Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

How old were you when you moved out?

  • 03-12-2011 10:23pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,382 ✭✭✭


    How old were you when you moved out of your parent's house?

    I was 24 when I bought a house with my partner.

    Do you think it's a bit unhealty for people to stay at home past a certain age?

    I know of some people who have no intention of moving out of their parents as they have it too handy, which I think is a bit unnatural...


«13

Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,439 ✭✭✭Kevin Duffy


    17. Not only moved out, but went abroad. No failure to launch allowed in our family.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,398 ✭✭✭whatdoicare


    Since I was 18 - for college. Lived back home once or twice for a month or two between travels and apartments and now own my own home. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 731 ✭✭✭Tonto86


    17, although I did bounce back once or twice


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,080 ✭✭✭foxinsox


    17 : Boat to England to get a job!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,975 ✭✭✭W.Shakes-Beer


    I'll let you know.


  • Advertisement
  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,512 ✭✭✭Oh_Noes


    I was 18. It's neither here nor there whether or not you stay in your parents' place in your twenties. When you're 30+ it's better to be in fuller control of your own situation. When I look back I wish I'd stayed at home for a lot longer than I did.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,005 ✭✭✭GalwayKiefer


    19 and never looked back.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭dammitjanet


    I moved out at 22 to a house by myself and am still there.

    A lot of my friends in the 22-30 age group are moving back home these days. In the time we're living in there's no shame in living at home.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,355 ✭✭✭punchdrunk


    lived out from 25-28,recession kicked in,lost the job and moved home
    looking to get back out into the world again before June (when I'm 31)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,808 ✭✭✭Stained Class


    36. My parents got too old to look after me.


  • Advertisement
  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Right after I saw the note from Mamma Leone on the door.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,439 ✭✭✭Kevin Duffy


    17
    Since I was 18
    Tonto86 wrote: »
    17
    foxinsox wrote: »
    17
    Oh_Noes wrote: »
    I was 18.


    No messin' about with hitting the road for AH'ers!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    stovelid wrote: »
    Right after I saw the note from Mamma Leone on the door.

    To move out to the country?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,663 ✭✭✭Immaculate Pasta


    Moved out when I was 19 to go to uni. Although am back during the holidays so doesn't entirely count. I expect to move out properly next summer though when I graduate if I get a job


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,565 ✭✭✭losthorizon


    No man ever really moves out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 972 ✭✭✭moco


    I was 17 and very stubborn. Had a row with my mum where she told me to get out so I did. We get on great now though


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5 Kaneda_2


    I hope to be moved out and fully loaded by the summer.

    I have my eye on a 3 bed appt. in the center of town,next to the trendiest clubs in the city.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,458 ✭✭✭senorwipesalot


    17 to the building boom in late 80s London.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    20. Bit of a late mover compared to others here.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 955 ✭✭✭Scruffles


    just after nineteenth birthday,wasnt really a choice.
    was moved out by learning disability services [SS] due to accute problems at home,placed in one of the last LD institutions in the UK.


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,582 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    The more pertinent question might be: 'When did you move back in?'


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,355 ✭✭✭punchdrunk


    kowloon wrote: »
    The more pertinent question might be: 'When did you move back in?'

    28,I was ****ing skint (still kinda am!)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,808 ✭✭✭Stained Class


    17 to the building boom in late 80s London.

    Funnily enough, I first moved out at the same time for the same reason at 20.

    Final moveout at 36 though..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 594 ✭✭✭carfiosaoorl


    I was 17 when I moved out. I dont see anything wrong with staying at home for longer though. If there is room and you all get on what is the point in paying rent and bills in 2 houses?

    What I dont agree with though is adults living off their parents. If you are earning and living at home you should pay your fair share of all of the food and bills.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,455 ✭✭✭Where To


    When I'm in a box.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 821 ✭✭✭temply


    21, thank god


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,910 ✭✭✭OneArt


    20 or so. I wouldn't mind living with my parents again, it'd be kind of nice. I think they're used to the chain-smoking, wine drinking and writing into the small hours of the morning.

    Only trouble is they live in a pretty boring place where most of my friends have moved from. Also I quite like Germany.

    So yeah, I'll keep paying my own bills.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,382 ✭✭✭lastlaugh


    It's a great thing to have somewhere to go if a relationship or a property goes down the swanny all the same...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    I moved out when I was 17. Moved back a few months ago at 22 and still trying to figure out where to go next!


  • Advertisement
  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,635 ✭✭✭eth0


    No messin' about with hitting the road for AH'ers!

    Which is why they're so fast to get their posts in


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,048 ✭✭✭vampire of kilmainham


    moved out many moons back when i was 17 and joined the army and spent a lot of my carear there on overseas duties so would only be home the odd time learned a lot about life though and the people in it


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 523 ✭✭✭coonecb1


    I moved out when I was 25, but broke up with my girlfriend and moved back with the parents last year.

    I'm now 30 and living at home. Should I move out? If you think I should, please "thank" this post so I can get some of the "wisdom of crowds".

    I'm being serious by the way.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,808 ✭✭✭Stained Class


    coonecb1 wrote: »
    I moved out when I was 25, but broke up with my girlfriend and moved back with the parents last year.

    I'm now 30 and living at home. Should I move out? If you think I should, please "thank" this post so I can get some of the "wisdom of crowds".

    I'm being serious by the way.

    Everyone's life works out diffrently.

    There's no real set rules.

    The 'cool' crowd will say 'move out at 16 & if you don't your're a loser'.

    I don't agree with that. If it suits you fine.

    I moved out at 20 & was back at home at various times till I was 36.

    In the meantime I'd invested in property, but still didn't move out.

    I got on alright with the folks, all my 'stuff' was there & I didn't mind helping out financially & otherwise.

    Eventually I moved out because my GF fell pregnant & we simply needed a place of our own to live. Been happy ever since.

    Just the way things work out


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,077 ✭✭✭✭bnt


    I was 18 when I moved in to a "singles quarters" run by the company I was working for. It was in response to my family breaking up - stepmother divorcing my father. I'd had enough of the lot of them and was more than ready to be on my own.

    You are the type of what the age is searching for, and what it is afraid it has found. I am so glad that you have never done anything, never carved a statue, or painted a picture, or produced anything outside of yourself! Life has been your art. You have set yourself to music. Your days are your sonnets.

    ―Oscar Wilde predicting Social Media, in The Picture of Dorian Gray



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,208 ✭✭✭coco_lola


    Moved out at 16 (turned 17 a few weeks later), and have been living out of home pretty much ever since. Moved back home at 20 for about 4 months. Our family get on well but me and my mother have the exact same personality so we clash when we live together.


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,435 ✭✭✭Birdie086


    at the ripe old age of 18, I came in from work one day and my mam had ads for rooms/apts circled in the local paper, she follwed with the phrase - 'you can either move out now or your housekeeping money goes towards your deposit'. On my 21st birhtday I paid my deposit on my house.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,130 ✭✭✭Azureus


    18 going on 19 for me. First year of college/earning proper money.


  • Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    17
    Moved home for a few weeks in between selling and buying houses but that was it. Too young I think.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,311 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    15, but that was a Summer in Dublin, same at 16.

    Properly moved out at 17, back again aged 21 for a year or so.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,159 ✭✭✭✭phasers


    Still here, and I think I'll be here until I'm 23 at the earliest. Tbh the money I pay in rent helps my parents a lot so it works out well for everyone


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,563 ✭✭✭connundrum


    19 and I didn't move out, my folks decided they'd enjoy a life in Cape Town.

    Basically, they deserted me. I hold no grudges* (nearly 10 years on)


    *OMFG yes I do. The bastards.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,614 ✭✭✭ArtSmart


    OneArt wrote: »
    20 or so. I wouldn't mind living with my parents again, it'd be kind of nice. I think they're used to the chain-smoking, wine drinking and writing into the small hours of the morning.

    Only trouble is they live in a pretty boring place where most of my friends have moved from. Also I quite like Germany.

    So yeah, I'll keep paying my own bills.
    so your parents are hard core. big whoop.

    but are you used to it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,614 ✭✭✭ArtSmart


    coonecb1 wrote: »
    I moved out when I was 25, but broke up with my girlfriend and moved back with the parents last year.

    I'm now 30 and living at home. Should I move out? If you think I should, please "thank" this post so I can get some of the "wisdom of crowds".

    I'm being serious by the way.
    hmm. dunno. you still getting the hang sangwiches, with capri sun?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,427 ✭✭✭Jemmaa


    20 but I moved out the country


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    I was 23, moved in with my bf, and fingers crossed moving back home at 25 with fiancé (same guy!) so we can save for a deposit


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,267 ✭✭✭Elessar


    26 and still at home. I can't see myself moving out before 30, and then only if I find a girl and get married or something. Otherwise there is just no need.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,808 ✭✭✭Stained Class


    phasers wrote: »
    Still here, and I think I'll be here until I'm 23 at the earliest. Tbh the money I pay in rent helps my parents a lot so it works out well for everyone

    Why pay hard earned dosh to some faceless landlord when you can give something back to the 'olds'?

    Tbh when I was in my 30's & living under my parent's roof, I didn't see much of them really.

    We all worked long hours or had hobbies & intrests that kept us out of the house anyway.

    Ironically, we see more of each other now than when I lived there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,435 ✭✭✭wandatowell


    I'm 27 and have lived at home all my life,

    I used the money I saved on not paying ridiculous rent for sh1tholes to save up and buy my own home, got the deeds last week.

    Moving out asap :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,533 ✭✭✭Daniel S


    I'm in college now, moved out and have no intention of moving back in. Going Switzerland/Germany or somewhere cool (with regards to engineering like ;)). As for summer holidays, I'll hopefully have a job abroad somewhere.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,635 ✭✭✭xsiborg


    16, got a job in supermacs, then discovered i had moved in with a couple of middle aged swingers, wasnt my scene so quickly found another place! :o


  • Advertisement
Advertisement