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Was I Misleading or Just not intrested ?

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    #2
    prinz
    Registered Users Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    I love Brick.....................Walsh.


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    #3
    smash
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    This aint going to end well


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    #4
    starbelgrade
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    If you snog a bloke & don't at the very least offer him a hand job, you're a prick teaser.

    Them's the rules.


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    #5
    kfallon
    Registered Users Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    I bet he had a **** into a ditch on the side of that long lonely road :pac:


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    #6
    daltonmd
    Registered Users Posts: 1,246 ✭✭✭daltonmd


    Leave well enough alone. You didn't ask him to follow you? He's a big boy - put it this way, had he got what he wanted then you may never have heard from him again.

    He took a chance - a kiss isn't a sign of anything other than a snog, he was too full on, thought he was getting more and he didn't.

    Enjoy being single!!


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    #7
    I_smell_fear
    Closed Accounts Posts: 378 ✭✭I_smell_fear


    You don't seem too intelligent.


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    #8
    smash
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    night club starts to close & we where heading back to a freinds house to contuine the session - was like to the guy I was kissing "ah come back to the party we're going to - bring your freinds"
    We arrive at the house and the guy comes in - on his own......
    his mates had all gone back to we're they lived which was a good hours drive from where we were at :/Was kind of questioning him as to way he came back if all his mates had gone

    ...


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    #9
    CardBordWindow
    Registered Users Posts: 3,191 ✭✭✭CardBordWindow


    knowit12 wrote: »
    Ok so i'm recently only out a long term relationship - not heartbroken just getting use to single life..
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dc2Z7CL4Cv0


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    The King of Moo
    Registered Users Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    I think maybe it would've been better to have not invited him to the party: most men, especially after you've kissed them, would take that as a signal.

    Look at it from his perspective: a girl kissed him, then asked him back to a party. Sounds like a good thing.

    I'm not being critical by the way: you were just having fun and not thinking too much about things: I'm just showing what he was probably thinking.

    It was a bit creepy the way he kept being all lovey-dovey though.

    But don't beat yourself up over it. At least you told him, and he did leave without causing too much trouble, so it ended much better than it could've been. Lots of guys would've (wrongly) got very pissy and made a scene.

    Try not to think about it too much; it's all over now and no harm was really done.


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    pickarooney
    Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 35,180 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    The question needs to be asked: why did you invite this person who you did not know and did not feel any attraction back to someone else's house (and then act surprised when he took you up on it)?


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    #12
    prinz
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    Was his name Woogie and did he take any of your shoes?


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    #13
    Gummy Panda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Maybe you sent mixed signals by mistake. Either way he has probably told his friends that he rode you


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    Seachmall
    Registered Users Posts: 7,041 ✭✭✭Seachmall


    There are over 30 spelling and grammar mistakes in the post OP.

    "sistuation" is my favourite. Like a sister/sister situation.


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    #15
    Snowie
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    assumption..... that old story :D


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    knowit12
    Closed Accounts Posts: 63 ✭✭knowit12


    pickarooney wrote: »
    The question needs to be asked: why did you invite this person who you did not know and did not feel any attraction back to someone else's house (and then act surprised when he took you up on it)?

    The King of Moo wrote: »
    I think maybe it would've been better to have not invited him to the party: most men, especially after you've kissed them, would take that as a signal.

    Look at it from his perspective: a girl kissed him, then asked him back to a party. Sounds like a good thing.

    I'm not being critical by the way: you were just having fun and not thinking too much about things: I'm just showing what he was probably thinking.

    It was a bit creepy the way he kept being all lovey-dovey though.

    But don't beat yourself up over it. At least you told him, and he did leave without causing too much trouble, so it ended much better than it could've been. Lots of guys would've (wrongly) got very pissy and made a scene.

    Try not to think about it too much; it's all over now and no harm was really done.


    I'd invited him and his friends back.. They where after been with us all night having the laugh so I taught I was just been friendly asking them All back ...


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    cherryghost
    Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 17,133 Mod ✭✭✭✭cherryghost


    Why would his friends bother coming back if nobody was interested in them?


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    knowit12
    Closed Accounts Posts: 63 ✭✭knowit12


    smash wrote: »
    ...


    BRING YOUR FRIENDS


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    knowit12
    Closed Accounts Posts: 63 ✭✭knowit12


    cherryghost wrote: »
    Why would his friends bother coming back if nobody was interested in them?


    It wasn't all about scoring and been intrested - we were out having the crack with them , why not come back to contuine the laugh -
    I wasn't aware that when you ask someone back to a party it automatically means you are going to get lucky tonight


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    Fluorescence
    Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 8,490 Mod ✭✭✭✭Fluorescence


    AH needs a big sign in big neon letters at the top of every page that says, "GOT A PROBLEM? PERSONAL ISSUES FORUM IS THAT WAY ---->"


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    #21
    smash
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    knowit12 wrote: »
    smash wrote: »
    ...


    BRING YOUR FRIENDS
    Why would he bother when you kissed him and then asked him back? He thought he'd be with you.


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    #22
    foxyboxer
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    Why did you start kissing him in the first place?

    I'll take 'Ego Boost' for $500 please.


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    #23
    Seachmall
    Registered Users Posts: 7,041 ✭✭✭Seachmall


    knowit12 wrote: »
    BRING YOUR FRIENDS

    Kinky.


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    #24
    KERSPLAT!
    Closed Accounts Posts: 31,152 ✭✭✭✭KERSPLAT!


    To answer the OP I'd say, misleading


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    #25
    The King of Moo
    Registered Users Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    knowit12 wrote: »
    I'd invited him and his friends back.. They where after been with us all night having the laugh so I taught I was just been friendly asking them All back ...

    But...

    you only kissed him, not the other friends. Now it is weirder that he came back with you on his own if you invited them all, but it was the kiss that was making him expect some action.

    Not that he was entitled to expect that, or you were wrong to kiss him, but that's why he assumed you were interested in him.


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    #26
    foxyboxer
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    So you kissed him?

    If I get kissed by a woman without making a smooth move of my own then my simple brain would suggest that some vigorous horizontal gymnastics are quite possibly on the cards.


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    #27
    Fart
    Registered Users Posts: 1,825 ✭✭✭Fart


    "Bring your friends" means "Bring some protection/condoms".

    That's why his human friends didn't come along. He probably thought he was getting the royid. Choose your words wisely next time.

    You do seem sincere and innocent though, OP. Don't worry about it, I'm sure he's fine and is pulling the lad off himself now whilst thinking about you.


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    knowit12
    Closed Accounts Posts: 63 ✭✭knowit12


    The King of Moo wrote: »
    But...

    you only kissed him, not the other friends. Now it is weirder that he came back with you on his own if you invited them all, but it was the kiss that was making him expect some action.

    Not that he was entitled to expect that, or you were wrong to kiss him, but that's why he assumed you were interested in him.


    I was out with my friends going back to a friends for a session.. That was all !!!
    If I wanted to Fcuk him I would have left on my OWN with him - I left with my friends and not him for a reason - he followed...


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    #29
    HazDanz
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    You were misleading OP.


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    #30
    KERSPLAT!
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    knowit12 wrote: »
    I was out with my friends going back to a friends for a session.. That was all !!!
    If I wanted to Fcuk him I would have left on my OWN with him - I left with my friends and not him for a reason - he followed...

    He wasn't stalking you, you asked him to follow!


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    smash
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    knowit12 wrote: »
    I left with my friends and not him for a reason - he followed...

    He followed because you asked him to. Maybe his friends didn't want to go, but he still got the invite!


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