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Young lads acting the fool.

  • 02-03-2011 10:31pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,104 ✭✭✭easyeason3


    So I was out walking my pooch earlier. This time of year I drive into town in the evenings to walk him.

    Is it me or is there a lot of 13-16 year olds just hanging around looking like they're up to no good?

    I passed three different groups of the little fcukers & felt really uncomfortable each time. One group were hanging around outside a known drug dealers house, another group were locked drunk & the third group were standing around outside a chipper but taking up most of the footpath which meant that all the other people walking past had to walk onto the road to get by.

    I'm not old by any stretch but there's no way on earth I'd ever have been so disrespectful & downright ignorant as some of these gougers.

    WTF is happening out there at the moment that teenagers are given free reign to do as they please?

    I'm mad, very fcuking mad :mad:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,658 ✭✭✭✭Peyton Manning


    Country has gone to shít since The Citizen retired :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 689 ✭✭✭Khyra24


    A lot of teenagers have no respect for elders and authority these days. They're really fresh and you know why? Because a lot of parents don't really give a damn. They let them do as they please or they're afraid of their own children. I think a lot of kids are in need of some corporal punishment...as it was done in my time!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,160 ✭✭✭Kimono-Girl


    parents are too busy posting on boards.ie than worrying where their kids are.....



    it's clearly more important :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,968 ✭✭✭✭Praetorian Saighdiuir


    Pfft teenagers.........

    They are a different breed nowadays. I remember when I was a teenager, I respected the older folk.





    Edit:......stoopid baseball cap wearing virgins!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    That's a bloody disgrace.

    It shouldn't be allowed. It's just a sign of how bad things have gotten these days.

    I mean, what has the world come to? You drive your dog into town to take him for a walk?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,138 ✭✭✭Tomebagel


    easyeason3 wrote: »
    So I was out walking my pooch earlier. This time of year I drive into town in the evenings to walk him.

    Is it me or is there a lot of 13-16 year olds just hanging around looking like they're up to no good?

    I passed three different groups of the little fcukers & felt really uncomfortable each time. One group were hanging around outside a known drug dealers house, another group were locked drunk & the third group were standing around outside a chipper but taking up most of the footpath which meant that all the other people walking past had to walk onto the road to get by.

    I'm not old by any stretch but there's no way on earth I'd ever have been so disrespectful & downright ignorant as some of these gougers.

    WTF is happening out there at the moment that teenagers are given free reign to do as they please?

    I'm mad, very fcuking mad :mad:

    OH ****,YOU HAD TO WALK AROUND A GROUP OF YOUNG KIDS?WILL YOU BE OK?ARE YOU HURT?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    easyeason3 wrote: »
    I'm mad, very fcuking mad :mad:

    It's therapeutic just admitting it!

    Be at peace,

    Z


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,104 ✭✭✭easyeason3


    That's a bloody disgrace.

    It shouldn't be allowed. It's just a sign of how bad things have gotten these days.

    I mean, what has the world come to? You drive your dog into town to take him for a walk?


    Living in the sticks & no street lights :o

    Hey at least I'm not out there with a high vis jacket on waiting to be hit by a car.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 456 ✭✭Trog


    Meh. Doesn't sound like they were doing anything disrespectful except standing in your way. Just because you don't like the look of them it doesn't mean they're doing something wrong.

    To be honest, the ones that are actually up to no good wouldn't just be standing around.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 985 ✭✭✭Miklos


    It's a Wednesday.. they get off school early.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,731 ✭✭✭Bullseye1


    A curfew should be introduced. Too many parents couldn't care less where their kids are or what they are up to.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 215 ✭✭Toyota_Avensis


    that was last week?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    easyeason3 wrote: »
    Living in the sticks & no street lights :o

    Hey at least I'm not out there with a high vis jacket on waiting to be hit by a car.


    You should know the rules of walking in the sticks if you live in them.

    All you need is a torch. You shine it on the ground as you walk & it's beams deflect cars with their magical powers.

    I thought everyone knew that. :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,515 ✭✭✭✭admiralofthefleet


    kids noadays have nothing to do. back in the 80's/early 90's when i was a kid we went out and found stuff to do that kept us occupied


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,324 ✭✭✭Alter-Ego


    Get a cane and thrash any belligerent youths you see while out n' about. They'll soon learn...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    Leave the poor kids alone.


  • Posts: 3,505 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    easyeason3 wrote: »
    felt really uncomfortable each time.

    How is it their fault that you felt uncomfortable? They didn't do anything to you.

    Did you ask them to move and they ignored you or did you just walk around them and then hold it against them that they didn't part like the red sea?

    I do agree that there's some real scumbags out there, and some really terrible parenting, but I wouldn't get upset about some kids standing around slightly in the way.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,104 ✭✭✭easyeason3


    Trog wrote: »
    Meh. Doesn't sound like they were doing anything disrespectful except standing in your way. Just because you don't like the look of them it doesn't mean they're doing something wrong.

    To be honest, the ones that are actually up to no good wouldn't just be standing around.


    They were standing in everyones way, not just mine. And yeah it's nice to think that teenagers are meant to respect their elders but I'm only ten years older than some of these guys so I don't think I fall into the category of 'elder' as such.

    And it wasn't just the look of them. It was their general demeanour I didn't like. I felt very uncomfortable. They were dressed like any other teenager in a tracksuit & a hoody but they were giving off a really bad vibe. I felt like I was waiting for one of them to say or do something.


    EDIT: True or false, a woman was walking with a buggy & had to move off the footpath to get by. Young or old this is unacceptable in my book.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,969 ✭✭✭✭mfceiling


    I'll leave this with you...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fPLsot1dhuU


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 240 ✭✭HoneyRyder


    easyeason3 wrote: »
    They were dressed like any other teenager in a tracksuit & a hoody

    So basically their only crime is against fashion?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,104 ✭✭✭easyeason3


    HoneyRyder wrote: »
    So basically their only crime is against fashion?


    Well I was wearing the same myself :p...

    No I was making a point that there was nothing wrong with their appearence.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 ✭✭✭epgc3fyqirnbsx


    When I was in college I used to live in a pretty rough estate and when myself and my mates walked out of there, or stood by a wall outside it, you could tell people were real nervous passing us. Wives would lean into their husbands and husbands would give us dirty looks, people would cross the road etc

    None of us would hurt a fly, point being that sometimes people aren't up to no good and it's all in your head. Most people are sound


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,198 ✭✭✭strokemyclover


    I seen a group of kids hanging around a street corner the other day - one of them was on the ground doing the worm dance.....I guess you could say he was acting the maggot

    Gets coat


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,573 ✭✭✭pragmatic1


    Khyra24 wrote: »
    A lot of teenagers have no respect for elders and authority these days. They're really fresh and you know why? Because a lot of parents don't really give a damn. They let them do as they please or they're afraid of their own children. I think a lot of kids are in need of some corporal punishment...as it was done in my time!
    I agree that its mostly the parents fault but I dont think that corporal punishment is effective. I used to get hammered when I was younger, belts and all. I learned absolutely nothing from it apart from being more sneaky and that violence is acceptable. Its lazy parenting.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,798 ✭✭✭✭hatrickpatrick


    You hear this folks? In this country, congregating in a public place without actually doing anything to upset anyone, is an evil thing to do.

    I can't STAND this sort of thing. Public streets are public streets. Youths congregate in groups, there is NOTHING wrong with this until someone is ACTUALLY doing something wrong.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,287 ✭✭✭davyjose


    When I was in college I used to live in a pretty rough estate and when myself and my mates walked out of there, or stood by a wall outside it, you could tell people were real nervous passing us. Wives would lean into their husbands and husbands would give us dirty looks, people would cross the road etc

    None of us would hurt a fly, point being that sometimes people aren't up to no good and it's all in your head. Most people are sound

    Signed Slasher.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,645 ✭✭✭skippy15


    don't know whether to laugh or rant-

    Just like groups of women stand outside shops and talking, groups girls outside clothes shops, people outside pubs,tourists gathered around town, kids playing on the side of the road....

    Just because you felt uncomfortable its not there fault-:rolleyes:
    Apart from having a drink what did they do wrong- so go climb down of your high horse, polish of your cane, and leave the kids alone cause there are lots out there worse off than them.....

    i'd love if you used that terminology about these kids to there parents, little fcukers, gougers, standing around where you get your drugs from- pretty sure you have no kids either let alone a sense of reality:mad::mad:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,370 ✭✭✭✭Son Of A Vidic


    easyeason3 wrote: »
    WTF is happening out there at the moment that teenagers are given free reign to do as they please?

    You can blame the parents, or the lack of same.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,798 ✭✭✭✭hatrickpatrick


    black lads acting the fool.

    So I was out walking my pooch earlier. This time of year I drive into town in the evenings to walk him.

    Is it me or is there a lot of black people just hanging around looking like they're up to no good?

    I passed three different groups of the fcukers & felt really uncomfortable each time. One group were hanging around outside a known drug dealers house, another group were locked drunk & the third group were standing around outside a chipper but taking up most of the footpath which meant that all the other people walking past had to walk onto the road to get by.

    I'm not old by any stretch but there's no way on earth I'd ever have been so disrespectful & downright ignorant as some of these gougers.

    WTF is happening out there at the moment that black people are given free reign to do as they please?

    I'm mad, very fcuking mad

    I replaced "young" with "black" in every sentence up there.
    I'll bet you anything this now sounds appallingly racist, doesn't it?
    Ageism is just another form of prejudice. It's every bit as bad as racism. F*cking bigots.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 456 ✭✭Trog


    easyeason3 wrote: »
    They were standing in everyones way, not just mine. And yeah it's nice to think that teenagers are meant to respect their elders but I'm only ten years older than some of these guys so I don't think I fall into the category of 'elder' as such.

    And it wasn't just the look of them. It was their general demeanour I didn't like. I felt very uncomfortable. They were dressed like any other teenager in a tracksuit & a hoody but they were giving off a really bad vibe. I felt like I was waiting for one of them to say or do something.


    EDIT: True or false, a woman was walking with a buggy & had to move off the footpath to get by. Young or old this is unacceptable in my book.

    So... Did this woman try to walk past and they didn't move, or did she walk around them of her own volition?

    Not liking their 'demeanour' is the same as not liking the look of them. I don't like people that bounce when they walk, it makes me uncomfortable. Does that mean they're doing something wrong? Did they say anything or do anything that suggests they were doing something wrong other than standing there when you'd prefer them not to be standing there, and not looking the way you would prefer them to look? (you can include their demeanor in how they look.)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,104 ✭✭✭easyeason3


    skippy15 wrote: »
    don't know whether to laugh or rant-

    Just like groups of women stand outside shops and talking, groups girls outside clothes shops, people outside pubs,tourists gathered around town, kids playing on the side of the road....

    Just because you felt uncomfortable its not there fault-:rolleyes:
    Apart from having a drink what did they do wrong- so go climb down of your high horse, polish of your cane, and leave the kids alone cause there are lots out there worse off than them.....

    i'd love if you used that terminology about these kids to there parents, little fcukers, gougers, standing around where you get your drugs from- pretty sure you have no kids either let alone a sense of reality:mad::mad:


    Maybe get down off your own high horse for a minute. It wasn't because there was a group of them that made me uncomfortable, it was the way they were acting.
    And who the fcuk ever said that the house they were standing around is where I buy drugs??? Or that I buy drugs at all???
    Seriously who exactly do you think you are to make that assumption about me?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,857 ✭✭✭indough


    and who are you to make assumptions about the younguns who were just standing around doing nothing wrong?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 689 ✭✭✭Khyra24


    pragmatic1 wrote: »
    I agree that its mostly the parents fault but I dont think that corporal punishment is effective. I used to get hammered when I was younger, belts and all. I learned absolutely nothing from it apart from being more sneaky and that violence is acceptable. Its lazy parenting.


    Actually I agree with you on that too. I got my shares of whippings and beatings and I think it might've traumatized me to the point where I don't trust most people not to hurt me. I'm not sure about it being lazy parenting as it does require some effort to whip that belt and throw that shoe and all but I would've preferred some love instead of violence. :(

    Love, anyone?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 456 ✭✭Trog


    Khyra24 wrote: »
    Love, anyone?

    How much?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 689 ✭✭✭Khyra24


    Trog wrote: »
    How much?

    $5 and I guarantee you have a good time. :D


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 456 ✭✭Trog


    Too rich for my blood, darlin.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,645 ✭✭✭skippy15


    easyeason3 wrote: »
    Maybe get down off your own high horse for a minute. It wasn't because there was a group of them that made me uncomfortable, it was the way they were acting.
    And who the fcuk ever said that the house they were standing around is where I buy drugs??? Or that I buy drugs at all???
    Seriously who exactly do you think you are to make that assumption about me?

    I made the comment to prove a fact, I don't know you, your history or anything....so how can I make that assumption?
    You dont know these three groups of kids and you associated these three groups as drunks drug users and anti social youths, so who are you to make an assumption of 10 15 people???
    based on solely on how you felt, did you never stand around talking as a kid?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,645 ✭✭✭skippy15


    indough wrote: »
    and who are you to make assumptions about the younguns who were just standing around doing nothing wrong?
    point proven


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,104 ✭✭✭easyeason3


    Trog wrote: »
    So... Did this woman try to walk past and they didn't move, or did she walk around them of her own volition?

    Not liking their 'demeanour' is the same as not liking the look of them. I don't like people that bounce when they walk, it makes me uncomfortable. Does that mean they're doing something wrong? Did they say anything or do anything that suggests they were doing something wrong other than standing there when you'd prefer them not to be standing there, and not looking the way you would prefer them to look? (you can include their demeanor in how they look.)


    She tried to go through them but no one moved but they all laughed when she had to move around them.

    They were doing a mixture of things really, shouting at each other even though they are beside each other, shouldering each other, one guy had another guy in a headlock, a friendly headlock but they were being rough with each other.

    Other than the very loud comments on people passing & rough play I wouldn't have paid much attention to them. I was dressed in a hoodie & tracksuit as they were.
    I don't really see a hoodie & a tracksuit as an immediate alarm :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 689 ✭✭✭Khyra24


    Trog wrote: »
    Too rich for my blood, darlin.

    I can't go any lower, sorry. Too bad we can't do business with each other. :(


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,173 ✭✭✭✭How Soon Is Now


    Never get tired of these threads on Boards :pac:
    Seems be a new one repackaged with different location every couple days.

    Funny how it only usually seems to bother people over a certain age when theres young people hanging around.

    If was big load of 30 something auld ones hanging around ur street you wouldnt give a ****e u probley join them :P

    Unless there actually doing something to really cause you hassle and bother then whats the problem??

    People get so bloody uptight bout couple of kids arsing around with there mates not everyone under 20 who u dont understand wants to mug you ya no :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 456 ✭✭Trog


    easyeason3 wrote: »
    She tried to go through them but no one moved but they all laughed when she had to move around them.

    They were doing a mixture of things really, shouting at each other even though they are beside each other, shouldering each other, one guy had another guy in a headlock, a friendly headlock but they were being rough with each other.

    Other than the very loud comments on people passing & rough play I wouldn't have paid much attention to them. I was dressed in a hoodie & tracksuit as they were.
    I don't really see a hoodie & a tracksuit as an immediate alarm :)

    Still meh. It's being a dick not moving but still not really doing anything wrong there. I wasn't saying you didn't like their clothes, I was saying the only thing you didn't like was the general look of them. Still, I don't see your major problem here, they were keeping to themselves like.
    There's not much for teens to really do before they hit 18, so they hang around and mess on the street. Nothing wrong with it if they keep to themselves.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,104 ✭✭✭easyeason3


    skippy15 wrote: »
    I made the comment to prove a fact, I don't know you, your history or anything....so how can I make that assumption?
    You dont know these three groups of kids and you associated these three groups as drunks drug users and anti social youths, so who are you to make an assumption of 10 15 people???
    based on solely on how you felt, did you never stand around talking as a kid?


    Group standing outside drug house are regularly picked up by the Guards, drunk group were in fact drunk & were intent on letting everyone else know that they were in fact pissed & the third group were so rude, ignorant & obviously tough that they felt the need to let the rest of us know.
    Living in a small town so it's easy to know who is who.

    And you didn't make that comment to prove a fact. You made it because you were thick. And if I was off on a rant about the youth of today I would probably have thanked your post as it would have snapped me back to reality.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8 average citizen


    The youth of today really have no respect. They should be legally forced to tip their hat to every woman and bow their head to every older man who walks by (aswell as carry their groceries should they require assistance).

    There's an old couple living on my road, the poor woman is trapped in her home and never leaves because of a group of youths who sometimes congregate around the local cornershop drinking energy drinks and using vulgar language. The most shocking thing is that people would apparently sooner offer her anti-anxiety medication to help her conquer her fear (which is completely reasonable considering how defenceless she is compared to a group of teens) rather than force the little brats into line just to be safe.

    I have little hope for society.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,897 ✭✭✭MagicSean


    Poor lads probably suffer from ADD, or Acting the Dickhead Disorder.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    easyeason3 wrote: »
    I'm not old by any stretch but there's no way on earth I'd ever have been so disrespectful & downright ignorant as some of these gougers.
    Just like you weren't disrespectful, plenty of today's teens aren't disrespectful either. Those kids you saw aren't representative of all teens (if they were up to anything dodge that is).
    WTF is happening out there at the moment that teenagers are given free reign to do as they please?
    It's absolutely nothing new - you have an extremely rose-tinted view of the past, which was what... 10 years ago? :pac:
    Khyra24 wrote: »
    A lot of teenagers have no respect for elders and authority these days. They're really fresh and you know why? Because a lot of parents don't really give a damn. They let them do as they please or they're afraid of their own children. I think a lot of kids are in need of some corporal punishment...as it was done in my time!
    "Your time"? You seem about 25, if even that. A bit young to be going on like a cantankerous old fogey...
    Bullseye1 wrote: »
    A curfew should be introduced. Too many parents couldn't care less where their kids are or what they are up to.
    This stuff about complacent parents is really presumptuous - if you expect parents to constantly watch their teenagers you've a very skewed view of reality.
    kids noadays have nothing to do. back in the 80's/early 90's when i was a kid we went out and found stuff to do that kept us occupied
    Like what? I'm the same age as you and what's being described above sounds not too different to when I was a teenager.
    Funny how it only usually seems to bother people over a certain age when theres young people hanging around.
    Actually it's 20-somethings here who seem to go on like auldies the most. Several Boards regulars in their 30s/early 40s seem way more relaxed and way more of a laugh.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,526 ✭✭✭brendansmith


    I hear where you're coming from OP.
    I sighted a young adult from my automobile yesterday evening.
    Needless to say, I was disgusted.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,173 ✭✭✭✭How Soon Is Now


    Dudess wrote: »

    Actually it's 20-somethings here who seem to go on like auldies the most. Several Boards regulars in their 30s/early 40s seem way more relaxed and way more of a laugh.


    True hard to tell when cant see what age people are on here. You do see half the topics on here and assume ah these lot are past it just bitter with life at this stage :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,645 ✭✭✭skippy15


    easyeason3 wrote: »
    Group standing outside drug house are regularly picked up by the Guards, drunk group were in fact drunk & were intent on letting everyone else know that they were in fact pissed & the third group were so rude, ignorant & obviously tough that they felt the need to let the rest of us know.
    Living in a small town so it's easy to know who is who.

    And you didn't make that comment to prove a fact. You made it because you were thick. And if I was off on a rant about the youth of today I would probably have thanked your post as it would have snapped me back to reality.

    So if you stopped to talk to a friend outside that house...does it may you a drug user?
    Go to any school or even sports team and you would see kids fool around like that trying to act big, or even some adult sports team chelsea cough cough...as every generation gets older they say the youth of today are rude and disrespectful, its called life!

    And that comment was made to prove a point as the next poster to it easily picked up on, how you generalized 3 groups based on limited facts similar to how I categorised your self (to prove my point)...and again through your ignorance how you call me thick when the consensus on here is that your living in your own little bubble and how any group of 13- 18 year olds standing around may very well be doing similar things-


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,645 ✭✭✭skippy15


    Dudess wrote: »
    Just like you weren't disrespectful, plenty of today's teens aren't disrespectful either. Those kids you saw aren't representative of all teens (if they were up to anything dodge that is).

    It's absolutely nothing new - you have an extremely rose-tinted view of the past, which was what... 10 years ago? :pac:

    "Your time"? You seem about 25, if even that. A bit young to be going on like a cantankerous old fogey...

    This stuff about complacent parents is really presumptuous - if you expect parents to constantly watch their teenagers you've a very skewed view of reality.

    Like what? I'm the same age as you and what's being described above sounds not too different to when I was a teenager.

    Actually it's 20-somethings here who seem to go on like auldies the most. Several Boards regulars in their 30s/early 40s seem way more relaxed and way more of a laugh.
    good post- nice to see others on here live in the real world too-


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