Leaving a relationship...

Jay D

You're bored with the same conversation every day, same activities.

O/H is fit and good looking and of really good character, just a little too nice sometimes but completely innocently.

What do you do?

Sky King

Fong the gowel off her

Bipolar Joe

Stay and start a different conversation.

stupidusername

Get her to watch some hardcore porn,step it up a notch....make her nasty

GLaDOS

Jay D wrote: »

You're bored with the same conversation every day, same activities.

O/H is fit and good looking and of really good character, just a little too nice sometimes but completely innocently.

What do you do?

Switch hands

SafeSurfer

Not another eurozone break up thread.

stovelid

By honest with yourself and go and meet a man.

Jess16

Jay D wrote: »

What do you do?

The same thing we do every day, Pinky -try to take over the world!!

CreepingDeath

Jay D wrote: »

What do you do?

Grow as a person and make it work.

Kanoe

leave, if your not happy. Then have break up sex.

pragmatic1

Act like a complete bastard until she dumps you. Its the kindest way.

Dotrel

Give her the old "it's not me, it's you" speech.

Saila

swing

you'll be wanting to get back in them when you see anyone can have them!

Immaculate Pasta

If you have nothing left to say to your girlfriend you marry her :cool:

whiskeyman

stovelid wrote: »

By honest with yourself and go and meet a man.

Have a stroke playing rugby first, then tell the Daily Mail about your new found lust for men.

Chuck Stone

If I were you, I'd go out.

I'd have sex with strange men.

I'd have sex with basketball players.

I'd have sex with Greeks.

Men from Greece.

I'd satisfy my urges.

I'd satisfy my sexual desires.

Gordy to his Mother in 'Freddy got Fingered'

Hasmunch

Sky King wrote: »

Fong the gowel off her

Gowel the fong off her

jackie1974

Depends on how long ye have been together, if you're bored after only being together a short while, leave before you start treating her like **** but if ye have been together a long while and didn't always find her boring put a bit of effort into spicing things up again.

Tesco Massacre

Have you tried discussing the pedestrianisation of Norwich city centre?

starbelgrade

What you really need OP, is a
fit looking woman with good
sense of humor, who can cook frogs
legs and who appreciates a good fuc-
schia garden, classic music and tal-
king without getting too serious.

Mr.Crinklewood

Post on Boards.ie when you know I am bound to read it you total bastard.

Any in the size of cocks thread, I was lying when I said size didn't matter. It DOES matter, and you have as much motion in the ocean as a ****ing beached whale!!!

VenusPlays

As my nan would say 'only boring people fet bored'

Daroxtar

Just remember that while there are plenty more fish in the sea you won't catch a shark with a worm

coco_lola

Blast them with piss?

I'll get my coat...

Abi

Jay D wrote: »

You're bored with the same conversation every day, same activities.

O/H is fit and good looking and of really good character, just a little too nice sometimes but completely innocently.

What do you do?

Jesus, you lot don't know what you want. Women are all bitches yadda yadda... then you're not happy when you have a good one.


Dump her and date a real bitch then. You won't be long wishing you had your OH back, who sounds like she'd be snapped up by someone worth her time.

im invisible

starbelgrade wrote: »

What you really need OP, is a
fit looking woman with good
sense of humor, who can cook frogs
legs and who appreciates a good fuc-
schia garden, classic music and tal-
king without getting too serious.

What you really need OP, is a sense of humor!

who can cook frogs-schia garden?

classic music and tal-

Ruu_Old

Eat her organs.

themadchef

Grass is always greener on the other side
Neighbour got a new car that you wanna drive.....

arybvtcw0eolkf

Man up, make a decision and if that decision is to break up - cut her loose.

Don't fuck around with her heart (or yours), its a horrible thing to do to anyone.

parker kent

Abi wrote: »

Jesus, you lot don't know what you want. Women are all bitches yadda yadda... then you're not happy when you have a good one.

Dump her and date a real bitch then. You won't be long wishing you had your OH back, who sounds like she'd be snapped up by someone worth her time.

Bit harsh. Sometimes 2 perfectly nice people are in a relationship that has run its course.

Not every man is a bastard, nor do all men call women bitches and vice versa.

Abi

parker kent wrote: »

Bit harsh. Sometimes 2 perfectly nice people are in a relationship that has run its course.

Not harsh, bit of tough love to make him see sense, yes. It's a blatant case of the grass is greener.

Not every man is a bastard, nor do all men call women bitches and vice versa.

I agree. But it's the usual shyte you hear.

Arawn

Ride her hot friend in yer bed, get caught, it can only lead one of two ways after that. A threesome or break up.


Either way result!

parker kent

Abi wrote: »

Not harsh, bit of tough love to make him see sense, yes. It's a blatant case of the grass is greener

Why is it making him see sense? Maybe they are not right for each other? Just because she seems like a really nice girl does not mean he has to stay in a relationship that is not working. Ending it might do them both a favour as they may end up in better relationships.

I agree. But it's the usual shyte you hear.

There's no need to add more shíte on top of it. He described a situation millions upon millions of people will encounter. There is nothing wrong with his girlfriend, they just are not clicking any more. That's pretty much it.

Edit: I would add that he should end it sooner rather than later if this is how he feels. Messing around with somebody is a terrible thing to do.

TheZohanS

Jay D wrote: »

You're bored with the same conversation every day, same activities.

O/H is fit and good looking and of really good character, just a little too nice sometimes but completely innocently.

What do you do?

Slap yourself hard in the face. If you still feel the same way in the morning get someone else to slap you in the face. Keep getting people to slap you in the face 'til it works and you realise that you're a lucky guy.

Abi

parker kent wrote: »

Why is it making him see sense? Maybe they are not right for each other? Just because she seems like a really nice girl does not mean he has to stay in a relationship that is not working. Ending it might do them both a favour as they may end up in better relationships.

Maybe we need more info from the OP of how bad this is before we start speculating?

He's also yet to confirm it's himself or a hypothetical question here:

You're bored with the same conversation every day, same activities.

O/H is fit and good looking and of really good character, just a little too nice sometimes but completely innocently.

What do you do?

If it's hypothetical then AH is fine. If it's a genuine question that is bothering him, RI would be the best place for this.

Bipolar Joe

I wouldn't entrust life decisions with anyone else BUT AH.

Reamer Fanny

Jay D wrote: »

You're bored with the same conversation every day, same activities.

O/H is fit and good looking and of really good character, just a little too nice sometimes but completely innocently.

What do you do?

Give her the shocker; 2 in the cootie, 1 in the booty should liven her up a bit

Super-Rush

I think this would be better off in Relationship Issues.