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Do you keep in touch with your ex/ex's ???

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  • 02-12-2010 11:48pm
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    SIX PACK
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    Simple curious question do you stay in contact remain "friends" with an ex or 3 ?? Provided i suppose the break up was on good terms or a joint decision, Or perhaps both parties still have a lot of respect for eachother & the relationship fizzled out but still remain friends
    I know Simon Cowell stays in contact with a few of his ex lovers !!

    For me i do remain friends with some of my former Squeezes thats as far as it goes. It drives my Fiancé crazy, So cant even be friends with them on FB im cool with it though dont want to start another row


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    alwaysadub
    Registered Users Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    Do with some
    Don't with others.


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    brummytom
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    I couldn't possibly keep in touch with all of them


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    scientific1982
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,562 ✭✭✭scientific1982


    Dont keep in contact with them but most of them are nice girls.


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    #5
    alwaysadub
    Registered Users Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    brummytom wrote: »
    I couldn't possibly keep in touch with all of them

    Do you keep in touch with your hand though?


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    brummytom
    Registered Users Posts: 10,572 ✭✭✭✭brummytom


    alwaysadub wrote: »
    Do you keep in touch with your hand though?
    Constantly


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    #7
    Dr_Phil
    Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭Dr_Phil


    No.

    It is "ex" for a reason. There is nothing left to say.


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    Mint Sauce
    Registered Users Posts: 29,294 ✭✭✭✭Mint Sauce


    No, something to do with a restraining order.


















































    thats a joke btw ;)


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    #9
    Dionysus
    Registered Users Posts: 3,420 ✭✭✭Dionysus


    SIX PACK wrote: »
    Do you keep in touch with your ex/ex's ???

    No. Nay. Never.


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    Sofiztikated
    Registered Users Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    brummytom wrote: »
    Constantly

    What an odd remark. One would imagine that, should one still possess all their apendages, one would continuously be in contact.

    I do with some (one), I don't with others (also one).

    It depends, if they were actually arseholearific, then no.


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    Pawpad666
    Registered Users Posts: 114 ✭✭Pawpad666


    Yip, sure do. Good mates then, good mates now (in most cases).


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    Pherekydes
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    No, I don't keep in touch with her.

    She's an ex for a reason.


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    dirtyghettokid
    Registered Users Posts: 2,988 ✭✭✭dirtyghettokid


    most of the time no! but the last bf i had before my husband is now one of my best friends and it's amazing to have that. it's all good! i suppose it depends on the way you broke up..?


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    BraziliaNZ
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    One hates me so no. The others are bitches from hell. So no.


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    Daisy Steiner
    Closed Accounts Posts: 751 ✭✭✭Daisy Steiner


    I only keep in touch with one, and he was my longest relationship as well.

    The rest of 'em (that I can recall) can go and shoite!







    Baxtards.







































    Forever alone :(


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    Stained Class
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,808 ✭✭✭Stained Class


    No.

    Why would you?

    Be in sight of a situation that was a failure!:confused:

    God, some people...


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    Latchy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Being a bigamist doesn't give me much choice





    that's a joke to


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    nermal15
    Registered Users Posts: 324 ✭✭nermal15


    I keep in touch with two, I went out with both of them when I was very young and they're both friends with all my friends so it would be a bit petty of me to ignore them. :P They're really good friends, also.


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    krudler
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    Their heads are mounted on my wall, so yeah, I see them all the time.


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    Pauleta
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,778 ✭✭✭Pauleta


    Ive had 3 proper girlfriends. Im good friends with one, In fact she has been going out with my mate for a few years now :pac:. Another one i would always chat to when i see her without it being awkward but have zero interest in her sexually. The other one i havnt talked to or seen in years.


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    #21
    Aodan83
    Registered Users Posts: 1,110 ✭✭✭Aodan83


    No. Did keep up with one for a while, but that was more because we had mutual friends than anything else. I don't see any reason why anyone should specifically try to keep up with their exes, the relationship failed for a reason, better off to just leave it most of the time.


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    #22
    whatsamsn
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    Depends on how it ends.

    If it was a nasty ending (cheating, lies etc) ... then hell no. They aint no friend of mine.
    If it was an ok break-up ... Yes and No. Most people tend to get on with their own lives and see an ex as the past.
    In my experience post-relationship friendship tends to form when there are mutal friends & if not any mutual friends it tends to be they were still having sex after the breakup which just leaded towards the friends route.


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    #23
    Turtyturd
    Registered Users Posts: 28,394 ✭✭✭✭Turtyturd


    Nope, but if Simon Cowell does it then I might give it a go.


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    PeterIanStaker
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    Nope, seriously couldn't be arsed. Her friends on the other hand are good for inside info/gossip - shows they're not very good friends.


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    Odysseus
    Registered Users Posts: 6,754 ✭✭✭Odysseus


    Last one is not too long over, she works in a clinic where I do a few hours, so there has to be professional contact, but she just had a very recent bereavement, so on those grounds I keep some contact.


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    AskMyChocolate
    Registered Users Posts: 2,312 ✭✭✭AskMyChocolate


    brummytom wrote: »
    I couldn't possibly keep in touch with all of them

    So many women. Only one bicycle pump.:pac:


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    starbelgrade
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    alwaysadub wrote: »
    Do with some
    Don't with others.

    Some of them haven't managed to get the restraining orders yet. :D


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    Princess Peach
    Registered Users Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    I've stayed in contact with my last boyfriend. Partly cause I thought it was the mature thing to do, and partly cause I wanted him to take me back. Its turned out to be a bad idea on a few occasions.


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    #29
    stupidusername
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,762 ✭✭✭✭stupidusername


    I'm best friends with my ex. we get on great as friends. same sense of humour. see many things the same way.


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    #30
    alwaysadub
    Registered Users Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    starbelgrade wrote: »
    Some of them haven't managed to get the restraining orders yet. :D


    Who've you been talking to?!
    :P


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    #31
    STIG83
    Registered Users Posts: 3,588 ✭✭✭STIG83


    Some of my ex Gfs i do, some i dont


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