment of your imagination. If she does then congrats, you've just ruined her life

davet82

masturbate wildly at your desk in work and wait and see what she does, it will confirm if she is in fact a big copy cat

sfwcork

Does this "Person" only appear when your alone ?

corktina

get a Penisectomy, see if she copies you

antodeco

Itd be gas if it was just a mirror you were looking into

teednab-el

corktina wrote: »

get a Penisectomy, see if she copies you

She wouldnt have the "balls" for that.

Lawrence1895

Start supporting Shels and come down to Tolka next Friday.

If she comes with you, well done, two more visitors in Tolka, a boost attendance wise is always good for the club

spodoinkle

Is the car a golf by any chance?

SB2013

I wonder if you got a sex change would she do the same or would she go gay?

ScumLord

It must be awful to be liked.

corktina

Lars1916 wrote: »

Start supporting Shels and come down to Tolka next Friday.

If she comes with you, well done, two more visitors in Tolka, a boost attendance wise is always good for the club

double the crowd! Score!

teednab-el

spodoinkle wrote: »

Is the car a golf by any chance?

No.

why?

teednab-el

ScumLord wrote: »

It must be awful to be liked.

Im beginning to feel like an inspiration to this one.

meath4sam

When u get to work parallel park i bet she won't be able to copy you. Then in the office take your lad out and spin it round using your hips and shout helicopter and if she is able to do that I'd be worried.

Lawrence1895

corktina wrote: »

double the crowd! Score!

Please don't forget the away supporters, the attendance will reach unexpected highs

Auldloon

If you'd like a right laugh fake your own death.