Advice Required

monmck

Im looking for advice, I am in my early 30's single and find that all my friends are settled and having kids.I was always happy with my life but lately my feelings have changed. I live in the country only have a part-time job at the moment and find that i have a lot of time on my hands. I current volunteer and exercise with some of this time but and considerning getting out there and trying to change my single status. The problem is i dont really go out much and when i do it not to places where you have much chances of meeting men. I am considering internet dating but all i have ever heard is horror stories. I really not sure if its the way to go, so has anyone had luck or is there something else i can try on my own. I'm aware as all my friends have parnters the number of thing i am going to try on my own are limited, and the fact that I'm a bbw and a bit of a chicken would probably also hold me back a bit.:rolleyes:

So if internet dating is the way to go is their a site that is better than others, any help would be great

I am a friend

I think give it a go but just dont take it seriously... I did it and met someone who I ended up with for 2 years. I think a lot of people have negative experiences cos they do make each and every comment / meeting into a big deal.

I would join a paid site as there seems to be less messers on those..

Go into it with an open mind and a thick skin and you never know...

Good luck.

Ickle Magoo

Hi there,

You might find the following of interest:

The joys and tribulations of internet dating

Advice on internet dating/general safety when meeting people IRL?

Online dating discussion in tLL

There is also a huge thread/discussion in The Gentleman's Club here.


As there are so many threads already dedicated to this topic, I'm going to lock this thread but please feel free to post on any/all of the above. :cool: