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Leaving a relationship...

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  • Registered Users Posts: 3,158 ✭✭✭Arawn


    Ride her hot friend in yer bed, get caught, it can only lead one of two ways after that. A threesome or break up.


    Either way result!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,289 ✭✭✭parker kent


    Abi wrote: »
    Not harsh, bit of tough love to make him see sense, yes. It's a blatant case of the grass is greener

    Why is it making him see sense? Maybe they are not right for each other? Just because she seems like a really nice girl does not mean he has to stay in a relationship that is not working. Ending it might do them both a favour as they may end up in better relationships.
    I agree. But it's the usual shyte you hear.

    There's no need to add more shíte on top of it. He described a situation millions upon millions of people will encounter. There is nothing wrong with his girlfriend, they just are not clicking any more. That's pretty much it.

    Edit: I would add that he should end it sooner rather than later if this is how he feels. Messing around with somebody is a terrible thing to do.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,582 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    Jay D wrote: »
    You're bored with the same conversation every day, same activities.

    O/H is fit and good looking and of really good character, just a little too nice sometimes but completely innocently.

    What do you do?

    Slap yourself hard in the face. If you still feel the same way in the morning get someone else to slap you in the face. Keep getting people to slap you in the face 'til it works and you realise that you're a lucky guy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    Why is it making him see sense? Maybe they are not right for each other? Just because she seems like a really nice girl does not mean he has to stay in a relationship that is not working. Ending it might do them both a favour as they may end up in better relationships.

    Maybe we need more info from the OP of how bad this is before we start speculating?

    He's also yet to confirm it's himself or a hypothetical question here:
    You're bored with the same conversation every day, same activities.

    O/H is fit and good looking and of really good character, just a little too nice sometimes but completely innocently.

    What do you do?

    If it's hypothetical then AH is fine. If it's a genuine question that is bothering him, RI would be the best place for this.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,443 ✭✭✭Bipolar Joe


    I wouldn't entrust life decisions with anyone else BUT AH.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,828 ✭✭✭Reamer Fanny


    Jay D wrote: »
    You're bored with the same conversation every day, same activities.

    O/H is fit and good looking and of really good character, just a little too nice sometimes but completely innocently.

    What do you do?

    Give her the shocker; 2 in the cootie, 1 in the booty should liven her up a bit


  • Registered Users Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    I think this would be better off in Relationship Issues.


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