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Fat acceptance?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,458 ✭✭✭chops018


    Why did I click that link. I almost vomited. Also it's ironic the hideousness of those photo's yet they feel the need to blur they're yoohoo's.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    Well after looking at those photos I now feel incredibly sexy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,766 ✭✭✭juan.kerr


    Sickening.

    Fat acceptance is just more Political Correctness gone mad.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 142 ✭✭theT


    Really shouldnt have looked at that so soon after lunch.....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭nocoverart


    I'd tap it :eek:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,453 ✭✭✭Shenshen


    davet82 wrote: »
    http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/features/4707120/Photographers-uses-obese-models-for-new-collection.html#ixzz2FgtRI1sn

    i don't think we should be encouraging people to accept obesity, any opinions?



    *Warning: Article contains nudity to those easily offended btw*

    I know I'll be shouted out of this thread for saying it, but we should encourage people to like themselves.
    Once we've accomplished that, we should help those who want to change themselves.

    At the end of the day, people will always be different, and will always like different things.
    I'm at work and don't think I should click your link right now, but I am fat myself.
    I'm losing weight, I've lost 20 kg over the last year and am continuing on, but I do NOT want to become skinny either, just because the ITG mentality would not accept me otherwise.

    I like chubby people. I married a chubby man, and I plan on remaining chubby myself.
    I don't need "encouragement" for that from anyone, but I can do without the sanctimonious "I've only got your best interest at heart" condescension, thank you very much.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,265 ✭✭✭youtube!


    These women apart from being horrendously overweight are also so dam sad looking, I feel sorry for them,if they believe in this as a cause they are surely only deluding themselves,certainly not fooling anyone else. They must know they need serious psychological help.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,911 ✭✭✭Zombienosh


    BRING ME SOLO AND THE WOOKIE.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,766 ✭✭✭juan.kerr


    nocoverart wrote: »
    I'd tap it :eek:

    'It' being the operative word here. Because I'm no seeing a human there. An elephant maybe, but not a human.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,753 ✭✭✭davet82


    Shenshen wrote: »
    I know I'll be shouted out of this thread for saying it, but we should encourage people to like themselves.
    Once we've accomplished that, we should help those who want to change themselves.

    At the end of the day, people will always be different, and will always like different things.
    I'm at work and don't think I should click your link right now, but I am fat myself.
    I'm losing weight, I've lost 20 kg over the last year and am continuing on, but I do NOT want to become skinny either, just because the ITG mentality would not accept me otherwise.

    I like chubby people. I married a chubby man, and I plan on remaining chubby myself.
    I don't need "encouragement" for that from anyone, but I can do without the sanctimonious "I've only got your best interest at heart" condescension, thank you very much.

    I'm a smoker, its apart of who I am now but I shouldn't be encouraged to accept it but maybe you are right about criticising it...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    Shenshen wrote: »

    I know I'll be shouted out of this thread for saying it, but we should encourage people to like themselves.
    Once we've accomplished that, we should help those who want to change themselves.

    At the end of the day, people will always be different, and will always like different things.
    I'm at work and don't think I should click your link right now, but I am fat myself.
    I'm losing weight, I've lost 20 kg over the last year and am continuing on, but I do NOT want to become skinny either, just because the ITG mentality would not accept me otherwise.

    I like chubby people. I married a chubby man, and I plan on remaining chubby myself.
    I don't need "encouragement" for that from anyone, but I can do without the sanctimonious "I've only got your best interest at heart" condescension, thank you very much.

    I agree with a lot of what you say, but you need to click the link. These women are unhealthy and sad looking.

    This should never be seen as acceptable. It's absolutely horrific. I'm no skinny minny but I'm happy with my body, I'm healthy and I also like a man with a bit of extra weight.

    You could sit on these women's hips they are that grotesquely fat.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,453 ✭✭✭Shenshen


    davet82 wrote: »
    I'm a smoker, its apart of who I am now but I shouldn't be encouraged to accept it but maybe you are right about critising it...

    Think about it for just 1 second. Will any amount of criticism, well-meaning or otherwise, do anything to help you stop smoking? Would it make you want to stop?

    I've helped my mother and my brother when they decided to give it up, but I'm leaving my other brother who is still smoking well alone. Nagging and heckling and bugging and pocking is not going to help, it's going to aggravate the problem.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,028 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    You would need a miners lamp and a canary to go down on them


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,199 ✭✭✭Shryke


    A symptom of a sick society.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,753 ✭✭✭davet82


    Shenshen wrote: »
    Think about it for just 1 second. Will any amount of criticism, well-meaning or otherwise, do anything to help you stop smoking? Would it make you want to stop?

    I've helped my mother and my brother when they decided to give it up, but I'm leaving my other brother who is still smoking well alone. Nagging and heckling and bugging and pocking is not going to help, it's going to aggravate the problem.

    I agree totally but fat (obesity) acceptance days or pro smoking propaganda shouldn't be encouraged either is my point.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,766 ✭✭✭juan.kerr


    You would need a miners lamp and a canary to go down on them

    This would make a great National Lottery advert...what would I do for a billion euros?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,453 ✭✭✭Shenshen


    I agree with a lot of what you say, but you need to click the link. These women are unhealthy and sad looking.

    This should never be seen as acceptable. It's absolutely horrific. I'm no skinny minny but I'm happy with my body, I'm healthy and I also like a man with a bit of extra weight.

    You could sit on these women's hips they are that grotesquely fat.

    I believe you, without seeing it (I might check it when I get home later).
    But while this is by no means the first thread on the topic of body fat, the general attitude seems to be that these people ought to be punished by ridicule, additional taxes, and heckling and abuse.

    If you had posted a pro-ana website showing skeletal people aiming to be sexy, nobody here would hilariously claim to just have thrown up their lunch over their keyboard. They would be pitied, society and fashion would be blamed, and psychotherapy would be suggested.

    But hey, those people are skinny, not fat.

    And it's this two-facedness that is starting to seriously annoy me.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,061 ✭✭✭keith16


    juan.kerr wrote: »
    This would make a great National Lottery advert...what would I do for a billion euros?

    Read the sun....*shuderrs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 659 ✭✭✭HowAreWe




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    Shenshen wrote: »

    I believe you, without seeing it (I might check it when I get home later).
    But while this is by no means the first thread on the topic of body fat, the general attitude seems to be that these people ought to be punished by ridicule, additional taxes, and heckling and abuse.

    If you had posted a pro-ana website showing skeletal people aiming to be sexy, nobody here would hilariously claim to just have thrown up their lunch over their keyboard. They would be pitied, society and fashion would be blamed, and psychotherapy would be suggested.

    But hey, those people are skinny, not fat.

    And it's this two-facedness that is starting to seriously annoy me.

    They can be as fat as they want, but seeing them naked and clearly looking sad isn't nice.
    I don't want to hate on any fat person, but there comes a point where I just pity them and think, Jesus that's no life. EVery aspect of their lives must be a struggle. If they don't help themselves and die because of it, that's their choice.

    In all honesty, if one of those women was a close friend I'd tell them to stop embarrassing themselves, put their clothes on and do something about it.It won't happen over night, but even losing a few stone will make a huge difference to the strain on their heart, backs and legs.
    Many won't agree with me I'm sure.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,199 ✭✭✭Shryke


    Shenshen wrote: »

    I believe you, without seeing it (I might check it when I get home later).
    But while this is by no means the first thread on the topic of body fat, the general attitude seems to be that these people ought to be punished by ridicule, additional taxes, and heckling and abuse.

    If you had posted a pro-ana website showing skeletal people aiming to be sexy, nobody here would hilariously claim to just have thrown up their lunch over their keyboard. They would be pitied, society and fashion would be blamed, and psychotherapy would be suggested.

    But hey, those people are skinny, not fat.

    And it's this two-facedness that is starting to seriously annoy me.

    Yes they would be ridiculed. You're not new here?
    Someone already suggested these women need psychological help.
    Take a look at the pictures before your venture too much into this. There's nothing acceptable about it.

    Personally I notice less acceptance of smoking for example. The world is more health conscious in lots of ways and I think it's a good thing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 787 ✭✭✭folamh


    I don't think fat acceptance contributes to health problems, at least not in the public sphere. All else being equal, it might be a health concern. However all else is not equal: The norm in the media is to represent the other end of the spectrum. Skinny is good and desirable, fat is not. This fixation our society has with losing weight probably has something to do with why these obese women develop unhealthy relationships with food in the first place. I think deconstructing this norm is a far better use of time than criticizing overweight models. At least they contribute to diversity and provide an alternative.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭nocoverart


    Munster should buy her for their scrum


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,766 ✭✭✭juan.kerr


    nocoverart wrote: »
    Munster should buy her for their scrum

    Assuming the rest of the team don't mind carrying her on and off the pitch.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,052 ✭✭✭Matt_Trakker


    *puts down pizza menu
    *puts on coat to go to shop and buy salad-y crap yummy nutritous grub instead


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,766 ✭✭✭juan.kerr


    nocoverart wrote: »
    Munster should buy her for their scrum

    Better yet, stick he in goal for Ireland. There's no way Germany could get 6 past her.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,628 ✭✭✭barry181091


    Ah jesus, there is fat acceptance and fat acceptance. That is taking it wayy overboard, that woman is a crazy weight!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,216 ✭✭✭✭listermint


    Shenshen wrote: »
    I know I'll be shouted out of this thread for saying it, but we should encourage people to like themselves.
    Once we've accomplished that, we should help those who want to change themselves.

    At the end of the day, people will always be different, and will always like different things.
    I'm at work and don't think I should click your link right now, but I am fat myself.
    I'm losing weight, I've lost 20 kg over the last year and am continuing on, but I do NOT want to become skinny either, just because the ITG mentality would not accept me otherwise.

    I like chubby people. I married a chubby man, and I plan on remaining chubby myself.
    I don't need "encouragement" for that from anyone, but I can do without the sanctimonious "I've only got your best interest at heart" condescension, thank you very much.

    I think your confusing being grosely obese to being large.

    The people in the link have gone past the unhealthy stage and far into the very early death stage.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,647 ✭✭✭thenightrider


    Give me a bag of flour i cant find the wet spot


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭nocoverart


    juan.kerr wrote: »
    Assuming the rest of the team don't mind carrying her on and off the pitch.

    They could invest in a couple of cranes and she'd be grand.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,962 ✭✭✭✭dark crystal


    Ooh another 'let's ridicule the fatties' thread! Great.

    Now could you please take down those disgusting pictures of the non-human beasts and post up some nice ones of 6' tall women with emaciated faces, non-existent breasts and plenty of bones jutting out through their skin instead please?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,028 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    Ooh another 'let's ridicule the fatties' thread! Great.

    Now could you please take down those disgusting pictures of the non-human beasts and post up some nice ones of 6' tall women with emaciated faces, non-existent breasts and plenty of bones jutting out through their skin instead please?

    there is a happy medium


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    Ooh another 'let's ridicule the fatties' thread! Great.

    Now could you please take down those disgusting pictures of the non-human beasts and post up some nice ones of 6' tall women with emaciated faces, non-existent breasts and plenty of bones jutting out through their skin instead please?

    Yeah, because It's clearly one or the other...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,766 ✭✭✭juan.kerr


    Ooh another 'let's ridicule the fatties' thread! Great.

    Now could you please take down those disgusting pictures of the non-human beasts and post up some nice ones of 6' tall women with emaciated faces, non-existent breasts and plenty of bones jutting out through their skin instead please?

    Just goes to show, there's always someone willing to defend the indefensible.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    nocoverart wrote: »
    I'd tap it :eek:

    Pick a flap and fûck?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,199 ✭✭✭Shryke


    Ooh another 'let's ridicule the fatties' thread! Great.

    Now could you please take down those disgusting pictures of the non-human beasts and post up some nice ones of 6' tall women with emaciated faces, non-existent breasts and plenty of bones jutting out through their skin instead please?

    You've got some sick fetishes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,968 ✭✭✭✭Praetorian Saighdiuir


    That link was my apocolypse!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,962 ✭✭✭✭dark crystal


    there is a happy medium

    Absolutely. In a perfect world, everyone would be a healthy weight.

    However, I've yet to see a thread created simply to ridicule and make jokes at the expense of size 0 women, who are also promoting an unhealthy ideal.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,593 ✭✭✭theteal




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,028 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    Absolutely. In a perfect world, everyone would be a healthy weight.

    However, I've yet to see a thread created simply to ridicule and make jokes at the expense of size 0 women, who are also promoting an unhealthy ideal.

    I find both ends of the scale disgusting


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,962 ✭✭✭✭dark crystal


    juan.kerr wrote: »
    Just goes to show, there's always someone willing to defend the indefensible.

    Not defending anything and this thread also goes to show there's always people who never get tired of sniggering at the same tired old targets of derision.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,216 ✭✭✭✭listermint


    Absolutely. In a perfect world, everyone would be a healthy weight.

    However, I've yet to see a thread created simply to ridicule and make jokes at the expense of size 0 women, who are also promoting an unhealthy ideal.

    Id open it no problem, Why dont you ?


    People are different but when you go to extremes (either end of that spectrum) its not right and its indefensible to allow people to believe it to be 'ok' or to lead a normal life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,418 ✭✭✭Icyseanfitz


    i hesitated before going onto that link.....i should have hesitated longer FFS :mad:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old



    I find both ends of the scale disgusting

    Ditto. I used to be very skinny, then got very fat. NOw I'm not skinny but I'm not fat either, very happy with my weight now and feel sexier than when I was skinny.

    Too skinny is worse in my eyes, It's vile. Especially the emaciated face...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,199 ✭✭✭Shryke


    Absolutely. In a perfect world, everyone would be a healthy weight.

    However, I've yet to see a thread created simply to ridicule and make jokes at the expense of size 0 women, who are also promoting an unhealthy ideal.

    That has no bearing on this. None. Two separate health issues. Go make a thread yourself on size 0 women if you like (it's not difficult).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    There's a recent trend in hollywood movies to make fat people the fun lovable characters. Especially in women's movies like Bridesmaids and Pitch Perfect.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    smash wrote: »
    There's a recent trend in hollywood movies to make fat people the fun lovable characters. Especially in women's movies like Bridesmaids and Pitch Perfect.

    And shallow Hal...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,753 ✭✭✭davet82


    Ooh another 'let's ridicule the fatties' thread! Great.

    Now could you please take down those disgusting pictures of the non-human beasts and post up some nice ones of 6' tall women with emaciated faces, non-existent breasts and plenty of bones jutting out through their skin instead please?

    these people aren't fat they are dangerously obese, the point of the thread is that we shouldn't encourage it or condon it as it sets a bad example not to poke fun.

    if it had of been the opposite way around and it was anorexics posing and an acceptance of skinny (dangerously under weight) gallery it would get the same reaction i reckon


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda



    Ditto. I used to be very skinny, then got very fat. NOw I'm not skinny but I'm not fat either, very happy with my weight now and feel sexier than when I was skinny.

    Too skinny is worse in my eyes, It's vile. Especially the emaciated face...

    So this is why you hate cuddles? You associate cuddles with being over weight

    /Dr Panda


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