Being "whipped"

xxchloexx

At what point is someone considered being whipped.
Had this conversation with my boyfriend the other day , he refused to admit that he was whipped (he is)
I said the fact he wouldn't watch football if i didn't want it on ,
Would go the shop for me when i wanted some grapes
Ditches his mates at the drop of a hat
and basically does what ever i want him to ..
His response was... "Im not, any boyfriend does that"
Why cant a man just admit that he's whipped?!?

ballsymchugh

maybe he just can't afford a hooker?

TeddyTedson

that's not a man you're going out with:rolleyes:

Jesus Wept

I hope he dumps you.

Tesco Massacre

No football? Shop? Grapes?

You sound horrible.

scientific1982

Hes in love with you. I'd pimp you.

Cianos

He has his excuse sorted so

Willbbz

We men are too manly for your verbal dominatrix jargon :cool:

AgileMyth

Sorry to be the one to inform you Chloe, but you are a total bitch.

DOC09UNAM

Sounds like you must be a durty burd in the bedroom.

YCHGTBOY

Benefits of being a woman...???

We got off the Titanic first.

We can scare male bosses with mysterious gynecological disorder excuses.

We get to flirt with systems support men who always return our calls, and are nice to us when we blow up our computers.

Our boyfriend's clothes make us look elfin & gorgeous.

Guys look like complete idiots in ours.

We can be groupies. Male groupies are stalkers.

We can cry and get off speeding fines.

Men die earlier, so we get to cash in on the life insurance.

We don't look like a frog in a blender when dancing.

Free drinks, Free dinners, Free movies (you get the point).

We can hug our friends without wondering if she thinks we're gay.

We can hug our friends without wondering if WE'RE gay.

New lipstick gives us a whole new lease on life.

It's possible to live our whole lives without ever taking a group shower.

No fashion faux pas we make could ever rival "The Speedo."

We don't have to fart to amuse ourselves.

If we forget to shave, no one has to know.

We can congratulate our teammate without ever touching her butt.

If we have a zit, we know how to conceal it.

We never have to reach down every so often to make sure our privates Are still there.

If we're dumb, some people will find it cute.

We have the ability to dress ourselves.

We can talk to people of the opposite sex without having to picture Them naked.

If we marry someone 20 years younger, we're aware that we look like an idiot.

Our friends won't think we're weird if we ask whether there's spinach in our teeth.

Gay waiters don't make us uncomfortable.

We'll never regret piercing our ears.

We can fully assess a person just by looking at their shoes.

mayordenis

Pretty dickish really.

Professey Chin

Sounds Divinely bitchwhipped to me

Scarinae

Why are you so keen for him to 'admit' that he is whipped?

CrazyBiscuit

A man is whipped when he allows his partner to treat him like rubbish and tell him what to do without any thought of his feelings*.
In reverse, how would the woman like the be bossed around and told she can't do something that she enjoys because the man doesnt want it.

*These are real manly feelings full of testosterone and muscle.

TeddyTedson

YCHGTBOY wrote: »

Benefits of being a woman...???

We got off the Titanic first.

We can scare male bosses with mysterious gynecological disorder excuses.

We get to flirt with systems support men who always return our calls, and are nice to us when we blow up our computers.

Our boyfriend's clothes make us look elfin & gorgeous.

Guys look like complete idiots in ours.

We can be groupies. Male groupies are stalkers.

We can cry and get off speeding fines.

Men die earlier, so we get to cash in on the life insurance.

We don't look like a frog in a blender when dancing.

Free drinks, Free dinners, Free movies (you get the point).

We can hug our friends without wondering if she thinks we're gay.

We can hug our friends without wondering if WE'RE gay.

New lipstick gives us a whole new lease on life.

It's possible to live our whole lives without ever taking a group shower.

No fashion faux pas we make could ever rival "The Speedo."

We don't have to fart to amuse ourselves.

If we forget to shave, no one has to know.

We can congratulate our teammate without ever touching her butt.

If we have a zit, we know how to conceal it.

We never have to reach down every so often to make sure our privates Are still there.

If we're dumb, some people will find it cute.

We have the ability to dress ourselves.

We can talk to people of the opposite sex without having to picture Them naked.

If we marry someone 20 years younger, we're aware that we look like an idiot.

Our friends won't think we're weird if we ask whether there's spinach in our teeth.

Gay waiters don't make us uncomfortable.

We'll never regret piercing our ears.

We can fully assess a person just by looking at their shoes.

tldr

scientific1982

YCHGTBOY wrote: »

Benefits of being a woman...???

We got off the Titanic first.

We can scare male bosses with mysterious gynecological disorder excuses.

We get to flirt with systems support men who always return our calls, and are nice to us when we blow up our computers.

Our boyfriend's clothes make us look elfin & gorgeous.

Guys look like complete idiots in ours.

We can be groupies. Male groupies are stalkers.

We can cry and get off speeding fines.

Men die earlier, so we get to cash in on the life insurance.

We don't look like a frog in a blender when dancing.

Free drinks, Free dinners, Free movies (you get the point).

We can hug our friends without wondering if she thinks we're gay.

We can hug our friends without wondering if WE'RE gay.

New lipstick gives us a whole new lease on life.

It's possible to live our whole lives without ever taking a group shower.

No fashion faux pas we make could ever rival "The Speedo."

We don't have to fart to amuse ourselves.

If we forget to shave, no one has to know.

We can congratulate our teammate without ever touching her butt.

If we have a zit, we know how to conceal it.

We never have to reach down every so often to make sure our privates Are still there.

If we're dumb, some people will find it cute.

We have the ability to dress ourselves.

We can talk to people of the opposite sex without having to picture Them naked.

If we marry someone 20 years younger, we're aware that we look like an idiot.

Our friends won't think we're weird if we ask whether there's spinach in our teeth.

Gay waiters don't make us uncomfortable.

We'll never regret piercing our ears.

We can fully assess a person just by looking at their shoes.

Yeah but yous dont have a willy.

AgileMyth

YCHGTBOY wrote: »

We can scare male bosses with mysterious gynecological disorder excuses.

Yes but a man can actually run a business and therefore not need to make up silly excuses.;)

admiralofthefleet

put your hand up if you want to talk chloe, there's a good lass

DOC09UNAM

YCHGTBOY wrote: »

Benefits of being a woman...???

We got off the Titanic first.

We can scare male bosses with mysterious gynecological disorder excuses.

We get to flirt with systems support men who always return our calls, and are nice to us when we blow up our computers.

Our boyfriend's clothes make us look elfin & gorgeous.

Guys look like complete idiots in ours.

We can be groupies. Male groupies are stalkers.

We can cry and get off speeding fines.

Men die earlier, so we get to cash in on the life insurance.

We don't look like a frog in a blender when dancing.

Free drinks, Free dinners, Free movies (you get the point).

We can hug our friends without wondering if she thinks we're gay.

We can hug our friends without wondering if WE'RE gay.

New lipstick gives us a whole new lease on life.

It's possible to live our whole lives without ever taking a group shower.

No fashion faux pas we make could ever rival "The Speedo."

We don't have to fart to amuse ourselves.

If we forget to shave, no one has to know.

We can congratulate our teammate without ever touching her butt.

If we have a zit, we know how to conceal it.

We never have to reach down every so often to make sure our privates Are still there.

If we're dumb, some people will find it cute.

We have the ability to dress ourselves.

We can talk to people of the opposite sex without having to picture Them naked.

If we marry someone 20 years younger, we're aware that we look like an idiot.

Our friends won't think we're weird if we ask whether there's spinach in our teeth.

Gay waiters don't make us uncomfortable.

We'll never regret piercing our ears.

We can fully assess a person just by looking at their shoes.

You forgot;

we make great sandwiches

xxchloexx

Come on im not a bitch , not many girls like watching football..
The fact he goes the shop when i want him to is because he drives i dont .. Its quicker that way..
And the fact he ditches his mates.. well sorry for wanting to spend more time with him.
I no for a fact if you asked him if i was a bad girlfriend he would say no.
I dont care where he goes with his mates when he wants to , he plays football every Sunday no complaints from me.
I just think its silly simple things that make a fella whipped.. Like what i said above.
And it was just a funny conversation , I said i had a sore back and he said he would run me a bath , i just said then "your whipped you no that" and thats how it started. He's a great boyfriend wouldn't change him for the world... Would never say being whipped is a bad thing , think it means you look after your girlfriend really well and treat her like a princess.
I just think most men would ever say they are whipped because they see it as a bad thing.. I was just wondering why.

MrStuffins

OP, you're not fooling anyone. It's VERY obvious you are "HardLuckWoman".

You have no boyfriend and this is a way you can act like you do to strangers on the internet.

Nobody has EVER gone to the shop for anyone for grapes!

alwaysadub

Why would you want a boyfriend who's whipped? I'd want my bf to have his own life too where he's free to do things without having to check with me every two seconds.

jaybee747

xxchloexx wrote: »

At what point is someone considered being whipped.
Ditches his mates at the drop of a hat
and basically does what ever i want him to ..
His response was... "Im not, any boyfriend does that"
Why cant a man just admit that he's whipped?!?

Your obviously looking after himself *wink *wink, thats why he does that, I know.
I drop my mates like a tonne of bricks when i'm on a promise, Does that make me whipped? I'll walk over hot coals if she wants.

MrStuffins

xxchloexx wrote: »

Come on im not a bitch , not many girls like watching football..
The fact he goes the shop when i want him to is because he drives i dont .. Its quicker that way..
And the fact he ditches his mates.. well sorry for wanting to spend more time with him.
I no for a fact if you asked him if i was a bad girlfriend he would say no.
I dont care where he goes with his mates when he wants to , he plays football every Sunday no complaints from me.
I just think its silly simple things that make a fella whipped.. Like what i said above.
And it was just a funny conversation , I said i had a sore back and he said he would run me a bath , i just said then "your whipped you no that" and thats how it started. He's a great boyfriend wouldn't change him from the world... Would never say being whipped is a bad thing , think it means you look after your girlfriend really well and treat her like a princess.
I just think most men would ever say they are whipped because they see it as a bad thing.. I was just wondering why.

If you are telling the truth and he is REALLY doing all of this, then it is quite evident he is cheating on you! he's cheating on you and is kinda guilty about it so he treats you this way.

But not guilty enough to stop drilling other chicks!

mikemac

If this was a personal issue you'd have started it there. Only a muppet or troll or attention seekers starts a relationship thread in After Hours

Within the next few weeks I predict a thread from you chloe over in Personal Issues.
"Why oh why did my boyfriend leave me????"
And I'll tell you why!
I'll probably get banned but will link to this thread

Why the hell did you start this thread in this forum?

Senna

xxchloexx wrote: »

At what point is someone considered being whipped.
Had this conversation with my boyfriend the other day , he refused to admit that he was whipped (he is)
I said the fact he wouldn't watch football if i didn't want it on ,
Would go the shop for me when i wanted some grapes
Ditches his mates at the drop of a hat
and basically does what ever i want him to ..
His response was... "Im not, any boyfriend does that"
Why cant a man just admit that he's whipped?!?

I know girls like you, they always wonder why they get dumped when the fella gets bored with your ****e.

ColeTrain

xxchloexx wrote: »

think it means you look after your girlfriend really well and treat her like a princess.

Yea because being driven to the shops for some grapes is royal standard.

MrStuffins

ColeTrain wrote: »

Yea because being driven to the shops for some grapes is royal standard.

"Wanna drive to the shop and get grapes?"

F*CK OFF!

"Wanna drive to the shop and get johnnies?"

Sorry love what's that? I can't hear you, i'm halfway to the shop already! Fancy some grapes while i'm here?

xxchloexx

Highly doubt we will be breaking up anytime soon , with a baby on the way ... Anyways, He does have his own life but he just knows that im involved in his life and he puts me first , which i think is fair seems as i would always put him first. I would do anything for him , going to get your pregnant girlfriend some grapes for her cravings is hardly considered monsterous is it??? you could say im whipped aswel , thing is though i wouldn't care. It just seems any man that is whipped will go to no ends to say they are not. Call me whipped all you like , men are just more stuburn i think

xxchloexx

ColeTrain wrote: »

Yea because being driven to the shops for some grapes is royal standard.

I didn't get driven.. i waited at home on my throne.

Jesus Wept

Queen Elizabeth: Phillip, bring the car around, I rather fancy some grapes.
Prince Phillip: Very good mam, green or red?
Queen Elizabeth: Call me when you get there.
Prince Prince: Spar mam?
Queen Elizabeth: There's an Esso that is nearer.
Prince Phillip: Quite, mam, one might have a curly wurly?
Queen Elizabath: Quite.

ColeTrain

MrStuffins wrote: »

"Wanna drive to the shop and get grapes?"

F*CK OFF!

"Wanna drive to the shop and get johnnies?"

Sorry love what's that? I can't hear you, i'm halfway to the shop already! Fancy some grapes while i'm here?

The thing that got me was If the guy was that whipped then surely he would have let the Princess sit at home while he made the trip to Tesco.

I used to work there and never dealt with any princesses at the produce section.

MrStuffins

MrStuffins wrote: »

it is quite evident he is cheating on you! he's cheating on you and is kinda guilty..........

xxchloexx wrote: »

a baby on the way

Wow, he's DEFINITELY cheating! No wonder he feels guilty!

TeddyTedson

Do you ever cheat on him?

Oranage2

You look like a princess in your pictures on your profile ;);)

MrStuffins

xxchloexx wrote: »

Highly doubt we will be breaking up anytime soon , with a baby on the way

You really should've had the below conversation a few months ago

MrStuffins wrote: »

"Wanna drive to the shop and get johnnies?"

ColeTrain

xxchloexx wrote: »

I didn't get driven.. i waited at home on my throne.

Well that does away with my earlier reply. My apologies your majesty

xxchloexx

TeddyTedson wrote: »

Do you ever cheat on him?

Im not a slut.

Dangerous Man

Any woman who takes glee in considering their boyfriend 'whipped' has no clue what it means to be in a relationship with a man. I'm sure you're at heart a decent caring person, but I hope your boyfriend dumps you and leaves alone in a bedsit with the baby crying all night.

MrStuffins

Dangerous Man wrote: »

Any woman who takes glee in considering their boyfriend 'whipped' has no clue what it means to be in a relationship with a man. I'm sure you're at heart a decent caring person, but I hope your boyfriend dumps you and leaves alone in a bedsit with the baby crying all night.

She's not in a relationship with a man. She's in a relationship with someone who would drop his mates and switch off the football at the drop of a hat!

That's no man!

annieire

xxchloexx wrote: »

At what point is someone considered being whipped.
Had this conversation with my boyfriend the other day , he refused to admit that he was whipped (he is)
I said the fact he wouldn't watch football if i didn't want it on ,
Would go the shop for me when i wanted some grapes
Ditches his mates at the drop of a hat
and basically does what ever i want him to ..
His response was... "Im not, any boyfriend does that"
Why cant a man just admit that he's whipped?!?

Yeah, that sounds like a lovely relationship alright...
Poor guy, i think you are taking him for granted

MrStuffins

annieire wrote: »

Yeah, that sounds like a lovely relationship alright...
Poor guy, i think you are taking him for granted

And then she goes onto the internet bad mouthing him, telling complete strangers he's whipped?

Disgraceful!

I'm glad he's cheating on her!

xxchloexx

Dangerous Man wrote: »

Any woman who takes glee in considering their boyfriend 'whipped' has no clue what it means to be in a relationship with a man. I'm sure you're at heart a decent caring person, but I hope your boyfriend dumps you and leaves alone in a bedsit with the baby crying all night.

You seem like a lovely man..... wishing a pregant woman to be dumped and bring up a child on her own. Oh how i wish there were more men like you out there. Give me my lovely WHIPPED boyfriend anyday. I would rather like to be in a relationship i have no idea what its about ?? what does that mean u tard. Then ever be in one with you. Good luck to you ya horrible spitefull man.
Hope when im in the bedsit with my screaming baby it doesn't disturb you and the hooker your paying for the night. Cause no way could a woman be in a relationship with you , if you are in one. Hope your my new bedsit neighbour when she realises your a d**k







Harsh?? i'm 6 months pregnant...hormonal. Someone telling me they hope my boyfriend dumps me because a bit of banter between us got what was on my mind :mad:

digme

xxchloexx wrote: »

At what point is someone considered being whipped.
Had this conversation with my boyfriend the other day , he refused to admit that he was whipped (he is)
I said the fact he wouldn't watch football if i didn't want it on ,
Would go the shop for me when i wanted some grapes
Ditches his mates at the drop of a hat
and basically does what ever i want him to ..
His response was... "Im not, any boyfriend does that"
Why cant a man just admit that he's whipped?!?

doubt the relationship will last long

xxchloexx

MrStuffins wrote: »

And then she goes onto the internet bad mouthing him, telling complete strangers he's whipped?

Disgraceful!

I'm glad he's cheating on her!

My point excatly.. why is the word "whipped" so offensive. He's beside me now reading this laughing at the response its getting. He would tell anyone he does anything for me. And as for cheating on me...grow up.

mikemac

Can I ask why you are badmouthing your boyfriend on a busy forum on Ireland's largest message board.

With your profile pics you are not exactly anonymous

Don't worry if you are a single parent in a bedsit , taxpayers will pay your rent

MrStuffins

xxchloexx wrote: »

My point excatly.. why is the word "whipped" so offensive. He's beside me now reading this laughing at the response its getting. He would tell anyone he does anything for me. And as for cheating on me...grow up.

You don't think he's cheating on you? Are you so gullible?

Did he also say 6 months ago "No baby, you can't get pregnant the first time, don't worry!"

Richard Dower

xxchloexx wrote: »

At what point is someone considered being whipped.
Had this conversation with my boyfriend the other day , he refused to admit that he was whipped (he is)
I said the fact he wouldn't watch football if i didn't want it on ,
Would go the shop for me when i wanted some grapes
Ditches his mates at the drop of a hat
and basically does what ever i want him to ..
His response was... "Im not, any boyfriend does that"
Why cant a man just admit that he's whipped?!?

Instead of calling him whipped, why not APPRECIATE all that he does for you and realise these "whipped" things he does for you is a positive thing, instead of making fun of him on the internet.

You seems like a b!tch to me, imo.... :mad:

MrStuffins

feelingstressed wrote: »

Can I ask why you are badmouthing your boyfriend on a busy forum on Ireland's largest message board.

With your profile pics you are not exactly anonymous

the pics aren't her!

Lia_lia

Another reason why I don't do relationships anymore.