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Excuses to Touch Her?

  • 24-11-2012 2:58pm
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    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 207 ✭✭


    When making advances on a female, what excuses to touch her can you guys think of.. as opposed to just getting it wrong and making it look obvious, I don't want to get an awkward laugh whereby she may as well be saying, "I can see what you're trying to do". Any ways you can touch her while making it look natural.

    Does anyone out there have any techniques I can use to get in her face. Like for example if we both laughed at the same joke I could use it as an excuse to get close to her. Any examples please??? Snide jokes welcome too


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,121 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    lolwut

    I dunno... pretend there's a spider on her face? :/


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 460 ✭✭murraykil


    Just touch her!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,572 ✭✭✭msg11


    Just lunge no need to excuses..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,516 ✭✭✭RedXIV


    Push her over and then help her up


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,324 ✭✭✭BillyMitchel


    Dafuq????


    If you dont mind me asking how old are you and how long do you know this girl??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,299 ✭✭✭hairyprincess


    msg11 wrote: »
    Just lunge no need to excuses..

    There are guys who do this, believe it or not :confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,136 ✭✭✭✭Rayne Wooney


    When making advances on a female, what excuses to touch her can you guys think of.. as opposed to just getting it wrong and making it look obvious, I don't want to get an awkward laugh whereby she may as well be saying, "I can see what you're trying to do". Any ways you can touch her while making it look natural.

    Does anyone out there have any techniques I can use to get in her pants. Like for example if we both laughed at the same joke. Any examples please???

    Fyp


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 207 ✭✭StrugglingSoul


    murraykil wrote: »
    Just touch her!

    Sometimes it can be that simple..


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 207 ✭✭StrugglingSoul


    Dafuq????


    If you dont mind me asking how old are you and how long do you know this girl??

    3 weeks, but dont see each other that often


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,704 ✭✭✭squod


    Any examples please???

    Judo throw. Can't beat it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    Chucken wrote: »

    Seriously, you might get more help here ^^^^^^


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,641 ✭✭✭Teyla Emmagan


    I see you being done for assault in the very near future OP.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 555 ✭✭✭Hippies!


    There are guys who do this, believe it or not :confused:

    Of course? how else would it be done? :confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,798 ✭✭✭Local-womanizer


    Strange........

    Tips on how to grope a women....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    RedXIV wrote: »
    Push her over and then help her up

    Pulling her pigtails also! :cool:

    Girls love that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 734 ✭✭✭Tom_Cruise


    Prentend you spot a sniper in a near by building and throw her to the ground and jump on top of her to protect her from the bullet


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,009 ✭✭✭✭wnolan1992


    I'm going to wager that the OP is single...

    This is all kinds of creepy...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    Dafuq????


    If you dont mind me asking how old are you and how long do you know this girl??

    Im guessing he's about 15/16


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 207 ✭✭StrugglingSoul


    Strange........

    Tips on how to grope a women....

    I didn't mean touch her ass. Get your mind out of the gutter


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,798 ✭✭✭Local-womanizer



    I didn't mean touch her ass. Get your mind out of the gutter

    Sorry, didnt realise groping was restricted to ass/boobs....

    Go with the aul faithful and sniff her hair!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 207 ✭✭StrugglingSoul


    wnolan1992 wrote: »
    I'm going to wager that the OP is single...

    This is all kinds of creepy...

    It is an innocent crush on a girl for Heaven's sake. Yes I'm single and when I say touch, I don't mean grabbing her ass!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 207 ✭✭StrugglingSoul


    Chucken wrote: »
    Im guessing he's about 15/16

    22


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,219 ✭✭✭woodoo


    Make your eyes cross eyed and drool a bit then reach out and touch her breast she will think that is hilarious.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 207 ✭✭StrugglingSoul


    woodoo wrote: »
    Make your eyes cross eyed and drool a bit then reach out and touch her breast she will think that is hilarious.

    lol


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,330 ✭✭✭Gran Hermano


    / wanders back out of Junior Cert forum.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 460 ✭✭murraykil


    Sometimes it can be that simple..

    It is that simple. Just touch her arm or something, even in mid-conversation, simply touch her. She already has an idea on whether she wants you to touch her so. Just do it and don't break a sweat, just continue talking. Keep an eye for her reaction. If she withdraws a little, likely it means it made her uncomfortable, if her face lights up, likely it means she liked it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    22

    No you're not :p


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 207 ✭✭StrugglingSoul


    Because I haven't seen her in so long, I have so much pent up energy. The next time I see her I mightn't be able to refrain from grabbing her and lifting her off the ground in front of everyone!! Oh, can't wait to see what happens


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,456 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    OP, you wait for them to touch you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,009 ✭✭✭✭wnolan1992


    Because I haven't seen her in so long, I have so much pent up energy. The next time I see her I mightn't be able to refrain from grabbing her and lifting her off the ground in front of everyone!! Oh, can't wait to see what happens

    While you're at it, throw her over your shoulder and shout: "TIME FOR SNOO SNOO!"

    Chicks love that. :cool:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,547 ✭✭✭Agricola


    Pull her hair, slap her in the mouth a little and spit in her face......

    I need to stop watchin this stuff!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,078 ✭✭✭onemorechance


    Because I haven't seen her in so long, I have so much pent up energy. The next time I see her I mightn't be able to refrain from grabbing her and lifting her off the ground in front of everyone!! Oh, can't wait to see what happens

    First thing you need to do is relax! Else she won't be relaxed and you won't get near enough to touch her, or if you do, likely she'll touch you back with a slap!

    Take some lessons from these guys! Calm down!



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 207 ✭✭StrugglingSoul


    Confab wrote: »
    OP, you wait for them to touch you.

    Who's "they"?????????????????


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,078 ✭✭✭onemorechance


    Who's "they"?????????????????

    Don't wait, else someone else will take her! :pac:


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 207 ✭✭StrugglingSoul


    wnolan1992 wrote: »
    While you're at it, throw her over your shoulder and shout: "TIME FOR SNOO SNOO!"

    Chicks love that. :cool:

    What does SNOO SNOO mean and how do you pronounce it?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    I just rub my belly up against them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,389 ✭✭✭mattjack


    What does SNOO SNOO mean and how do you pronounce it?

    Snoo Snoo means to make artificial snow from aero board.Its a kind of seasonal thing round these parts.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 207 ✭✭StrugglingSoul


    Don't wait, else someone else will take her! :pac:

    The others in the college classes seem to have accepted they can't have her and wouldn't dare do something not expected of them. Besides, they're too busy focusing on their studies. There is however one guy who I see talking to her on occasion which gets me slightly worried


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,798 ✭✭✭✭hatrickpatrick


    OP, you're thinking about this WAY too much.
    If it's not natural she won't buy it. Would you? If she seems into you just subtly put an arm around her after a while or something, it doesn't have to be the massively big deal you're making it out to me :rolleyes:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,455 ✭✭✭✭Monty Burnz


    Confab wrote: »
    OP, you wait for them to touch you.
    If you causally leave your todger hanging out while chatting, she might tuck it away for you. Then you nail* HER for sexual assault.

    *legal sense


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,078 ✭✭✭onemorechance


    The others in the college classes seem to have accepted they can't have her and wouldn't dare do something not expected of them. Besides, they're too busy focusing on their studies. There is however one guy who I see talking to her on occasion which gets me slightly worried

    There is a lot more than one guy interested in her. Possibly dozens of guys will see her every day and be interested to varying degrees. Don't ever think you have some exclusive rights to a girl that you can choose to exercise at any point in the future you may find you have enough courage. Every day you wait, is one day more where someone else can swoop in and snap her up!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,933 ✭✭✭holystungun9


    Do some role play and ask her to pretend she is a teddy bear in one of those amusement arcade things where you try to pick up a teddy or prize by moving the pincer /claw to get it. You can be the pincer thing and pick her with your knob and fingers (carefully located of course).

    Your welcome.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,078 ✭✭✭onemorechance


    OP, you're thinking about this WAY too much.
    If it's not natural she won't buy it. Would you? If she seems into you just subtly put an arm around her after a while or something, it doesn't have to be the massively big deal you're making it out to me :rolleyes:

    I agree with the first part, he is over-thinking it.

    I don't agree with the second part; each situation is unique and you should go with the flow, but I think putting your arm around her is too much as a first move or touch. It's the act of a close friend(zone) or boyfriend. OP doesn't want friendzone and isn't a boyfriend.

    I think he needs to slowly work up with a quick touch at first, seems casual, lets both people gauge the situation.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,464 ✭✭✭Celly Smunt


    you have a hair in your snatch,let me get that for you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,084 ✭✭✭oppenheimer1


    Handshake? A fairly standard form of greeting I would have thought, that solves your problem.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,080 ✭✭✭✭Maximus Alexander


    What you do is wait for her to fall asleep. Then rub you're knob all over her face.

    What? You're a pervert, right?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,255 ✭✭✭✭Esoteric_


    Instead of just making an 'excuse' to touch the person, why not just do it and make it obvious? The guys I've dated all were pretty clear and deliberate in putting their arm around me, holding my hand or tucking my hair behind my ear or whatever else. I wouldn't even notice if someone was as subtle as you seem to want to be. :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71,802 ✭✭✭✭Ted_YNWA


    awaiting breaking news of an assualt charge where the defence is "the people on Boards said it was ok to do this


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,572 ✭✭✭✭brummytom


    The others in the college classes seem to have accepted they can't have her and wouldn't dare do something not expected of them. Besides, they're too busy focusing on their studies. There is however one guy who I see talking to her on occasion which gets me slightly worried

    Haha, bollocks. Just go for it, don't make excuses. If you think you've got 'competition' then that should be an incentive!

    (By go for it, I don't mean grope her tits)


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