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  • #32
    normal lad
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37 ✭normal lad


    Thanks a mil for the replies..

    I feel somewhat better now, I had my first night out tonight where some mates know I'm gay and to be honest I felt much more relaxed and at ease in comparison to before. What surprised me is that absolutely nothing has changed what so ever in relation to banter etc. I still have more mates to tell, nearly told a girl today in the canteen, but that will happen eventually.

    I have a long way to go yet but have started the ball rolling, I just hope everything works put the way I want it to....planing on telling the rest of the lads soon enough but I'm still nervous as hell about that prospect.

    I even scored some girl tonight that I met on the way into the club which probably confused the hell out of the two I confided in but that's just me I guess...I'm defo gay, not Bi, so I probably should lay of shifting girls..but to be honest it can be great fun:P

    I'm not 100 percent content and I still wish to fu*k I were straight but I have to move on. I don't know what life has in store for me as I finally embrace who I am. I think meeting other gay guys would be a massive boost to my confidence but that can be difficult.
    So far, gaydar is my only point of contact which in itself can be a bit depressing.. Anyways I'll keep going as best I can.


  • #33
    floggg
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    Are you in Dublin? The Dublin Devils are looking for new players, even if just for the social kick abouts on Sarurday. No footballing ability required!

    If not the Devils then try the Warriors (rugby), front runners (running), wet n wild (general outdoor activity) and there's squash and tennis as well.

    I'm sure there are loads of non-sporting groups too (just more of my type of thing).

    Try those - you'll only end up with dates or hook-ups on places like gaydar, but you could probably use a few gay friends as much as anything else.


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