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Why do bottoms outnumber tops?
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Great thread guys,
I have been away and just catching up!
I voted versatile, I love doing it both ways. In my experience over the years, it seems more lads prefer to be a bottom than a top. For me I like having the choice of being both a bottom or a top. When I met my bf, he had never topped a guy before and had very little confidence to be a top. Over time I built his confidence up and now it has got to a stage where he just loves being a top!! Didn't want that to happen!
The best is when we both give it a shot a topping each other!
1ZRed, you say you don't like the idea of being f##ked, I was exactly the same at your age. However with some experience, I started experimenting and found it quite enjoyable! A gay mate of mine (who I never "thought" as being a bottom) told me that it was the most amazing feeling he had, so I gave it a shot, and never looked back. But it is still great to be a top as well. I would not like to be with someone who is stuck one way only.
Have fun, and most importantly be safe!
BM
I think it's time I got broken in but I'm reluctant. I know I should bottom a few times so I can be a better top and not to be so greedy! It's just that more than the mindset, I hate the feeling. Like it's not overly painful but not pleasurable in anyway at all to me. One guy did find my prostate and it wasn't anything special at all so I thought "this is what all the hype is about?" although I have to admitt I'm getting very curious about bottoming so I won't rule it out altogether.
When I get a boyfriend and he wants to top I'll give it up. Untill then though, I'm in no rush and I'm not letting some hook up take a shot at me either. I know, a pure woman's mentality!:cool:
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bodice ripper wrote: »Well, that is fairly offensive, to be honest.
it's pretty close to those who say gay sex isn't real sex at all.
No I didn't think so. I meant that two men could be naturally versatile and switch roles from penetrating to being penetrated.
That's exclusive to a gay relationship in comparison to a straight one without the need for a strap on obviously. And it's a more natural and common dynamic for two gay men in comparison to straight couples.
I never implied or meant to imply that anything else wasn't real sex. And the "not as good as the real thing" is a comment I always hear from guys and that's what I'm talking about in this context, for gay/bi men only.
No offence to lesbians or straight guys getting penetrated that way, I didn't mean it that way if that's how it came across
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About people saying I should be versatile, hit up with a guy recently (no judgement) who was a pure bottom (again, very masculine) and actually got turned off when we were texting before hand and he thought I was vers. And this is his quote "They become too greedy! They can rot in hell for all I care for! Lol"
And you guys where saying I should become vers!
He says he likes his tops to be tops, as in the stereotype which I think I am for him.
He really loved the fact that I've never been topped and I'm very dominant so the whole dom/sub thing was going on plus I never have met a guy so submissive in my life! (so far anyway) it was a turn off but a huge turn on at the same time. Like, it was strange/confusing but really hot?
Anyway, back on track! I think I was right about the whole bottom to top imbalance but I'm thinking this means that for the vers guys that like to do it both ways, they slightly prefer to bottom rather than top because it's just more pleasurable? Bare in mind on the poll I said "versatile to varying degrees" so I'm not talking pure 50/50 and there's a bit of leeway on either side.
Not trying to make assumptions but that's what I'm getting from my experience at least!0 -
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coolperson05 wrote: »Am I the only one who's surprised that there are 64 gay guys viewing this forum? (Due to the responses give above in the poll - provided they're all accurate) That's very interesting!
You gotta love the closeted guys, they love the odd anonymous poll;)
Before I did it I knew how it would play out so I think it is pretty accurate. What I found interesting was how there are more bottoms than tops and so you could translate that into the versatile statistic and roughly see who takes the role most often but still stay and consider themselves versatile. (like versatile bottoms and versatile tops which aren't in the poll)
Obviously it seems as though bottoming has a substantial appeal over topping which I find interesting. Got to see what all the fuss is about one of the days;)0 -
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I know in reality most guys are versatile but so so many guys I've been with are very masculine and muscular but are bottoms and if they are vers or tops they submit to me so I'm kind of starting to doubt the whole vers thing.
I'm a top and really dislike the feeling of anything up there (I'm starting to think I have no prostrate!:p) but I don't understand what's the huge appeal in taking it?
I'm genuinely interested because it does nothing for me (haven't been fcuked but been messed around with). Could someone explain why it gets so much hype?
Btw just because I'm a top doesn't mean I'm above bottoming or look down on it in case that vibe came across. Without them I wouldn't be having sex so I respect them.
Very Interesting thread good on you 1ZRed0 -
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