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Scumbag level rising, but nothing is being done?

  • 23-04-2011 10:53pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43


    Scumbag level rising, but nothing is being done?
    Hi, I am a teenager and I live in little Bray. The roughest part of Bray. I get hop on often I know I'm only one of the hundreds who have to go through this. No CCTV is being put up!?
    I am getting sick of this and nothing is being done, I live in fear in my own town?!
    And no actually people, killing people is illegal in this country.
    Yeh see, If I fight them, they get people after me?
    Jesus are you ****ing thick? Do you not understand what they are like?
    And the point's not that half of you are stupid (Going by the fact you think I should shoot 'em)
    It's the fact that there's no CCTV?
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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 420 ✭✭whiteboy


    Time to fight back


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,762 ✭✭✭jive


    stop being a pussy and just buy a gun, dumbass



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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 3,372 Mod ✭✭✭✭andrew


    How the hell are you getting hopped on every single week?!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,129 ✭✭✭R P McMurphy




  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,771 ✭✭✭michael999999


    Grow a pair of balls!

    And what teenager uses the word harassed?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭Desire.


    You need to get yourself some of this.

    Can't embed because I'm a fail. :o


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,808 ✭✭✭✭chin_grin


    Blast them with.........................homemade pepper spray?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,751 ✭✭✭Saila


    you look like will from inbetweeners dont you


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,028 ✭✭✭TheMilkyPirate


    Some seriously ignorant people on this forum.

    Well done on making the kids life that little bit harder.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,614 ✭✭✭ArtSmart


    if your OP is real, talk to your teachers, ask for advice. i assume you wont talk to your parents.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,291 ✭✭✭wild_cat


    I seriously thought this was going to be a thread about eugenics.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,183 ✭✭✭Peared


    Boardsies this is a teenager who is possibly being bullied, is upset about it describing life as horrible and looking for help, albeit probably in the wrong forum, but still, smartarsery is not helpful.

    Craddy, could you find alternative routes if you know where these people hang out? Or try make sure you're not on your own as much? Do you have any adults in the area that you know and trust and might know these guys and be able to have a word?

    Do you think they are picking on you in particular and is it the same people all the time?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,784 ✭✭✭Superbus


    Police?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 841 ✭✭✭JBnaglfar


    And what teenager uses the word harassed?

    What the fuck is wrong with the word 'harassed' for a teenager or anyone else?

    Why is this even relevant?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭Desire.


    JBnaglfar wrote: »
    What the fuck is wrong with the word 'harassed' for a teenager or anyone else?

    Why is this even relevant?

    Teenagers aren't allowed use words that make them seem smart. :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,762 ✭✭✭jive


    Peared wrote: »
    Boardsies this is a teenager who is possibly being bullied, is upset about it describing life as horrible and looking for help, albeit probably in the wrong forum, but still, smartarsery is not helpful.

    Craddy, could you find alternative routes if you know where these people hang out? Or try make sure you're not on your own as much? Do you have any adults in the area that you know and trust and might know these guys and be able to have a word?

    Do you think they are picking on you in particular and is it the same people all the time?

    ROFL nobody gets hopped on EVERY week. Just report it. I'm not sure how good advice is meant to be given with the limited amount of information we have. I'll give it a whirl:

    1. If you're being hopped on every week you must look like a weirdo (unless it's the same group of people ---> then you are aware of who they are ---> report it). Now you can continue to look like a weirdo (i.e. too outlandish to be considered normal to a scumbag) and learn to fight or change your appearance.

    2. Avoid these people. If you get hopped on every week i'd imagine it's always in the same location. If this is the case find an alternative route or instead of being a pussy just report it.

    3. Get some friends who are bigger than the people who pick on you. Invite your friends for sleepovers so that you don't have to walk home alone in fear of getting the piss kicked out of you.

    4. If you're getting hopped on every week then you are aware that an attack is coming. It's obvious that you're either very bad at fighting or are not fighting back. Catch the main culprit clean in the nose; he won't see it coming because you obviously don't fight back so he's used to you being a pussy. Following punching him in the nose either stand your ground and take a hiding off all his friends or run away. After typing #4 I realise this is the worst idea of all the ideas I have because you will inevitably get a bigger beating from these people the next time you see them. The only way around this is reporting it and stop being a pussy. Worst comes to worst you will be known as a snitch / rat. Nobody will beat up a snitch because they know you will snitch. You will be an outcast in school for being a snitch but at least you won't be beaten up. Find some friends who aren't scumbags and they won't care that you are a snitch.

    God speed.


  • Posts: 6,025 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    JBnaglfar wrote: »
    What the fuck is wrong with the word 'harassed' for a teenager or anyone else?

    Why is this even relevant?

    'Teenager in Proper use of English scandal':rolleyes:

    So sorry to hear what has been happening to you. We live in a disgusting society where others can not get by without harrasing others.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    I GOT A GUN, I GOT A FLIPPING GUN!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,080 ✭✭✭foxinsox


    Hi craddy,

    I think maybe you should try posting about this in Personal Issues as After Hours is great fun but might not give you the answers you need :)

    Maybe talk to your local community Garda and they might have a few ideas for you.

    Maybe take up self defence or start a martial arts class?

    Hope things get better soon for you.
    Talk to someone, please don't try and deal with all this yourself.

    :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,424 ✭✭✭Storminateacup


    Just punch the living daylights out of whoever is hopping you.

    I got picked on in first year, because I was small. But -- they underestimated my temper. Hell hath no fury like a dwarf intimidated.

    Even if you are to take a bit of a beating, fight your corner. If you continue letting them beat you, without fighting back, theyll continue to do it. You never know, you might come out the better man in it.

    Im guessing your 14/15? How old are those scumbags?


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  • Posts: 6,025 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]



    'Even if you are to take a bit of a beating, fight your corner. If you continue letting them beat you, without fighting back, theyll continue to do it. You never know, you might come out the better man in it.'

    Or he might come out of it in a coma. He needs adult help to handle this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43 craddy96


    I am ****ing genuine?
    Real smart guys, I'll buy a gun and kill 'em! Because it's not like thats illegal!
    I'm saying why are there not CCTV cameras being put up?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Stop dressing like a puff and man up.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,808 ✭✭✭✭chin_grin


    Ruu wrote: »
    I GOT A GUN, I GOT A FLIPPING GUN!

    Was it not a "ruddy gun?". :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,128 ✭✭✭✭Oranage2


    craddy96 wrote: »
    Scumbag level rising, but nothing is being done?
    Hi, I am a teenager and I live in little Bray. The roughest part of Bray. I get hop on every week and harrassed and my life is made horrible and I know I'm only one of the hundreds who have to go through this. No CCTV is being put up!?
    I am getting sick of this and nothing is being done, I live in fear in my own town?!

    Hip hop classes kid - that way when you get really good you can have dance-offs and hopefully you dont get served!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,097 ✭✭✭✭zuroph


    mates a garda up there, PM me some names, and your problem will go away :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,128 ✭✭✭✭Oranage2


    zuroph wrote: »
    mates a garda up there, PM me some names, and your problem will go away :p

    By magic?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,424 ✭✭✭Storminateacup


    Jake1 wrote: »

    'Even if you are to take a bit of a beating, fight your corner. If you continue letting them beat you, without fighting back, theyll continue to do it. You never know, you might come out the better man in it.'

    Or he might come out of it in a coma. He needs adult help to handle this.

    Yes. He could. He could equally end up in a coma, or brain dead the next time they jump him and he doesnt fight back.
    It implies that the scum that are jumping him every week are jumping him because he doesnt fight back. And because they can feel like the "big men".
    In reality, they're probably the losers, the weaker more retarded of the scumbags, that go around terrorising people who don't fight back. I've seen (and know) enough "proper" scum, who don't go jumping the nerdy kids, or the freaks, or what we would call normal, because whats the point?

    Bullies are weak. Everybody knows that. I agree with you in that ideally, he should tell an adult and have some support so as he isnt harrassed weekly. He shouldn't have to feel scared walking to or from his own home. But thats in an ideal world. If/when they do jump him, and he is alone, he should remember that he has the right to defend himself. And if that means putting his foot through somebodies face, in a moment of "fight or flight", thats a choice he can make.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,808 ✭✭✭✭chin_grin


    zuroph wrote: »
    mates a garda up there, PM me some names, and your problem will go away :p

    Not a great comment considering the court case a while back for a certain Garda...............:pac:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,097 ✭✭✭✭zuroph


    chin_grin wrote: »
    Not a great comment considering the court case a while back for a certain Garda...............:pac:

    ah no, just re-assuring the guy, and if he doesnt want to go to them directly, this way they could have a look into the guys.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 825 ✭✭✭Dwellingdweller


    ArtSmart wrote: »
    if your OP is real, talk to your teachers, ask for advice. i assume you wont talk to your parents.

    Teachers wont give you advice worth ****. OP you and your mates needa take up boxing or something man. Get smart and pick yer fights. One knacker cornered on his own isnt much match for three reasonably strong young lads-assumin ye're not a skinny wee prik who cant throw a punch to save his life. Show em ya mean business.

    tl;dr
    Go gym
    Get strong
    Learn boxin
    Batter knackers

    In THAT order!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,808 ✭✭✭✭chin_grin


    Teachers wont give you advice worth ****. OP you and your mates needa take up boxing or something man. Get smart and pick yer fights. One knacker cornered on his own isnt much match for three reasonably strong young lads-assumin ye're not a skinny wee prik who cant throw a punch to save his life. Show em ya mean business.

    tl;dr
    Go gym
    Get strong
    Learn boxin
    Batter knackers

    In THAT order!

    Stop watching Rocky cos this isn't advice, it's a death-wish. What about the repercussions?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 825 ✭✭✭Dwellingdweller


    chin_grin wrote: »
    Stop watching Rocky.

    Never saw it. I'm idealistic but its what I did and it worked for me. ya have a better idea?


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 3,372 Mod ✭✭✭✭andrew


    OP, move to Bel-Air.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,889 ✭✭✭evercloserunion


    Never saw it. I'm idealistic but its what I did and it worked for me. ya have a better idea?
    Bray is a bit different to Donegal now to be fair :rolleyes:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 851 ✭✭✭PrincessLola


    Grow a pair of balls!

    And what teenager uses the word harassed?

    Nice. Making it socially unacceptable to talk normal english.
    What were you expecting? TXT SPK??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 163 ✭✭FooFighters


    Dude, I know what it is like happens to me almost every wee by stupid scobes and scangers.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 825 ✭✭✭Dwellingdweller


    Bray is a bit different to Donegal now to be fair :rolleyes:

    Well, I s'pose they're a different breed of knacker now that ya say it. Still, puttin on some muscle and learning self-defence? Can't hurt. He'd be prepared to defend himself if it did happen again like (which, lets face it, it probably will).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,163 ✭✭✭✭Liam Byrne


    I have to wonder at the OP's attitude given the phrasing of the "Reason for editing".....

    Just saying......


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,808 ✭✭✭✭chin_grin


    Well, I s'pose they're a different breed of knacker now that ya say it. Still, puttin on some muscle and learning self-defence? Can't hurt. He'd be prepared to defend himself if it did happen again like (which, lets face it, it probably will).

    Which is a direct contradiction to your "confront them" post earlier.

    I agree with this to a degree. Learn how to deal with a situation should it arise. Defend if necessary and evade. Do not instigate a scrap and follow through should there be a few more that know the attackers and decide to join in.
    Liam Byrne wrote: »
    I have to wonder at the OP's attitude given the phrasing of the "Reason for editing".....

    Just saying......
    Last edited by craddy96; Today at 00:46. Reason: Thicks not getting the point

    :pac:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭Desire.


    craddy96 wrote: »
    And the point's not that half of you are stupid (Going by the fact you think I should shoot 'em)

    This is After Hours to be fair - this belongs in the Personal Issues forum.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,511 ✭✭✭saywhatyousee


    OP form your own gang the only way for gauranteed protection


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 825 ✭✭✭Dwellingdweller


    chin_grin wrote: »
    Which is a direct contradiction to your "confront them" post earlier.

    I agree with this to a degree. Learn how to deal with a situation should it arise. Defend if necessary and evade. Do not instigate a scrap and follow through should there be a few more that know the attackers and decide to join in.

    Naw man, I said he should get strong and learn self-defence back there too. :P yer right about the over-confrontational approach tho. Prob wouldn't be the best idea. But be prepared, Thats the gist of what we're sayin OP. you should be able to stand your ground and have the strength for them to see your not worth hasslin. Godspeed lad. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,789 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    craddy96 wrote: »
    Hi, I am a teenager and I live in little Bray.
    I see, the worlds out to get you, very things horrible, etc, etc.

    Wait until you spend some time in collage or the work force, your view of the world is horribly lopsided, life is nowhere near what you think it is.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,762 ✭✭✭jive


    judging by the new edited OP I can see why people enjoy giving you slaps


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭Desire.


    jive wrote: »
    judging by the new edited OP I can see why people enjoy giving you slaps

    :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,128 ✭✭✭✭Oranage2


    craddy96 wrote: »
    Scumbag level rising, but nothing is being done?
    Hi, I am a teenager and I live in little Bray. The roughest part of Bray. I get hop on often I know I'm only one of the hundreds who have to go through this. No CCTV is being put up!?
    I am getting sick of this and nothing is being done, I live in fear in my own town?!
    And no actually people, killing people is illegal in this country.
    Yeh see, If I fight them, they get people after me?
    Jesus are you ****ing thick? Do you not understand what they are like?
    And the point's not that half of you are stupid (Going by the fact you think I should shoot 'em)
    It's the fact that there's no CCTV?

    Have you tried the local parish or the power of prayer op? God cant hear you if you dont say anything :)


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 3,372 Mod ✭✭✭✭andrew


    Well in fairness, if it's just you that's getting hopped on, then installing CCTV would be a waste of resources. Easier to let the guards solve it, or for you to solve it yourself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,718 ✭✭✭upandcumming


    jive wrote: »
    stop being a pussy and just buy a gun, dumbass



    imagestrollface.jpg

    Fail.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 882 ✭✭✭LondonIrish90


    Vary the routes and times that you travel.

    Nothing like unpredictability to evade capture/a kicking.


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