Male multiple orgasms

Diapason

No, not a joke (I think). I bought a book by Mantak Chia ages ago that promised to unlock the secrets of male multiple orgasm. (This doesn't mean multiple ejaculation, it's all about separating the orgasmic feeling from ejaculation itself, thus allowing the man to experience several orgasms in a session.)

Anyway, I'm a lazy b'std so I stopped bothering with the whole thing shortly afterwards, but not before I persuaded myself that there might just be something to it. Now that we're in a recession and most entertainment is to be found at home, I'm wondering if I should start doing the exercises again. So basically my question is:

Is there anybody out there whose ever managed to perfect the technique? Does it work?? Do you now feel like a god amongst men???

Diapason

Just noticed, this reads like a shill post. It's not.

amazingemmet

I've used probably the same techniques as whats in that book (haven't read it) for some time. Its worth the effort.

big b

Come again?

Ebbs

big b wrote: »

Come again?

Not for another 15 mins, dear.


Ill get my coat.

Snap2010

I heard of some Tibetan monks who mastered orgasm's without ejaculating meaning they don't lose their drive

Diapason

Snap2010 wrote: »

I heard of some Tibetan monks who mastered orgasm's without ejaculating meaning they don't lose their drive

Yeah, this is the same thing.

Part of what put me off the book is the constant talk of spirituality and chi and all that guff. Just give the techniques, dammit!

amazingemmet

A quickstart guide is basically:

Ejaculation and orgasm are seperate processes which happen at the same time in males and with a bit of practice you can seperate the two ie orgasm without ejaculating and ejaculating without orgasm. Theres two phases to a normal orgasm the emmission stage when sperm and semen are released then the contraction phase, the contractions are what gives the feeling of orgasm and pump out the goo so to speak.

A bit of alone time practice is needed but to get it simply:
0:google "kegels" and get used to working and squeezing those muscles for a long hold.

1: when approaching orgasm keep breathing deep not shallow like you normally would, real deep belly breaths nice and slow.

2:when you approach orgasm squeeze the kegel muscles as hard as possible and try let the contractions of the penis happen, its one of these rub your stomach and pat your head sort things

Best practice is to just try get your self as close as possible but then stop and see if you can feel the different stages happen.

Bottle_of_Smoke

Snap2010 wrote: »

I heard of some Tibetan monks who mastered orgasm's without ejaculating meaning they don't lose their drive

Its a myth that ejaculating makes you lose your drive or decreases testosterone. It does the opposite.

Bottle_of_Smoke

amazingemmet wrote: »

A quickstart guide is basically:

Ejaculation and orgasm are seperate processes which happen at the same time in males and with a bit of practice you can seperate the two ie orgasm without ejaculating and ejaculating without orgasm. Theres two phases to a normal orgasm the emmission stage when sperm and semen are released then the contraction phase, the contractions are what gives the feeling of orgasm and pump out the goo so to speak.

A bit of alone time practice is needed but to get it simply:
0:google "kegels" and get used to working and squeezing those muscles for a long hold.

1: when approaching orgasm keep breathing deep not shallow like you normally would, real deep belly breaths nice and slow.

2:when you approach orgasm squeeze the kegel muscles as hard as possible and try let the contractions of the penis happen, its one of these rub your stomach and pat your head sort things

Best practice is to just try get your self as close as possible but then stop and see if you can feel the different stages happen.

Is there any physical danger with this? Thought I read somewhere that you still ejaculate but the sperm/semen goes into the urinary system. Might be utter bollocks but as orgasm causes ejaculation surely some seminal fluiods are released

Bottle_of_Smoke

Bottle_of_Smoke wrote: »

Might be utter bollocks

Technically that is eactly what it is.

Ebbs get my coat too while you're up.

amazingemmet

Bottle_of_Smoke wrote: »

Is there any physical danger with this? Thought I read somewhere that you still ejaculate but the sperm/semen goes into the urinary system. Might be utter bollocks but as orgasm causes ejaculation surely some seminal fluiods are released

There's no danger of this if you do it right as you're stopping the emmission of semen and sperm into the urethra. There is a thing called retrograde ejaculation where you phsyically stop the ejaculate leaving and this can be dangerous its speculated as it can open the valve at the bladder. its easy to distingush between the two, when you pee after sex if its a retrograde one you'll have foamy piss and if its been done properly you'll have normal.

Rabble Rabble

sounds sore, tbh. Lasting longer makes sense. This bs - not so much.

amazingemmet

It is pretty much lasting longer but with the added bonus of more orgasms, win to me tbh

silkworm53

Reminds me of a joke I heard once.

A woman boarded a 747 for a flight from New York to London.
She was directed to her seat by the stewardess, smiled at the pleasant looking man sitting in the window seat as she sat down and buckled up.
The plane took off and reached its cruising altitude before she unbuckled her belt leaned back and closed her eyes hoping to catch a few hours sleep.
However she woke with a start when she heard a sneeze followed by loud groaning.
She opened her eyes in a flash and stared in open mouthed horror to find the man beside her had taken out his erect penis and was wiping it clean with his hanker-chief.
'What are you doing!' she gasped.
'Sorry madam, I have a rare medical condition. Whenever I sneeze I ejaculate.'
She flushed with embarrassment.
'Oh I'm terribly sorry. I apologize. I thought you were some kind of pervert or something.'
'That's quite alright madam. It happens all the time.'
She thought for a moment.
'Have you seen a doctor? Sure there is something you can take?'
He smiled.
'Pepper.'

scientific1982

I had one when I was a teenager but unfortunately I was alone.

PeakOutput

dont think its been said already but the reason this works is your body realises it hasnt ejaculated so it keeps you ready for action and you dont lose the erection straight after like you usually do when you ejaculate

Diapason

PeakOutput wrote: »

dont think its been said already but the reason this works is your body realises it hasnt ejaculated so it keeps you ready for action and you dont lose the erection straight after like you usually do when you ejaculate

Indeed. And you if you *do* have one of those retrograde ejaculations where the semen goes back into your bladder, your body realises that the deed is done and that's the end of things. So even if you think you haven't ejaculated, a wilter means that you probably have.

kayos

amazingemmet wrote: »

It is pretty much lasting longer but with the added bonus of more orgasms, win to me tbh

And of course unlocking the full body orgasm.... which is

Wolfe Tone

This sounds pretty cool. So is this one of the things which are nearly impossible to do?

Otis Driftwood

Sounds very similar to tantric sex.Sting is a big advocate of it.Apparantly it does take alot of work to perfect but those that do say its more than worth it.

Diapason

He was sending his love down the well.

Nevyn

MUSSOLINI wrote: »

This sounds pretty cool. So is this one of the things which are nearly impossible to do?

Not impossible there is just a knack to it and you need to spend time figuring out your bodies own responses.

amazingemmet

nedtheshed wrote: »

Sounds very similar to tantric sex.Sting is a big advocate of it.Apparantly it does take alot of work to perfect but those that do say its more than worth it.

Its mainly comes from taoist sexuality, traditional tantra is more in favour of holding off on as long as possible and riding the wave so to speak. But the line blurs between these things when they get westernised

DS333

Hey!

I started doing the exercises last night and they gave me an orgasm. There was nothing retrograde about it either.

I'm obviously not doing them right.

And it was purely the exercise, in case anybody gets bright ideas.

jackthelad321

I wish I was interested enough to try this out. It's winter. Far too nippy.

Ficheall

silkworm53 wrote: »

Reminds me of a joke I heard once.

A woman boarded a 747 for a flight from New York to London.
She was directed to her seat by the stewardess, smiled at the pleasant looking man sitting in the window seat as she sat down and buckled up.
The plane took off and reached its cruising altitude before she unbuckled her belt leaned back and closed her eyes hoping to catch a few hours sleep.
However she woke with a start when she heard a sneeze followed by loud groaning.
She opened her eyes in a flash and stared in open mouthed horror to find the man beside her had taken out his erect penis and was wiping it clean with his hanker-chief.
'What are you doing!' she gasped.
'Sorry madam, I have a rare medical condition. Whenever I sneeze I ejaculate.'
She flushed with embarrassment.
'Oh I'm terribly sorry. I apologize. I thought you were some kind of pervert or something.'
'That's quite alright madam. It happens all the time.'
She thought for a moment.
'Have you seen a doctor? Sure there is something you can take?'
He smiled.
'Pepper.'

Neil Prenderville?

28064212

DS333 wrote: »

Hey!

I started doing the exercises last night and they gave me an orgasm. There was nothing retrograde about it either.

I'm obviously not doing them right.

And it was purely the exercise, in case anybody gets bright ideas.

As in, you were just clenching your kegel muscles and had an orgasm without touching yourself? I've never heard of that happening

DS333

28064212 wrote: »

As in, you were just clenching your kegel muscles and had an orgasm without touching yourself? I've never heard of that happening

Neither did I, but I did clench them and keep clenching them more and more for 10 seconds. By the fifth contraction all was over. And, for the record, I never laid a hand on myself. But, every time I clench them with force, I do feel that incipient orgasm sensation blooming inside.

Dare I ask if I have discovered masturbation without the sin and guilt?:o
What will the bishops say?!:eek:

28064212

DS333 wrote: »

Neither did I, but I did clench them and keep clenching them more and more for 10 seconds. By the fifth contraction all was over. And, for the record, I never laid a hand on myself. But, every time I clench them with force, I do feel that incipient orgasm sensation blooming inside.

:eek:

DS333 wrote: »

Dare I ask if I have discovered masturbation without the sin and guilt?:o
What will the bishops say?!:eek:

Nah, the Christians are all about the spilling the seed, not the touching oneself. But you have discovered a way to make time fly in even the most boring meetings :pac:

DS333

28064212 wrote: »

:eek:


Nah, the Christians are all about the spilling the seed, not the touching oneself. But you have discovered a way to make time fly in even the most boring meetings :pac:

I didn't think of that and probably shouldn't.:D
What sort of mind do you have?!:pac:

Nevyn

28064212 wrote: »

As in, you were just clenching your kegel muscles and had an orgasm without touching yourself? I've never heard of that happening

Some women can do it too.

28064212

DS333 wrote: »

I didn't think of that and probably shouldn't.:D
What sort of mind do you have?!:pac:

Been in one too many boring meetings. There's so many possibilities though: bus journeys, traffic jams, waiting in line at the supermarket, more or less constantly at work...

Thaedydal wrote: »

Some women can do it too.

That, I had heard of, although I've never known one who claimed to be able to do it. Jealous of anyone that can tbh

DS333

28064212 wrote: »

Been in one too many boring meetings. There's so many possibilities though: bus journeys, traffic jams, waiting in line at the supermarket, more or less constantly at work...


That, I had heard of, although I've never known one who claimed to be able to do it. Jealous of anyone that can tbh

I'd die of dehydration if I took your advice!:D

Still... What I want to know is, when do the multiples set in...?...:o

Logical Fallacy

After you get the multiples down, starting looking into stacking and chaining.

Awesome business altogether.

DS333

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

After you get the multiples down, starting looking into stacking and chaining.

Awesome business altogether.

Mmm...
Am I on the slippery slope, by any chance?:eek:
Where will it all end?!:o

Otis Driftwood

If ya perfect it,in a very happy place.

kaiser sauze

I have managed to this, the first time I did it was an accident as I was interrupted while 'Pammy' was visiting.

I've done it several times since(never more than twice in one go), but can't really see the benefit, to be honest. Just blow it and start again!

In the heat of passion the discipline involved is the big no-no for me.

DS333

After reading this thread I got the book and began the exercises. It's true! It works!!

5 days into this I experienced my first whole body orgasm. Like an electric current running over the entire surface of my skin and really hypersensitizing it, and pulses of a deeper current coursing through my insides in waves. I kept it going for an hour and can bring it on anytime now with a little concentration. Rather than tiring me out, it invigorates me. Because there's no ejaculation involved, you can do it anywhere. It's a great way of relieving tension, frustration, anger and cooling a bad temper. No, it's not as intense as that few-second ordinary orgasm, but it can last as long as you like. Just follow the practice instructions. I've only got as far as the Cool Draw. What will happen when I start doing the Big Draw?!:eek:

Every man should read this book. It should replace the crappy sex education curriculum used in schools. Even Catholic schools. What did God give us sensory organs for but to experience pleasure? We're not using one of the talents he gave us. - That's for the bishops who look on sex as something to be mentioned with caution.:) If I had a son, I'd be goving the book to him.

There are also two chapters directed at women so relationships should hit an all-time high.

Reward

Do it, you can get some of the benefits from kegels by themselves. Also, when you are building that energy up and moving it around your body there can be intense side effects if you are not doing it properly, for example if you don't move the energy out of your head and back down you can get headaches from the pressure and it can exaggerate any emotions that you have have at the time, so you need to be in a good place mentally before you start moving sexual energy around your body.

DS333

Reward wrote: »

Do it, you can get some of the benefits from kegels by themselves. Also, when you are building that energy up and moving it around your body there can be intense side effects if you are not doing it properly, for example if you don't move the energy out of your head and back down you can get headaches from the pressure and it can exaggerate any emotions that you have have at the time, so you need to be in a good place mentally before you start moving sexual energy around your body.

That's true. The first morning I had a splitting headache but it went soon after I moved the energy out of my head.

But what a book, eh?!:):D

SarahMs

oopppsss I just flicked onto Oprah

Reward

SarahMs wrote: »

oopppsss I just flicked onto Oprah

LOL!

Reward

DS333 wrote: »

That's true. The first morning I had a splitting headache but it went soon after I moved the energy out of my head.

But what a book, eh?!:):D

Yeah, Ive not had a copy for years, I was sleeping with a neighbour and she borrowed it from me, for her boyfriend, cheeky bitch! Then I left the country without getting it back...

DS333

Reward wrote: »

Yeah, Ive not had a copy for years, I was sleeping with a neighbour and she borrowed it from me, for her boyfriend, cheeky bitch! Then I left the country without getting it back...

Cheeky, yeah, but what a compliment. You were the great lover she wanted her boyfriend to be. So she took the book.:D

[-0-]

You need to do the Kegel exercises for a while before you attempt to stop yourself ejaculating so that the muscles are strong enough (there's two of them). When flexing the muscle (you do it when you stop yourself pissing mid-flow) too soon, it will actually cause you to ejaculate. You need to wait until you are a couple of seconds before the 'point of no return' then flex it. Once you get the hang of this, you can do it 5 seconds before, or even 10 seconds before... and give yourself an orgasm without ejaculating, and just keep going.

Josh_Calvert

I've had multiple orgasms by accident...the most recent was a couple years ago on the side of bray head on a glorious summer morning with a hot Russian girl I met off okcupid.Heavy petting, a lot of grinding, exploded in my trousers, her then pulling me off, came twice again with full loads.3 orgasms,3 full ejaculations all within no more than 2 minutes....maybe not strictly multiple orgasms, but close and very enjoyable.

DS333

Josh_Calvert wrote: »

I've had multiple orgasms by accident...the most recent was a couple years ago on the side of bray head on a glorious summer morning with a hot Russian girl I met off okcupid.Heavy petting, a lot of grinding, exploded in my trousers, her then pulling me off, came twice again with full loads.3 orgasms,3 full ejaculations all within no more than 2 minutes....maybe not strictly multiple orgasms, but close and very enjoyable.

Should we all be making for Bray Head ( if it hasn't collapsed into the sea ), or looking for the Russian doll?:D:D:D